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ShapesAndLights

19 / M / gay / Single

Berkeley, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am weeeeeooooweeeeaaaaa, bleeeeooooblopowana, and SUPERBANGFLASHWOW.

My Self-Summary

I feel like these self-summaries usually sound either dull or contrived.

But we don't really have any other starting point, so I guess i'll just try to be honest. Happy readings!!

More often than not, I'm pretty optimistic. It takes some serious effort to get on my bad side (if I could really call it that). I try to approach people with an open mind and refrain from judgment.

Likes: arts, humanities, music, dancing, growing, adapting, learning, stopping to smell the roses, playing things by ear, surprising people, thinking about social ideals and ways to strive towards them, being, becoming, moving, shaking, deviating, stargazing, people, language, cooperating, independently operating, bartering, free-piling/scavenging.

Dislikes:

you can probably discern some more of these as your read...

What I’m doing with my life

I'm studying philosophy and living in a housing cooperative in Berkeley. As far as pure (planned) fun, I love to go out and dance as much as I'm able to. I also try to attend as many opportunities for live music as possible.

With no plans, however, I can typically be found in a house with friends, discussing everything from movies, to philosophy, to gender and sexuality, to social hierarchies and constructs, to systems of any sort, to people and personalities, to sweet sweet vegetarian food, anything else that's at least vaguely interesting, and sometimes even things that aren't interesting at all.

I love engaging conversations because I love to learn from the people I surround myself with.

As far as my life after graduation, my only real plan is to never sell my soul to take the most worn path. If there's anything I fear most, it's a life of quiet suburban desperation.

I’m really good at

Writing, laughing, listening, thinking, mediating, snowboarding, costuming, crossdressing, and having as good of a time as possible with everything I do.

The first things people usually notice about me

All depends on the setting, and who it is that's noticing. One or more of the following:

My whimsy.
My general willingness to dance and be danced with.
My occasional wordiness.
The fact that I'm in drag.
My hair.
My pants?
My magical powers.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Authors: Vonnegut, Kant, Orwell, Hume, Huxley, Lawrence, Miller, and other random poetry/philosophy/novels.

Movies:
American Beauty
Amelie
Fight Club
Being John Malkovich
A Clockwork Orange
Donnie Darko
Hiroshima, Mon Amour
A Bout De Souffle
The Third Man
Happiness
Adaptation
Waking Life
Dr. Strangelove
I Heart Huckabees
Naked Lunch

Music:
On last.fm: http://www.last.fm/user/Meeegahr
Boredoms, OOIOO, Liars, Lucky Dragons, Black Dice, Japanther, Times New Viking, Mika Miko, Gang Gang Dance, Wavves, High Places, White Rainbow, El Guincho, Roots Of Chicha, No Age, Celebration, Vampire Weekend, Islands, Mi Ami, Fuck Buttons, etc. Also some house music, electro, funk, soul, lo-fi, noise, drone, shoegaze, math rock, some hip/hop, reggae, WORLD MUSIC!!!, and really anything. Except country.

Food: I get excited about food when a meal fits three criteria - vegetarian/vegan, balanced, and delicious. I'm not a vegetarian zealot, though, so I don't really care what other people eat. As far as the type of food, there's quite a bit out there that can be prepared amazingly, and I'm not very picky at all. The one favorite that stands out is chocolate, with which I've been enamored all my life. As far as regional food, I'm pretty partial to Indian, Mexican, and Thai.

The six things I could never do without

My brain, people I love, music, reason, showers, a challenge, chocolate, opportunities to costume, and colors! I listed some extra, but oh well.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Other people, myself, language, culture, society, structures of power, food, anything, and everything.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out dancing at a party or club somewhere, or at some live music event. On slower weekends, probably studying or staying up late and talking to people.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

If I could have any superpower, it would be the ability to photosynthesize. That way, I could lie in the sun all day, totally satisfied, and absorb all the nutrients I would ever need.

You should message me if

there's no "if" about it. Do it! Unless you're creepy...but I'm not really sure creepers self-identify, so you might as well give it a shot.