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ShawnIsAGuy

35 / M / Straight / Single

Saint Louis, Missouri

His Details

Last Online
May 23
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
College/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
A quick aside:

It kind of horrifies me how many people on here think nuclear war would be exciting in a certain light, who are totally down with eugenics for stupid people, and who think No means anything but No. What the hell, St. Louis?

That out of the way...

I'm an artist, a DJ, a guy, a big pinko lefty, a pretty hard core atheist, an insomniac, a geek and a nerd, and so on.
What I’m doing with my life
Changing it.

The standard American lifestyle of having a job you don't like so that you can make enough money to live is horribly depressing to me, and if I'm going to keep at this thing called life I want to be in a place where I can do the things I love to do and make enough money to live. It's a lot of work, but I'm getting there.

I'm one of the core people who put on Beggar's Carnivale, and various other related shows. If you date me, you're going to have to deal with my giant extended circus family of carnies, burlesque dancers, acrobats, Zombie Sqaud members, musicians, etc etc. If you are cool with coming to shows I'm working and occasionally staying up all night at the most epic parties ever, we will get along much better than if you are not.

Other than that, I live in South City, and I pretty much love it.
I’m really good at
Stupid dances.
The first things people usually notice about me
Skinny jeans? Black t-shirts? Big fat head? Adorably sexy eyes? Cute nose? I'm not quite sure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All the usual artsy/old man hipster shit.

I don't read as much as I used to, I like movies but hate movie theaters, I rarely watch tv, I listen to way, way too much music to list (everything, including rap and country), and I love food.
The six things I could never do without
Food, Water, Shelter, Oxygen, something with which to create art, and a surface upon which to create it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. Seriously, everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with half naked people and possibly a mime.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm horribly biased against people from St. Charles, but have an instant affection for people who live in Tower Grove South.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You reject the traditional gender roles of who should contact whom first on OK Cupid.

This also seems like a good place to go in to what I'm looking for, date wise:

Nothing too horribly serious right now. I really do need to spend the next year or so focusing on artwork and career stuff and so on, so relationship stuff has to take something of a back seat.

I'd like someone to hang out with though; someone who doesn't mind being the stage girlfriend and coming out to gigs and enjoying the show and hanging out while I work; someone who has her own thing going on that I can come out to and cheer her on, be it music or art or writing or whatever; someone who likes to dance and loves bad movies and good music and sex and staying up late and trying new food.