Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I will be taking a hiatus from dating for awhile as I am healing
from tonsil cancer. However, I am still available to those who want
to learn more about Tantra, Dating and Relationship skills. So, I
will not be opting out completely.
I'm here to expand my community. I am a Tantric adept and identify
as Polyamorous. I prefer to connect with others who are into
expanding consciousness, adventuring in relationship, spiritual and
personal growth, Tantra and the poly lovestyle.
I am a Life, Love and Sex Coach offering sex-positive facilitation
without judgement, focusing on "what works!" through private
coaching, workshops, media outreach, speaking engagements and
writing in the Valley in Los Angeles, online, and through
I am into quality connections, intimate, inclusive relating, mutual
support and creative exploration. In my desire to build community,
I am also interested in finding or participating in the creation of
a communal lifestyle where there are independent living spaces and
Very recently single after a 10 year relationship, I am interested
in expanding my social circle and life and having some fun! So,
let's take it slow, relax and enjoy the journey.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a life, love and sex coach on the media trail. i am learning
the ins and outs of successful internet and media outreach. I love
to explore and adventure in consciousness, relationship, travel,
video and music and writing.
My Personal Purpose: To awaken and enliven my being in love and
freedom and to share that with others who are interested.
My Career Purpose: To share the joy and wisdom I have discovered in
relationships and sex, making them user-friendly while expanding
sexual activation/healing, power and self-esteem.
My Planetary Purpose: To expand my/others ability to include more
love, passion, freedom, and sexual/relationship satisfaction in the
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making and being a great and loving friend, giving parties,
singing, playing, creating, tantra, supporting transformation,
ceremony, acting, reading, computer skills, administration,
hostessing, sex, research, skiing, writing, speaking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm charismatic, fun, communicative, put people at ease, sexy,
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I only allow myself the occasional novel as I am an unrepentant
book-aholic and novels become surgically implanted in my hands
until completed, then of course, there is the afterglow and
subsequent withdrawal symptoms exiting the immersion in that
I love historical novels - it makes discovering history so much
more fun and I like to taste the flavors of times gone by.
I love science fiction and fantasy when well done. It expands my
mind to the possibilities.
I love well done erotica. Turn on my mind, and my body will
I adore musicals from all times. Music and dance and passion are
what life is all about!
I read a lot of spiritual and psychological books to enhance my
life, inspire me and discover more about how "it" all works.
I love action and adventure, but you will find me hiding my eyes
when any violence, blood, gore or hurtful things are going on --
and I get very uncomfortable when someone is in a pickle about to
get in trouble and may make a run for the bathroom til it is over
and then ask you to tell me what happened!
I am slowly easing my way into a more vegetarian diet and have
excluded white foods in the interest of bettering my health. If you
have your heath, the possibilities are still endless!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Beauty in my surroundings
Hanging out with those I love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Spiritual questions and understanding the best ways to align with
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
For dating: ONLY if you are a Tantric Adept and seasoned
polyamorist. Teaching this stuff is my profession, and I prefer not
to take on that role in my personal romantic life. Been there. Done
that. Not so rewarding.
Please tell me about your background in this If we are not a 90%
match or above, tell me why you think it is worth our time to
explore one another.
You are interested in relationship or sexual coaching.
You are into tantra and polyamorous community building.
You are curious about alternative lovestyles and have
If you think we would make great friends! From there we can see
what may evolve!
And a bit of advice: If you elect to contact me, please let me know
what has motivated the outreach. I will not reply to those who do
not. I have had many guys just reach out and say hi... which may be
nice, but not a decent conversation starter and is missing any self
revelation that might be of interest.
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