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35 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:34am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English, French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I view every day as a blessing. Challenges and annoyances always occur, but I try to find the humor and positive in almost every situation and if I can't, I'm pretty good at letting things go. My friends can usually count on me to make them laugh. I'm observant and have opinions...that I coincidentally don't mind sharing. ha! :)

I like planning outings and am on the go quite a bit, but I think of myself more as a homebody. I have no problem speaking in front of large groups, but fret about small groups interactions with co-workers and strangers. I'm thoughtful, dependable and always want to be inclusive of others, but am comfortable doing my own thing. I probably read more than the average person, and enjoy theater, but am equally amused by trashy reality shows. I don't take too much stock in astrological signs, but as a Libra, I do find that in most things, I'm pretty balanced.

In a partner I'm looking for someone smart, confident, funny, reliable, and kind. It's important that he be self-aware, with personal goals and ambition. He doesn't need to run marathons, but healthy-living and fitness should be a priority. Being a book-reader, arts and culture lover, and a world-traveler are pluses! Simply put, I'm looking for a well-rounded man who has his stuff together.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being a do-gooder in work (fundraiser for a non-prof) and play (volunteering), trying to book voice over gigs, and collecting passport stamps...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
planning vacations, recounting stories, and baking desserts.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile or my legs. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Too many...Paradise, Wines in the Wilderness, No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency...mysteries are my favorite genre.
Movies: Love and Basketball, Love Actually, Sound of Music, Gosford Park, XMen, Thomas Crown Affair
TV: Way too many...BSG, Seinfeld, Law and Order, Scandal, Sherlock...again, I love mysteries.
Music: R&B, Hip Hop, Musicals
Food: (I love trying new restaurants) But these are some faves...Cheese, Pizza, Mac N Cheese, Okra, Hot Dogs, Cupcakes, Macarons, Thai and Soul Food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Purple, Cheese, Books, Water, Laughter, Parents/Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where should I travel next,
are capital letters and punctuation becoming obsolete,
and can someone invent an easy way to catch and dispose of random insects?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical. I could be home, visiting friends out of town, or hanging out with my girls.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will not get on an airplane without my large stuffed animal travel companion.
You should message me if
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you find me intriguing and you think we would compliment each other. You should also only message me if you are open to planning and going on a date after a few exchanges, and maybe a phone call. Chemistry can't be determined from emails or let's meet!