Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for:
• Guys and girls who like bi girls
• Ages 25–44 (not 18-24 and not 45+)
• Near me (within a one hour drive)
• For long-term dating (not casual sex)
Please no "hey baby" or hook-up emails.
4/6/13 update: I am looking for a long term relationship but I have
BDSM needs. (See section: The most private thing I'm willing to
admit.) If you can't give me my BDSM needs, I need for you to be
alright in my being satisfied outside of the relationship.
Original 2011 writing: I'm not sure what to write here so I'm
taking the easy way out...I just did an online strengths test with
my wellness coach and the top five strengths are as follows: 1. I
notice and appreciate beauty, excellence, and skilled performance
in all domains of life, from nature to art to mathematics to
science to everyday experiences. 2. I excel as a member of a group.
I am a loyal and dedicated teammate; I always do my share and work
hard for the success of the group 3. I am aware of the good things
that happen to me and I never take them for granted. 4. I treat all
people fairly and I give everyone a chance. 5. I value close
relations with others, in particular those in which sharing and
caring are reciprocated.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a bookkeeper and work from home. For the first time in my
life, I am spending time on me. I am overcoming the negative
thinking and self judgements that have plagued my life. I am
growing and discovering how to bring joy into my life sooner than
later. I am bi and a practicing Wiccan. (08/24/12 update: I am
doing the couch to 5K program and plan to run a 5K in October.
04/06/13 update: I have learned my lungs are not made for running
but I continue to go to the gym every week. I am eating healthy and
plan to very slowly lose weight so that I keep it off. I have lost
25 pounds since 01/01/12.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cuddling =) Microsoft Excel--especially pivot tables!! Analyzing
data, hugging, laughing, listening, overcoming obstacles,
cryptograms, enjoying live entertainment of all types (encouraging
the entertainers), trimming lilac bushes, sending positive energy,
driving (Note: don't let the fact that I am in Mansfield keep you
away--I will always drive to you as long as you are within an
hour's drive--maybe longer depending on you)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My boisterous laugh and smile. My curly hair and my very dark blue
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love folk music!! I love to go to live concerts, especially Beth
Colgrove, Lori McKenna, and the Indigo Girls. I will go to any
local folk music "concert"; I often can be found at Club Passim in
Harvard Square (one of my favorite concerts there in 2010 was Dar
Williams). I also love singer/songwriters that touch upon multiple
genres such as folk, indi rock, jazz, blues, or country, especially
Erin McKeown and Zoe Lewis. I love listening to Harry Chapin, John
Denver, and Jim Croce as well as Pub Irish music. I love Broadway
music and always listen to WERS "Standing Room Only" on Saturdays
10am-2pm and Sunday 12pm-2pm. My favorite Broadway Shows are Rent,
Wicked and Les Miserables. I also love WERS "The Playground" on
For authors: I love Stephen King and Dean Koontz. I listen to many
audio books when I am driving and usually pick authors that write
of mystery, murder and/or mayhem.
I love ALL types of food except I am a wimp when it comes to hot
I LOVE the Muppets (I am wearing a Kermit the Frog hat in one of my
pictures--the best gift ever from my sister Christmas 2010). I have
DVDs of all the seasons currently out and the Time Life Series put
out about 15 years ago.
I try to stay away from TV because I quickly become addicted. I do
watch NCIS, Bones and The Following. I love SYTYCD. I also love
Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, and Firefly =)
Movies: Dark Crystal, Labyrinth, Last Unicorn, Fever Pitch, My
Cousin Vinny, Princess Bride, Les Miserables and many more...
I spend Sundays watching "Black and White movies" (really anything
older than 1970) with my mom and aunt. I love so many, especially
anything with Jimmy Stewart (not Westerns) and Paul Newman. To name
a few movies I love: Anatomy of a Murder, Witness for the
Prosecution, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, Bonnie and Clyde, Auntie Mame,
Yankee Doodle Dandy (more to be added)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family/friends, touching, happiness, Wicca, love, music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to fit everything I want to do into each day
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a local event--love using EventsINSIDER.com. I especially love
seeing local singer-songwriters.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a kinky submissive in the bedroom. I crave floggings on my
shoulders (especially with 2 floggers rhythmically used
simultaneously), artistic rope bondage, suspension, butterfly
kisses with a whip, wax play, subspace and aftercare.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
One or more of the following apply:
--you like that I am bi
--you like that I am Wiccan
--you like folk music
--you don't judge others
--you are capable of seeing beauty in everything around you
--you are open with your thoughts and feelings
--you are empathic
--you are great with energy work
--you like to give massages and/or back scratches
--you like to play with hair
--you like going to any type of local live event/show
--you like Broadway music
--you like the Muppets!!!
--you use www.EventsINSIDER.com
--you like Ren Faires
--you like to read books outloud to others
--you believe in Safe, Sane, and Consensual
--you have skill with rope
--you have skill with floggers
--you are great at giving Aftercare
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