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ShawnIsAGuy

36 M Saint Louis, MO

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:04pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
University
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Alright let's do this!

A: Hey finally a new photo! I look like that top guy, with the headphones and the overly serious expression.

B: I didn't think I was picky, but I think I am. The overwhelming majority of single ladies are really boring to me. If you are not a geek, nerd, weirdo, artist, musician, dancer, goth, hipster, or some combination of the above, we will probably not get along.

Okay, so I am:

An artist, a DJ, webmonkey, an occasional burlesque host, a big fat geek and nerd, in the process of reinventing myself, a big pinko lefty, etc and so on.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to strike a balance between "Do what I want to do forever" and "pay the bills". This means a lot of freelance work, which means my schedule can be a bit crazy. The eventual goal is "does only what I love to do for a living and can afford to eat and buy stuff".

Also my eventual goal is to limit as much as possible the amount I participate in modern consumerist mass culture. If I could give up the internet and the joys of walking around in the city and occasional junk food, I'd be perfectly happy to go live on a big hippie commune somewhere.
I’m really good at
Making the arts, playing music on top of other music, cooking, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
Have we met before? I look just like a dude they know in Chicago/Seattle/Istanbul/Mars. Did I teach Judo in Toronto back in 2002? (I did not.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Trying to keep this short/

Books: lots of them, not as many as I'd like.

Movies: anything artsy and/or scary, weird, old, inventive, unique, low budget, ahead of it's time, etc.

Shows: I'm one of those jerks who doesn't have cable or an antenna or anything. I'll binge a show on Netflix once or twice a year.

Music: so much. I am a DJ after all. Electronic, post-punk, indie, neocabaret, classical, soundtracks, classic hip hop, etc etc etc.

Food: spicy food of any variety, most anything found on South Grand.
The six things I could never do without
I really hate this question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All of the things.

At this very moment, I'm thinking about how amusing it is that OK Cupid now links to Instagram. Gaze upon the comics I've been working on! See what I had for lunch! Maybe see a picture of my feet up on the couch! Oh yeah. I'm also currently thinking about if I want to stay in tonight and relax or if I want to go to my friends' juggling show...
On a typical Friday night I am
Recent Fridays have included: throwing a Silent Disco party, staying in to work on a freelance job, DJing for hula hoopers and then going to see a bunch of my friends at a pole dancing charity event, hanging out with friends on South Grand, sleeping, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am biased against people who live in St. Charles, and instantly favorable to people who live in South City.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You reject the standard gender roles of who messages whom on OK Cupid.

Also, I am completely allergic to cats, but freaking love dogs. So if you have a cat, I will probably never come over to your place. This may complicate things.