I've been in Victoria for about 6 years. I've met lots of people, but its still not enough. I love meeting new people and knowing about what's on their mind.
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UPDATE:
I'm poly and available, but I don't really go looking for relationships. I prefer to get to know people and let the relationships grow on their own. I believe that the relationship(s) that I'm "meant to have" with someone can only exist when we are being completely honest with each other. I enjoy being good friends with people, because in my experience people are usually most honest with their friends since there are no ulterior sexual motives involved. The people who I'd like to be in romantic relationship(s) with would not let the romance and sexuality get in the way of honesty of facts and honesty of emotions. Having said that, I also love all my close friends, because I believe that love should not be restricted to romantic relationships and every relationship a person can have should have love in it.

Right now, I'm looking for more poly and kinky people to meet and learn from and to see what kind of relationships grow between us, whether they are long-term or short-term.
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I'm passionate about emotions, sexuality, gender and harmony.

Emotions: I love hearing about people's emotions, even if they think that their emotions are strange or unacceptable. In fact, those are the more interesting emotions. I always like having long conversations. There is nothing that I enjoy more than having someone open up and talk about the genuine happiness, sadness, fear and passion in their heart. I get quite depressed if I go a few days without having an honest, open conversation with a close friend (or even a complete stranger, given the right circumstances). For that reason I cherish honesty and open-mindedness above all other characteristics. My most recent favorite emotions are compersion and kink. (Related keywords: polyamory and BDSM. And BBW because its not relevant anywhere. I like all kinds of women though.)

Sexuality: About sexuality, I love to talk, read, write, listen, invent, participate, promote, explore, understand, feel, demonstrate, utilize, cherish, expand, liberate and any other positive actions that can be taken on it. If I hear about an event involving sexuality, it always gets a high priority on my list. UPDATE: From my personal perspective, I seem to only get attracted to women so far. Since I don't get attracted to men, I feel like I'm missing out on half of sexuality. On the plus side, I get attracted to almost all kinds of women. There are very few women I met who I haven't found attractive in one way or another. Physically, I lean towards bigger women or BBW, but that just means that I'll get turned on faster if I'm with a BBW. Aside from that, I get physically attracted to almost all body types.

Harmony: This one is a bit hard to explain and it's probably not the right word for it. I like how everything that exists moves towards maintaining a balance of all aspects of the world. I like how a person's different emotions change to balance out a change that happened some other time or will happen in the future. I like how people as a group tend to feel or do things that seem to balance out what they have done in the past. In the same manner, I like waves, transfer of energy, sounds, music and other laws of nature that seem to follow the same concepts of harmony.

Along with this, I like people who can see same thing from different perspectives. I'm strangely drawn to people who seem to represent two/many sides of a particular idea. For example, I get drawn to people who are bisexual or transgendered or switch or otherwise in between two extreme ends.

I'm also into video games (with good stories), animes and costumes.

I'm exploring lots of aspects of life with respect to the things I am passionate about. I've been looking for ways to bring about a balance between my passion, love, health and knowledge.

From the less interesting point of view, I finished university and I'm working right now.

UPDATE:
I'm looking to learn more about yoga and explore its effects on health.

- Listening: Some people have been surprised by how much of their "whining" I'm willing to listen to. To me they sound more like interesting emotional information rather than whining.
- Drawing
- Gaming
- Programming
- Math. I'm good at math not because I like it a lot. Actually, I can't stand numbers. Its something like keeping your enemies closer that allows me to be good at it. If I'm not good at it, it might dare to attack me anytime.

- Eyes, hair, smile, dimples and their thought "is that a guy or a girl?"

Books:

- The Ethical Slut
- The Art of Sexual Ecstasy
- Harry Potter
- Watchmen
- Buffy and Angel comics

Movies:
- Better Than Chocolate
- Secretary
- The Dark Knight
- Batman Begins
- V for Vendetta
- Watchmen
- As Good As It Gets
- Serenity
- Fight Club
- Pan's Labyrinth
- Hairspray
- Mamma Mia
- Miyazaki movies
- Disney animated movies

Animes:
- Fruits Basket
- Azumanga Daioh
- Honey and Clover
- The Vision of Escaflowne
- Witch Hunter Robin

TV Shows:
- Buffy
- Angel
- Firefly
- Dollhouse
- Farscape

Music:
- Linkin Park
- Evanescence

Video Games:
- Legacy of Kain / Soul Reaver
- Tomb Raider (most of them)
- Monkey Island
- The Longest Journey, Dreamfall
- Metal Gear Solid
- Eternal Darkness
- Final Fantasy series
- Chrono Trigger and Chrono Cross
- Kingdom Hearts series
- Jak and Daxter series
- Fallout 2
- Prince of Persia series
- American McGee's Alice
- Indigo Prophecy

Favorite quotes:

"We fight as though the world were as it should be, to show it what it can be." ~ Angel, Angel Season 4, episode 1

“In the greater scheme, or the bigger picture, nothing we do matters. There’s no grand plan, no big win. If nothing we do matters, then all that matters is what we do. Because that’s all there is.” ~ Angel

"History is all romantic adventure stories. Until you live it. Until you live long enough to be part of it." ~Willow, Buffy The Vampire Slayer Season 8.

" 'Fate of the World' made sense... when there was only one. " ~ Melaka, Buffy Season 8

"Our goal-oriented culture tells us that happiness is rarely now, but just around the corner, and as a result, we focus our minds mostly on future events. It takes mental alertness to break this habit and to realize that the present moment is the only REAL moment - the only reality that you can actually feel, experience, and learn from." ~ The Art of Sexual Ecstasy

“Given the choice, whether to rule a corrupt and failing empire, or to challenge the fates for another throw – a better throw against one’s destiny – what was a king to do? But does one truly have a choice? One can only match move by move the machinations of fate and thus defy the tyrranous stars.” ~ Kain, Legacy of Kain - Defiance

"Now, at last, the masks had fallen away. The strings of the puppets had become visible, and the hands of the prime mover exposed. Most ironic of all was the last gift that Raziel had given me: More powerful than the sword that now held his soul, more acute even than the vision his sacrifice had accorded me. The first, bitter taste of that terrible illusion - Hope. " ~ Kain, Legacy of Kain - Defiance

"We see ethical sluthood leading us to a world where we respect and honor each individual's boundaries more than we honor any preconceived set of rules about how their boundaries ought to be." ~ The Ethical Slut

"Is there, we wonder, some virtue in being difficult?" ~ The Ethical Slut

"The memory's wiles are cruel. In its silence, we forget. And in its perversion, it binds our hearts firmly." ~ Vexen, Kingdom Hearts - Chains of Memories

"The world is full of choices. Unlimited possibilities. But sometimes the hardest choice to make is living with the one choice that was made for you" ~ Lucas Kane, Indigo Prophecy

- Emotions.
- Friends.
- Family.
- Women.
- Sexuality.
- Creativity

People, movies, books, sexuality.

Out with a friend at a party or watching movies, unless there's some event somewhere about sex ed or sexuality in general.

If you get me started on private things, it will be very hard to stop. I love sharing my secrets, and I love keeping other people's secrets. Its a strange thing.

- you like to communicate and have conversations
- you love emotions and psychology
- you love Joss Whedon's works
- you are into things that you think that others would find unusual
- you love sex and sexuality and love everything positive to do with it.
- you are poly and want to meet other poly people
- you are kinky and want to meet other kinky people
- you like people who are somewhat androgynous (androgyny)