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Shashkapoor

45 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 5
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Croatian (Okay), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I live a good life. I love the work I do, the people I surround myself with, the house I dwell in, the city around me and the travel I get to enjoy. I have a newly adopted dog who adds joy and surprise to every day. I meet a lot of new people, but avoid getting into romantic entanglements with women I have professional relationships with. I work a lot, so that narrows down the options. I don't have a specific agenda, but am open to falling in love, having children and all sorts of other wonderful romantic cliches. In the meantime, I am steadfastly honest and communicative and enjoy seeing where things lead when allowed to develop easily and naturally. Life is full of surprises and I enjoy sharing in mine.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in film and television music on projects I am very proud of and thoroughly enjoy. My work allows me semi-regular travel and occasional bursts of glamor, and what I enjoy the most is the ever-expanding circle of talented creative friends I get to collaborate with.
I’m really good at
Listening, paying attention and being present. I take my time on the planet seriously and am genuinely curious about other people and what they have to say. That said, I'm also good at avoiding people with bad energy, and folks that feed off of others and have nothing to contribute. It's a skill that has come in particularly handy in Los Angeles.
The first things people usually notice about me
People tend to notice that I am sharp, observant and articulate. Beyond that is probably a very individual thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is kind of an impossible question as my work revolves around my love of film and music and my knowledge of literature and storytelling.

It's been a little while since I've had the luxury of reading time (that said, I still tend to watch a lot of films and go to a lot of concerts, so I guess that's no excuse), but among my favorite books are ones by Jorge Luis Borges, Elias Canetti, Iceberg Slim, Hanif Kureishi, Vladimir Nabakov, Erich Fromm, and lately I've been picking up a lot of art books on painters like Paul Klee, Jean Michel Basquiat, Kazemir Malevich, Pieter Brueghel, Gerhard Richter, and for some reason I find myself drawn to German Expressionists like Max Ernst, Otto Dix, Egon Schiele, and George Grosz. There's probably something wrong with me.

With music it ranges from the classical music I grew up with, to the Beatles albums I obsessed over as a child to the many branches and innumerable genres I've fallen for ever since.

Folks like specifics... here are a few key albums obsessed over when released:1978-The Cars, 1979-Gary Numan 'The Pleasure Principle', 1980-Linton Kwesi Johnson 'Bass Culture', 1981-U2 'October', 1983-The The 'Soul Mining', 1984-Tom Waits 'Swordfishtrombones', 1985-The Fall 'This Nation's Saving Grace', 1987-Wire 'The Ideal Copy', 1988-Pixies 'Surfer Rosa', 1988-Talk Talk 'Spirit of Eden', 1989-De La Soul '3 Feet High & Rising', 1997-Radiohead 'Ok Computer', 1999-The Cinematic Orchestra 'Motion'. Spend time with me and I'll tell you more than you may want to know.

With film it started with Kubrick's '2001: A Space Odyssey' when I was 10 and now leaps from experimental French psychedelia, Korean revenge dramas, Jewish comedies, Japanese yakuza films, German road movies. There's no end to it.

Again, folks like specifics....
I am completely in awe of the films of Stanley Kubrick, Hal Ashby, John Cassavetes, Sam Peckinpah, David Cronenberg, Roman Polanski, Sergio Leone, Chan-Wook Park, Claire Denis, Robert Altman, Federico Fellini, Lukas Moodysson, Nicholas Roeg, and Andrei Tarkovsky.....

I love much of the work of Alex Cox, Atom Egoyan, Milos Forman, Terry Gilliam, Peter Greenaway, Alejandro Jodorowsky, Jim Jarmusch, Mikhail Kolotozov, Pier Paolo Pasolini, Ken Russell, Martin Scorcese, Paul Schrader, Oliver Stone, Orson Welles, David Lynch, John Boorman, Sydney Lumet, Sydney Pollack, Brian De Palma, Abel Ferrara, Philip Kaufman, Gillo Pontecorvo, and Sergei Parajanov.....

Very excited to see what's coming next from Darren Aronofsky, Mary Harron, Gaspar Noe, Takashi Miike, Alexander Payne, Lars Von Trier, Michael Winterbottom, Kim Ki-Duk, Jonathan Glazer, Andrew Dominik, Richard Kelley, Julian Schnabel, Richard Linklater, Kim Ji-woon, Thomas Vinterberg, and would love to work with them.....

I'm sure I'm missing some fundamental film makers, but that's it for now.

Although I work largely in television, I only tend to watch it on DVD. Commercials are harassment and hopefully will soon be outdated and unnecessary. My faves: The Wire, Breaking Bad, Dave Chappelle's Show, Six Feet Under, Mad Men, The Sopranos, Deadwood, South Park, among others.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee (or just don't want to)
Conversations (the interesting ones with interesting people)
Animals (pets or surprises in the wild)
Music (ear checks on the regular)
Movies (I could live film fest to fest)
Adventurous dining (always looking for something new and surprising)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The next ambitious creative project when I should probably be focusing on the ones at hand.
On a typical Friday night I am
There's always something exciting happening on a Friday night in Los Angeles, and if I'm traveling probably wherever I am as well. Live concerts, opening weekends for new films, lavish dinner plans with friends. It's the quiet romantic Friday nights, cooking and wine, dogs nearby, iPod on shuffle that I look forward to.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating