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44 F San Jose, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 1:30am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary

If over 90% love to talk regardless of motivation.

So, my profile is kinda sparse. There is a reason for that! I am starting over with pretty much everything in my life. As a result, so is my self-summary.

I was given a challenge: must contain all of the following words. -rose -heat -paint -libation -tomato -fuzzy -hum & -deep. Here is what I came up with:

Love can be full of heat and passion blossoming as a rose. Painting young cheeks with a libation the red of a tomato as the maiden imagines her fingers worshiping a fuzzy chest as he takes her innocence deeply. She begins to hum all around her unaware of her source of song....
Thank you Sharon for giving me the motivation to be a writer again and find some joy!! :-)

Love is Magic......It can make us feel invencible.......Warm on a cold day.....Like Magic a Mothers loving kiss can heal a scraped knee............Go forth and spread your Magic. (Quote from Myth and Magic)

Ok so it's come to my attention that people have low expectations before they meet or have sex. So here are some pre-qualifying questions to ask yourself. When I say move on I mean romantically. If you want to be PLATONIC FRIENDS I am still interested in getting to know you.

1. Do I want sex right away? Is that all I want? If yes, keep looking. Not going to give myself to just anyone.

2. Am I going to ask Shea to conform to any religion or ways of thinking? If so, move on. I respect your beliefs and won't force you to choose between me and your culture, religion, or family. Save us the grief!

3. Am I able to share Shea with others? If not, move on. I am bi and poly and refuse to give it up.

4. Am I looking to have Kids in the future? I am 44 and not going to bear a child. I have little to no patience now for small small children. I adore those that are school age or older. I think if I can find a way to be grounded my patience could come back. Right now PTSD with noise and not able to deal.

5. Do I expect Shea to deal with dogs? If so, the answer is no. See previous question. No patience for noise or drama. If puppy can be kept at home or well behaved however long term I want a cat so you know your dog better than I on that subject.

Some may say this is harsh to rule someone out right away. I think it is just saving us both wasting time and future heartache. Lost the love of my life that fit most of these as I wanted and having hard time. Can't and if possible won't again.
What I’m doing with my life
Yay just got handed an opportunity to have my own business doing what I love! Going to be major busy with transition and getting that off the ground.
I’m really good at
being me. Ok, well not so good at that yet however I am working on it!
The first things people usually notice about me
The "Girls", my hair, and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: not discerning enough. Que at over 500.

TV: BBC, crime shows, dragons, vamps and scifi

Food: lots just ask

Music: all time periods except rap

Favorite songs right now are Pompaii, Best Day of My Life, and anything Imagine Dragons. God I wish that Sarah B could hit the high notes in Brave cuz I like the song however have to change station as they hurt my ears.
The six things I could never do without
1. My head. I do lose it at times however the body and spirit pull it back. They all take turns leaving at some point but as long as one of them in control we are all good

2. My car. My body is no longer able to handle what it used to. I will be working on getting stronger however. Let's see!

3. My goals. My Mom says that I have always had the ability to stay focused and "my eye on the prize". They give me purpose and pride when I tick them off as accomplished.

4. My "sexy Sara" ie my Iphone. Nuff said!

5. My friends. They lift me up, make me laugh, give me loves, and make me feel important. Also reminds me that I must be an okay person as your friends are a reflection of what you are doing right.

6. My career. I finally discovered something I love and am good at. I have a lot of catching up to do however that involves goals and I can handle that!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Just got a studio apt and getting that livable.

Lately I am realizing I will never have the life I previously envisioned. Some of it is due to fate, some to bad decisions, and lastly to decisions of others from strangers to friends. Time to accept that fact, evaluate where I am, and make the best of it. Not necessarilly a bad thing just restructuring...

It's nice you miss me, just not enough... ME? I'm dying.
On a typical Friday night I am
Catching up on my 500 movies in my Netflix que.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a bit of a nut and the others inside my head agree! Everyone breaks down at some point. Just a matter of how you pick yourself up and learn from it. Sometimes you need help.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 20–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If our percentage of compatibility is less than 60 I would say we have little chance of dating... that number is based on how we think about questions. If less than 50 probably won't respond any more. If new profile, update, answer questions, then talk to me.

You want to. Understand however my heart is closed but nice conversation is always welcome. RESPECT people ie I don't want to talk about the size of your penis or your sexual needs as a hello. If you have not read this do not be surprised if you do not impress me. single girls only looking for single girls will be declined in my quiver searches. if you are bi be bi.

When I get on the site I am returning messages. It takes time to do this and so most time on the site is spent that way. Please be patient with me as my responses are limited as I am living my life as well. Not a chatter so please write something of substance and will reply in kind.