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Shebulba_Awe

29 M Talent, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:01pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Well, I enjoy music and movies tremendously, very open minded and love to try new things. I'm a bit nerdy. I enjoy learning and if something interests me I will go out of my way to learn about it. I consider myself pretty laid back and down to earth. I dislike drama a lot, which usually means I'm pretty confrontational about things. I like camping, especially when it's cold/rainy out. I'm also very big on equality in relationships and don't buy in to gender roles. If you expect me to always make the first move, pay for the date, message you first, be on top, hold the door, or pull out your chair just because I'm the guy and expect sex to be your contribution in exchange for pretty things, or consider yourself to have a "traditional" outlook on relationships...it probably wont work. Not to mention I find the concept a little degrading/insulting to both women and myself. Gender binaries are dumb. I want a partner, not someone I have to take care of or fix. I wont be your prince or knight in shining armor, nor do I want to have to pick up the pieces of your broken self esteem.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to enjoy life by creating new experiences for myself...whatever that may be. I am very interested in the sciences (more specifically chemistry/physics). I'm a nerd by profession (I help run a local game store business) and I enjoy it.
I’m really good at
Listening, giving advice, and my friends tell me I'm good at reading people and seeing through bullshit. Being blunt. Objectively looking at a situation to try and make the best decision possible. Being a sarcastic ass sometimes. Being a beer snob.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and my red beard/facial hair I suppose. My eyes? I'm not sure. Most people don't really tell you these sorts of things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'll just list a few for each (most classics will not be included):

Books: Laurell K. Hamilton, Jim Butcher, Dean Koontz, J.R.R. Tolkien, Sun Tzu, Harper Lee, Neal Stephenson, Edgar Allen Poe, Dylan Thomas, and Miyamoto Musashi are some of my favorite authors.

Movies: Generally anything that can convey its emotion well enough with some cleverness usually gets my attention. I will say I'm a huge cinema buff and usually prefer foreign/independent movies: The Fountain, Requiem for a Dream, Stay, Hot Fuzz, Shaun of the Dead, Heights, anything by Kevin Smith, Serenity, Star Wars, Moulin Rouge, Legend, The Princess Bride, Best in Show, Labyrinth, Goonies, The Dark Crystal, The Neverending Story (the first one), Lord of the Rings, Watchmen, V for Vendetta, Perfume: Story of a Murderer, Shortbus, Rocky Horror Picture Show, lots and lots of foreign movies (Cache, Brotherhood of the Wolf, Amelie, Roman De Gare, The Lives of Others, Avenue Montaigne, Apres Vous, Walk on Water, Seven Samurai, City of Lost Children, 2046, Run Lola Run, Let the Right One In, and The Host just to name a few); Satellite, Dancer in the Dark, Clay Pigeons, 500 Days of Summer, Half Nelson, Harold and Maude, The Fall, Lars and the Real Girl, Adventures of Priscilla: Queen of the Desert, Brick, American History X, Much Ado About Nothing, Secretary, American Psycho, Inception, Dark City, Usual Suspects, Seven, Memento, Leon: The Professional, The Fifth Element, The Secret of Kells, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Blade Runner, Donnie Darko, anything by Quentin Tarantino, Death at a Funeral (the British version), Kinky Boots, Moon, anything by Joss Whedon...the list goes on and on.

Shows: How I Met Your Mother, Battlestar Galactica (which happens to be the greatest show of all time), Bones, Family Guy, Firely, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Angel, Futurama, Dexter, Game of Thrones, Big Bang Theory, Rome, the 1995 X-Men series, Sherlock (the British version), 30 Rock, The Newsroom.

Music: Too big of a topic to really list everything, but some favorite bands include Metallica, Dave Matthews Band, Cat Power, Sia, Dimmu Borgir, Junior Boys, old Cradle of Filth, DJ Shadow, DJ Tiesto, Armin Van Buuren, Devotchka, Baroque, Bach, and some Beethoven; M83, Damien Rice, David Gray, Bjork, Portishead, Muse, Massive Attack, Potlatch, Explosions in the Sky, Thievery Corporation, Amon Amarth, Of Monsters and Men, Opeth, Otep, Orange Betty, Boards of Canada, Regina Spektor, Fiona Apple, Cloudkicker, Tool/APC, In Flames, The Xx.

Food: I am willing to try anything once; I love veggies and lamb, sushi, soups, spiced meat. Call me crazy, but I love tofu and tempeh. I love Thai and Japanese food as well. My weakness is probably potatoes though...in any form.
The six things I could never do without
Hmm, movies, red wine, music, shower, new socks, toothpicks. Really this section is a little silly and I could easily do without most things if I had to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Philosophy, religion, my future, science, music, whether Leia had a thing for Luke; if Starbuck was really dead the whole time. How silly it seems that people have "deal breakers" on an online dating site before at least talking to the person they're otherwise interested in (yes, even despite their match percentage). How tragic it is that if a woman is a sexual being she's automatically a "slut", and if a man does it means he's just trying to hook up and/or has commitment issues. How easy life can be when we just talk to each other.
On a typical Friday night I am
Available to whatever comes about. I enjoy doing a lot of things, regardless of the day. Make plans, have fun. Pretty simple. As I'm not much a huge party or club goer, I would probably rather stay in and watch Firefly or TNG (we can do the TNG vs. TOS debate; bring it on), but I do occasionally like to go out to the bar. Right now I am working late on Friday night, but am usually up for whatever happens afterwards.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I didn't take a lot of the questions on here too seriously. While they are honest answers, I don't believe you can really fully get to know someone until you at least talk to them. I love cats and actively dislike Dr. Who (I know, I know). I am a little obsessed with the Feudal Japanese culture, specifically dealing with the samurai/shogun (to differentiate between modern Japanophiles). I will read/watch/study anything I can get my hands on regarding said topic. Not too big into the anime/subculture of modern day Japan, however. Being referred to as a "CIS male" is actually really offensive and I would prefer not to be labelled as such. While I do identify as a straight male and am an avid human rights and pro-choice supporter, lover of LGBT and queer communities, and have been told I'm a closet feminist, I have only ever experienced the CIS label in a derogatory and demeaning manner.

Also...I kind of want to marry Eddie Izzard, COVERED in makeup.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're an open minded person who doesn't mind hanging out at home watching movies with some good wine once in a while. Who is content being a strong, independent person and having their own space. Who enjoys sex and is sex positive (please, no slut shaming, body shaming, or any other shaming). Who likes a guy who thinks before he speaks. Who doesn't necessarily buy in to a lot of society's bullshit. Who thinks for themselves.

You're not homo/queer/trans/woman/CIS/human phobic, but above that that you can be open enough to accept that they aren't any different than you are. Leave your judgmental, bigoted ass at the door.

The last thing I'd want to do is tell you who you are or try to change something about you; to mold you into a box or to fit my or anyone else's expectations. I expect the same from you.