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34 Mount Vernon, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love life. Every day is a blessing and I can find the positive or humor in almost every situation. So if you're a downer, please keep moving.

At times some would say I'm witty. But I can say with confidence that I'm thoughtful, generous and dependable and expect the same from others.

I am rarely without a book. I like theater and art, but don't see as many shows or visit as many museums as I would like. This is probably because I also watch a healthy (or maybe, unhealthy) amount of TV. :)

So...I've been told I'm a picky eater by nearly everyone who spends time with me. I like to say, "I'm particular," but I love trying new restaurants. Believe it or not, I go to the gym nearly 5 days a week before work. I have to balance checking out those new restaurants somehow!

On the whole, I live a full life. I march to the beat of my own drum, but am looking for someone to share experiences and make new memories, or shall I say, new "beats" together.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being a do-gooder for work and play, trying to book voice over gigs, and collecting passport stamps...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
planning vacations, recounting stories, and baking desserts.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile or my legs. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Paradise, Let the Great World Spin, The No 1 Ladies Detective Agency Series, Most Toni Morrison and Stephen L Carter books...I really like mysteries
Movies: Love and Basketball, Love Actually, Sound of Music, Gosford Park, XMen, Thomas Crown Affair
TV: Scandal, Once Upon A Time, Original Law and Order, Sherlock, Downton Abbey, Luther, The Newsroom, TrueBlood, BSG, Seinfeld, Martin
Music: R&B, Hip Hop, Musicals
Food: Cheese, Pizza, Mac N Cheese, Okra, Hot Dogs, Cupcakes, Macarons, Thai and Soul Food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Purple, Cheese, Books, Water, Laughter, Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I should eat,
what will I wear tomorrow,
where is my next travel destination,
why do people think capital letters are unnecessary,
does anyone ACTUALLY read what I write on here,
and why do men on this site have a group picture for the main image?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical...sometimes I'm at home, visiting friends in nearby cities, or getting a drink or appetizers with my girls.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will not get on an airplane without my large stuffed animal travel companion.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are interested in going on a date and won't think me too forward if I ask you to meet up after a few emails (that's if you don't ask me out first). Chemistry can't be determined from emails or let's meet up!
Also, send me a message if you are smart, confident, reliable and kind.