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59 • North Hollywood, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–75
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Apr 24
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Other, and laughing about it
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
I'm here to expand my community. I am a Tantric adept and identify as Polyamorous. I prefer to connect with others who are into expanding consciousness, adventuring in relationship, spiritual and personal growth, Tantra and the poly lovestyle.
I am a Life, Love and Sex Coach offering sex-positive facilitation without judgement, focusing on "what works!" through private coaching, workshops, media outreach, speaking engagements and writing in the Valley in Los Angeles, online, and through travel.
I am into quality connections, intimate, inclusive relating, mutual support and creative exploration. In my desire to build community, I am also interested in finding or participating in the creation of a communal lifestyle where there are independent living spaces and shared space.
I have recently become involved in an incredible poly relationship. We are both bi-sexual and available to expand our social circle with quality, synergistic deep connections, and having some fun! So, let's take it slow, relax and enjoy the journey.
My Personal Purpose: To awaken and enliven my being in love and freedom and to share that with others who are interested.
My Career Purpose: To share the joy and wisdom I have discovered in relationships and sex, making them user-friendly while expanding sexual activation/healing, power and self-esteem.
My Planetary Purpose: To expand my/others ability to include more love, passion, freedom, and sexual/relationship satisfaction in the world.
I love historical novels - it makes discovering history so much more fun and I like to taste the flavors of times gone by.
I love science fiction and fantasy when well done. It expands my mind to the possibilities.
I love well done erotica. Turn on my mind, and my body will follow!
I adore musicals from all times. Music and dance and passion are what life is all about!
I read a lot of spiritual and psychological books to enhance my life, inspire me and discover more about how "it" all works.
I love action and adventure, but you will find me hiding my eyes when any violence, blood, gore or hurtful things are going on -- and I get very uncomfortable when someone is in a pickle about to get in trouble and may make a run for the bathroom til it is over and then ask you to tell me what happened!
I am slowly easing my way into a more vegetarian diet and have excluded white foods in the interest of bettering my health. If you have your heath, the possibilities are still endless!
Hanging out with those I love
Please tell me about your background in this If we are not a 90% match or above, tell me why you think it is worth our time to explore one another.
You are interested in relationship or sexual coaching.
You are into tantra and polyamorous community building.
You are curious about alternative lovestyles and have questions.
If you think we would make great friends! From there we can see what may evolve!
And a bit of advice: alPlease read my profile fully before you contact me. It was written as a conversation starter and to answer some very fundamental questions you may initially have. I hope not to have to answer them again. If you elect to contact me, please let me know what has motivated the outreach. I will not reply to those who do not. I have had many guys just reach out and say hi... which may be nice, but not a decent conversation starter and is missing any self revelation that might be of interest. For me, this is indicative of your true interest level in things that I find valuable. I have neither the time nor the interested in anything less.
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