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30 Shanghai, China Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 17
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of space camp
Art / Music / Writing
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you want to know a little bit more about me:

Gentleman explorer, aspiring whiskey connoisseur, chess player, armchair historian, professional photographer and cinematographer.

If the first thing you're looking at is our percentages and the questions, you should know I don't put much stock into either of those. If you do, that's fine, but chances are we'll get along even if we are "enemies". Just don't tell me I need Jesus. I hate Jesus.

You're going to have to be a bit more creative in you're fist message than "hey, how you doin' " or similar if you want a response.

I'm not looking for anything serious, but I'm not opposed to the idea. I don't think I can be everything for you, and I'm not going to ask you to be everything for me either. That's just too much pressure, and how about all that "love me for who I am" shit, right? I'm polymourous you might say.

I can't dance (see ethnicity), and I am over going to clubs, so I won't be taking you out like that. (I gave you fair warning that I wouldn't be able to be everything for you). There are very few occasions where I will be so inclined to "shake my booty", but it has been known to happen once and a while. Mostly when I'm in my own zone, so if you can find whatever groove I'm in you're welcome to join.

Here's some other things we could do:
- Go for a ride in my senlunche
- Start a folk group and preform on the street
- Spend a sunny day in a park
- Fly a kite
- Go fishing
- Wall climbing
- See some art
- Take photos
- Write, shoot, and star in a film
- Learn magic tricks
- Walk my cat
- Take a drive outside of Shanghai
- Go on a train trip
- Cook
- Start our own hidden camera game show

Tip: If you're nice, and if you ask, I might take some photos for you in my studio so you can have a better dating profile pic.

I also get to travel around Asia quite a bit, so send me a message even if you don't live in Shanghai.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Developing my plan for global domination, collecting hats & watches, trying to write a few screenplays, messing aboot, and learning to play the banjo.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Guy things. I like to fix stuff. Do you have a handyman fantasy, cause I've got a whole bunch of butt crack and some low rise jeans.

Whoops, may have ruined that image... ah.... recover...

How about these mad skills? I can juggle for almost 5 seconds, in middle school I could run backwards faster than anyone else my age, and I can wiggle my ears on command. BOOM! Beat that internet.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My tattoos
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Henry Miller - Everything
Ernest Hemingway
Murakami - IQ84, Kafka on the Shore, Dance Dance Dance
Ayn Rand - The Fountainhead, Atlas Shrugged
Bill Bryson - A Short History of Nearly Everything
Malcolm Gladwell - Blink, The Tipping Point, Outliers
and Eric Blair

Wes Anderson
George Lucas
Pedro Almodóvar
Quentin Tarantino

Louis C.K
Marc Maron
Mike Birbiglia

I have a very eclectic taste in music.

But right now I'm listening to:
The Black Keys

I also really like:
Lorde, Avett Brothers, The Everybodyfields, Cee Lo Green, Sam Cooke, CCR, Zeppelin, Amos Lee, rank Sinatra, The Swell Season, Ghostface, The Black Keys, OK Go, AC/DC, Tegan and Sara, Peter Bjorn & John, Cake, Notorious BIG, The Decemberists, Ludacris, & Stan Rogers.

I'll eat anything delicious. I have no qualms with any types of food, except tripe, it's a texture thing.

But most of those things are always changing so don't hold me to any of that, except for Henry Miller.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A camera, free time, a bicycle, good company, something to write on, a plan, and someone to do math for me because I can barely count.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who or what I'm going to photograph next, what that character in my screenplay should say to that other character, and when I'll actually put my mind to it and save up for a motorcycle.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday's are for the 9-5ers. I go out when I feel like it, any night of the week. Yay freelance!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My earliest memory is of a naked girl.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You score 20 points, but even if you don't, you should give it a shot. And yes, I put everything on a point system, and you can only show your value as a human is you score on it. If you score under 20, then you may want to consider moving to a cabin in the middle of nowhere and never speaking to anyone again, or a cave, I hear they can be quite comfortable. I lie, this is for fun... I don't care what you score, but this list contains quite a few things that are important to me.

(1) you like cats
(1) you like tattoos
(4) you have a tattoo
(3) you are a travel writer
(2) you can live in a remote village without showering for 3 days.
(1) you have an active lifestyle
(3) you are a photographer
(1) you like to be held
(1) you'd like me to massage you (I'm pretty good at it)
(4) you want children
(5) you don't drink
(5) you don't smoke
(1) you can mix at least 3 classic cocktails (+1 for each extra)
(2) you have a daily ritual
(3) you have a gym membership
(2) you know who Dianne Arbus is.
(1) you think Audrey Hepburn is gorgeous
(3) you are the black sheep of your family
(1) you own a pair of fei yue's
(2) you sing in the shower
(5) you know all the lyrics to Barrett's privateers and will sing it with me
(3) salt water runs in your veins.
(2) you play an instrument
(3) you are a freelancer
(2) you believe that children now-a-days are too soft
(1) you like facial hair
(2) you trim the hedges
(3) if you are forward
(5) if you've got a nerd / geek vibe going
(3) points if you're good in front of a camera
(3) if you've been told recently you have a great ass
(1) you speak at least two languages (+1 each extra)
(5) If you knew that George Orwell was the pen name of Eric Blair

And when you finish up why don't you let me know which ones you got points for. That's a great way to start a conversation.