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37 Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 6:12pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Christianity but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English, Indonesian, Malay
My self-summary
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I am an easy going person, who doesn't see a glass half full or half empty, just glad I have a glass with something in it! I am pretty content with what I have done with my life, but I know there is a lot more out there to do. I honestly try to see the beauty in everything and everyone-- I know life is not perfect but it doesn't mean we should live our lives worrying and thinking negatively. Does absolutely no good for anyone.

Before moving to Kuala Lumpur to live I was in Hong Kong, before that I lived in DC for three years and prior to that in Indonesia for five years, both were amazing experiences. Originally from Chicago.

I am definitely not looking for a random thing or short term dating (what does that even mean?). If that scares you off, well it should.

I also don't mind a bit of travel. You cannot let a bit of distance stand between you and something good. That is why we have airplanes right?

All in a nutshell... I will save the witty stuff for when we meet...
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it.

Not getting mad about things I cannot control.

I live by the motto that "I work to live, not live to work." But since we spend so much of our time working I guess the best way to describe my job is managing teams of government affairs professionals in four Southeast Asian countries that lobby those governments on behalf of the company I work at.

I have a very fun job (in my mind) and I really am glad I can be doing something for work that matches what I studied in school. And that I get to walk to work!

More importantly, figuring out where I want to travel to next-- Traveling is so much fun!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not giving up on my coffee fix. I love it. There.

Being rational.

The first things people usually notice about me
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My green eyes ... and my short hair. Never have grown long hair- no idea why..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything by Paulo Cuelho.... The Illiad was always a favorite...

Favorite movie is "National Lampoons Christmas Vacation" because Chevy Chase is awesome... Fight Club, Snatch... I like documentaries...

Lumineers, Foster the People... Kanye West... TI... all kinds of music... call me multimusical.

Favorite TV shows have to be "The League" "Its Always Sunny" "Workaholics.." "Man vs Food" and strangely, most shows on HGTV-- have been having thoughts of buying a house or something so it is on a lot lately...

hmm football and basketball are always awesome..

I do have to say Indian food is fantastic- Chicken Vindaloo, the hotter the better.... I love a good cheeseburger as well... Steaks are great... But I generally eat healthy, save those for days when I feel I have done well... health is important..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family... my friends... coffee... sunshine... snow... passport...
In that order for sure...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How small the world is and how insignificant most things that worry us are...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hitting happy hours with friends .. eating something fun (try to vary it up a bit)...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was learning to ride a bike I tried it on a bike too big for me, couldn't reach the pedals... took it downhill, going too fast, couldn't reach the brakes, tried to jump off it... end result--- face first into a telephone poll... Bad part besides a busted up face- my whole family saw it and have never let me live it down..
You should message me if
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You are funny, career oriented, open to learning about someone new, like to have fun, are a casual drinker but not a smoker (but that is not always a bad thing if just when you drink, I understand that for sure), like to travel, enjoys a night out but also spending time at home relaxing, are sarcastic, confident.. I am looking to seriously date someone, not just dating... maybe that is a bit of pressure but I just think serial dating is not for me.. if I message you, its because I think there could be something and would like to explore that...