23 Jersey City, NJ
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My self-summary
I'm a daydreamer mostly. Laughing and listening are two things that I love to do, and do often. I live to hear stories. That tale about how you came to love radishes? I wanna hear it.
What I’m doing with my life
I have recently finished a term of service with Americorps through the Maine Conservation Corps. Doing trail work was fantastic and I am looking to pursue more job opportunities in conservation around NJ
I’m really good at
Listening and opening up to people.
Talking about gender and sexuality.
Calmly but passionately discussing politics.
Hanging out :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I like to laugh a lot, have curly hair and make many sounds that substitute for actual words.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-Oryx and Crake
-Maniac McGee
-Fight Club
Currently reading Empress

-Fight Club
-Dragon Heart

-The Secret Life of Dogs
-Echo: Queen of the Elephants
-Planet Earth
-North America
So many more :)

-American Horror Story
-Sherlock Holmes (with Benedict Cumberbatch)
-Breaking Bad
-Hellsing, Full Metal Alchemist, Strawberry Panic, Black Lagoon, Samurai Champloo, .//sign

Metal mostly with a dash of this and that. Examples:
Coheed and Cambria
The Used
The Academy Is...
Family Force 5

Puerto Rican food all the way.
Loove sweets.
The six things I could never do without
*People who love to have conversations.
*Spring days
*Internet (sadly)
*Colored pencils
I spend a lot of time thinking about
New stories to write up.
Honestly, I spend a lot of time wondering how I would communicate with an alien race and how I would explain gender issues to my parents if ever they decided to be curious about it.
More serious thoughts include chewing on ideas of career choice and what kind of family I would want to be a part of in the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my friends talking about all sorts of things.
By myself, I like to cozy up and watch a movie, work on my stories or go out to my favorite shops.
Gaming. It's a love of mine; though I know how to put down the controller so I can get some sunshine.

I'm starting to actively look for things to do in the city so if you know about a cultural festival, a poetry slam, a free/cheap concert and want someone to go with, hit me up! After a get-to-know-each-other chat of course.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love kink! <3
That's not that private though.
Ask for my Fetlife name
You should message me if
Any or all of the following-
You're looking for a friend! :)
You're looking for a 'play partner' as we say on fet.
You wanna tell me a cool story/dream.
You have pets and wanna talk about pet things.
You understand/contemplate topics and issues relating to racial and social justice.