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35 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:39pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program

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My self-summary
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Kentucky - Chicago - New York
Art and creative engagement
UK Basketball, Chicago Bears, Tennis

I travel a good bit for all kinds of things. I don't mind disagreement - I love a good debate. I enjoy all the great things about NYC - food, drinks, museums, parks - starting to feel like home.

you're passionate about something, right? because I am.
What I’m doing with my life
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inspiring and realizing creativity-collaborating with awesome people. Yes, I actually love what I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
taking charge and being a good friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my bindi
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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what I've read in the last 12 months: On the Road, Madame Bovary, A Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy , Galapagos, A Novel by Kurt Vonnegut, Selected works from Virginia Wolf

Magazines: New Yorker, Fast Company, Harvard Business Review

Blogs/Online: arts journal, hyperallergic, nytimes, brainpicker, tumblr...

what I've read more than once (and will again): Jane Eyre, Anna Karenina, almost anything by Kurt Vonnegut, The Sun Also Rises, The Yellow Wallpaper, The Bell Jar....

music I'm listening to right now: nirvana; jack white, kid cudi, feist, jayz, arcade fire, MGMT, pink floyd, grateful dead, tom petty, regina spektor, tupac, postal service and other. generally drawn to singer/songwriters.

artists: Kandinsky, Klee, Sarah Sze, Richter, Clifford Still, Pedro Reyes, Diego Rivera, Gordon Parks, and many more.

food I like: just about anything except sushi [though I would like to acquire a taste for it] I love discovering an amazing meal.

TV I like: parks and recreation, daily show, six feet under, arrested development, 30 rock
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
chapstick, books, blogs, iphone (my connection to everyone far away), news (online or paper form), and good music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's next...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out or at home, eating, drinking, concerts, museum or gallery, or a number of other things. like weekdays for hanging out in this city- better seats, less crowded and often more interesting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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when we get there, it will be fun.
You should message me if
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you think we'd have something to talk about.