The basics: I have three children, all boys. I live with the 7 and 9 year olds half time, and the 20 year old is out on his own. I'm a sex worker - I do kinky sensual massage and light sensual domination. [I feel a need to clarify something, because several people have asked - I am absolutely not looking for clients here. First - sex workers date just like everyone else. Second - this would be a really stupid way to find clients.] I do social justice activism with Sex Workers Outreach Project, and I do public speaking about sex work with Whorespeak. If you google "Shannon Williams prostitution" you can find some of the interviews I've done.
There are so many outdoorsy types on here! The only physical activities I enjoy are having sex and dancing. Ha! That sounds really extreme and probably isn't exactly true... :) I love reading and going to the movies but never actually have the time to do either - which is totally ok. I spent lots of time doing those things before I had kids, and I'll have plenty of time for them again soon enough. These days my favorite thing to do with friends is hang out and talk over a meal.
I have degrees in Biology and Religious Studies, and a teaching credential for high school Biology. I worked in K-12 education for 10 years. I took San Francisco Sex Information's kick-ass 60 hour training for sex educators and think that when I get sick of sex work (which won't be anytime soon - been doing it for 20 years and am still loving it) I would like to do comprehensive sex ed classes for young adults.
In my 20's I identified as a non-monogamous revolutionary anarchist. Now I think of myself as a kinky bisexual polyamorous radical leftist social justice activist alpha female empathetic caregiver type. Who likes to bottom.
I think I might have the look of an aging 80's goth rocker chick (this is what I've been told). But I just want to be clear that I don't have that look because the 80's look is cool right now (I'm really not very cool) - I have that look because I was in high school in the 80's and my personal fashion sense is apparently stuck there.
I have a fantastic boyfriend - Blueblinds - that I have fabulous sexual adventures with, and we would really love to find a woman that we have great sexual chemistry with, or another couple to play with. Hence this okcupid profile.