Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I care about being good. I think the best and most reliable thing
we can do to improve the world is to improve ourselves. I look at
my own attitudes and actions and try to change them when I see a
problem. With what I gather is an uncommonly high frequency, I
succeed. I'd love to meet someone with a similar passion and
ability for self-transformation.
I'm not precisely sure what I'm looking for on here. Casual sex is
entirely compatible with my ethics (when done ethically), but not
really with my character, as I'm extremely interested in people as
people. I am totally down for an FWB situation, but really the
friend part would have to be very much in place, or at least in
formation. On the other hand, I'm nor afraid of emotions, so
relationships that involve more are possible, too. Monogamy is not,
at this time.
is something which I think a large majority of otherwise
forward-thinking folk on this site may want to consider. Ladies, if
you write me first, I WILL write back, even if it only to inform
you, graciously, that I am not interested.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Violin, writing, graphic design, and drinking far too infrequently.
Gathering wisdom and virtue. Slowly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, analysis, introspection, wit when I'm in the mood. I have
a superpower where, once I decide I really should change something
about myself, I change.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm curly with an Abram beard. Also hefty, although I'm getting
steadily less so.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Hobbit, anything by HP Lovecraft, animal encyclopedias,
the Power of Now, the Tao Te Ching.
Movies: Dagon. Up. If Up doesn't make you weepy, you are at least a
little dead inside.
Music: Anything but twangy country, gangster rap and that sort of
metal that's all screaming. I am particularly fond of 90s era
metal/rock/grunge ("Glycerine" is a favorite), industrial, some
cheesy '80s pop (love "King of Wishful Thinking"), and some
Food: Japanese (particularly sushi or sashimi), Indian (lamb
vindaloo is my favorite), Greek (lamb shank om nom nom), German
from time to time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My bicycle. If it had boobs, I wouldn't even be on here.
Play (take it how you like)
Vast quantities of information
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making the most out of life, science, the nature of the universe
and the self, books I'm writing. Wondering how to live without
being a wage slave.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I find several conspiracy and alternative scientific theories
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You would like to engage in some manner of non-monogamous
relationship with a person whose ideas and character are not set,
and may well never be. To stop changing, I'd need to believe I was
perfect, and I'm not that kind of deluded. Bonus points if you
don't place too much weight on "-isms". Any of them.
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