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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 26
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Alright let's do this!

A: Hey finally a new photo! I look like that top guy, with the headphones and the overly serious expression.

B: I didn't think I was picky, but I think I am. The overwhelming majority of single ladies are really boring to me. If you are not a geek, nerd, weirdo, artist, musician, dancer, goth, hipster, or some combination of the above, we will probably not get along.

Okay, so I am:

An artist, a DJ, webmonkey, an occasional burlesque host, a big fat geek and nerd, in the process of reinventing myself, a big pinko lefty, etc and so on.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to strike a balance between "Do what I want to do forever" and "pay the bills". This means a lot of freelance work, which means my schedule can be a bit crazy. The eventual goal is "does only what I love to do for a living and can afford to eat and buy stuff".

Also my eventual goal is to limit as much as possible the amount I participate in modern consumerist mass culture. If I could give up the internet and the joys of walking around in the city and occasional junk food, I'd be perfectly happy to go live on a big hippie commune somewhere.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making the arts, playing music on top of other music, cooking, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Have we met before? I look just like a dude they know in Chicago/Seattle/Istanbul/Mars. Did I teach Judo in Toronto back in 2002? (I did not.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Trying to keep this short/

Books: lots of them, not as many as I'd like.

Movies: anything artsy and/or scary, weird, old, inventive, unique, low budget, ahead of it's time, etc.

Shows: I'm one of those jerks who doesn't have cable or an antenna or anything. I'll binge a show on Netflix once or twice a year.

Music: so much. I am a DJ after all. Electronic, post-punk, indie, neocabaret, classical, soundtracks, classic hip hop, etc etc etc.

Food: spicy food of any variety, most anything found on South Grand.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I really hate this question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All of the things.

At this very moment, I'm thinking about how amusing it is that OK Cupid now links to Instagram. Gaze upon the comics I've been working on! See what I had for lunch! Maybe see a picture of my feet up on the couch! Oh yeah. I'm also currently thinking about if I want to stay in tonight and relax or if I want to go to my friends' juggling show...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recent Fridays have included: throwing a Silent Disco party, staying in to work on a freelance job, DJing for hula hoopers and then going to see a bunch of my friends at a pole dancing charity event, hanging out with friends on South Grand, sleeping, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am biased against people who live in St. Charles, and instantly favorable to people who live in South City.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You reject the standard gender roles of who messages whom on OK Cupid.

Also, I am completely allergic to cats, but freaking love dogs. So if you have a cat, I will probably never come over to your place. This may complicate things.