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My self-summary Propose an edit

My husband hacksoncode and I are polyamorous. We are interested in adding more people to our lives. We are relatively flexible, and like to be supportive of our friends and lovers.

I like to go new places, and try new things. I am not afraid to do things spontaneously. I have been known to suggest going to Yosemite for the weekend with a couple of hours' notice. I like riding behind someone on a motorcycle, throwing a frisbee, going Geocaching, and taking photos. I'd love to learn more about photography.

I retired from Cisco Systems some years ago, and now I'm self-employed. I work as a DJ, mostly. I also own my own soap business, and have held various jobs in Second Life.
I get a lot of positive feedback about my voice, which is one of the reasons I decided to pursue a job as a DJ.

I don't do petulant very well. If I have an idea, and it's not what you want to do, rather than pout, I'd rather negotiate. Some of the best times I've had have been when I didn't get what I wanted. (Now that's food for thought.) If I need something, I tend to speak up and ask for it.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I get a real lift out of making others' lives better. I love being a DJ for that reason: when I know someone is having a cruddy day, I choose their favorite music and put it on the air.

I'm also the mom to two sons. They are so much fun! We do science experiments together, art projects together, and they travel very well.

I have a new Internet radio station, which I'm enjoying working with. I also do a lot of hosting and customer service for a major entertainment company within Second Life. I love it. Being able to solve problems and make people happy makes my day.

I'm also recovering nicely from some sort of chronic fatigue thing that I had after my sons were born. Nobody was able to figure out what it was, but finally, I have plenty of energy! I have been toning my muscles, and doing aerobic exercise (walking, bicycling) and am slimming down. Patient activity partners would be wonderful, and just think, you can take credit for part of the transformation.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Seeing a need and filling it. I tend to do things like sending tea to sick friends, sending chocolate to depressed friends, volunteering at my sons' schools, etc. I also get a lot of positive feedback about my radio shows.

I'm not sure you would classify me as being really great at anything except maybe parenting and quilting. However, I know how to get things done, which can be very powerful. Knowing who to ask, and bartering my time and effort for theirs, has been useful many times in my life.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

Maybe my smile, or the fact that I make eye contact?

Thing is, I'm not that impressive when you first meet me. I'm sort of like a little fieldmouse - plump and not very glamorous.

But I find that those who take the time and trouble to get to know me generally find it's worth the effort. The sensual and playful sides of my personality come out, and I encourage my partner to let the sensual and playful sides of his personality out, as well.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

I once had a boyfriend say that anyone who dated him had to like this particular book, and I hated it. :( So, I'm not nuts about this kind of question.

I think it's fair to say I'm openminded. I do love to read, watch movies, and am heavily into music. I like variety. I prefer to mix it up, and explore various genres. The nice thing about that is that if you just can't stand one type of music, I have lots of other stuff to listen to.

Food-wise, I like pretty much anything, but am allergic to bell peppers and cilantro.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

love, my family, chocolate, music, books, yarn

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Fun things to do, my businesses, my friends, and you.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

thinking about fun and/or sensual things to do with my partner, then trying them.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

People who have taken the time to get to know me are generally pleasantly surprised.

You should message me if Propose an edit

Message me if you want to. I am happy to hear from you if you have anything positive to say. Or, if you think I can answer a question you have. If you're not sure whether or not to message me, please feel free. Then you'll know: you will either be glad you did, or not. ;)

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