Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I prefer to meet people offline, but friends tell me I should be
So that there are no unpleasant surprises, I am a practitioner of
Vodun (popularly known as Voodoo) and am not interested in
converting to anything else.
I like men who are men. I don't have a problem being friends with
others, but for relationships I prefer guys who are masculine
enough to recognize my femininity. I understand that I'm no beauty
queen, so this may be a lot to ask a guy nowadays, but I like what
I like. If you can value me despite my flaws, and don't need a
woman to be skinny in order to feel protective of her, then we'll
start from there.
I am not a feminist. I'm a humanist.
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A whole lot of things. If you would like to learn more about me the
best place to start is my blog
The first things people usually notice about me
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If approaching from the front, the first thing people usually
notice is my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Brothers Karamazov, anything by Asimov, Octavia Butler, Friedrich
Nietzsche, or Toni Morrison...and even though it
was a little cheesy and dry to read, I liked the Gor series. I've read almost all of
them. They were fun. Ask me about more books I liked because I read
Star Trek II
the Wrath of Khan, Ladyhawke, the Shaka Zulu miniseries, Highlander, Romeo and Juliet
(sappy, I know), etc. Basically I like to watch movies that move
the heart and heat the blood, even if the story isn't that
I like music of a variety of different styles from alternative rock
to zydeco depending
on my mood. I just utterly cannot stand the twangy country
I like good food. I am a good cook, and I'm told that generally
I tend to eat like an Italian in the summer and a Polish person in
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
food, shelter, water...basic Maslow stuff.
Can't do without love. It doesn't have to be love from
others, even though that's nice to have. I have to love myself. I
do very much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm usually thinking of the next poem or story I'll write.
What I can do to improve my websites, and make the courses better
for my students.
How long I'm going to ride or how far I'm going to walk next
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
, or at
home watching movies with my daughter, or hanging out with my
friends. I like to have fun and party
hard when I need to let off some
steam, but I also feel that family
is more important.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sometimes, okay often fantasize about being a giant tentacled
I also still have a teddy bear.
Something else sort of private, but that I should probably admit
to anyone who reads down this far...I can tell if a guy has the
potential to love me, from the first kiss. I just don't always tell
the guy that right away because some guys react harmfully.
You should message me if
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You think for
I'm always happy to meet another independent thinker. If you
live in Haifa and
aren't a wuss, maybe you can drop by our next gathering of the
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