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26 Arlington, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Six words to describe me: intelligent, confident, passionate, loyal, caring, and ambitious.

TL;DR version: An idealistic romantic masquerading as a cynical realist that talks like a philosopher with the heart and tongue of a poet possessed of an exceedingly sarcastic sense of humor which is often times laced with playful banter. ENTJ last time I checked, I think.

I don't believe most people can be put in a box as there are so many facets to what makes up someone's identity, but I'll give it a go. I am open to whatever life throws at me, personally or professionally, because I'm very aware that life is fleeting and want to experience everything I can. After finishing grad school, I realized that I was in the odd position of actually having the time to explore and cultivate hobbies, so I've been search for something more physically active. I've been looking into fitness in general, but I'm always on the lookout for anything interesting to fill up my week: mixology classes, charity socials, an introduction to the Waltz, networking events, and so on. As you can tell by the list, I prefer being the Jack of all Trades so I try to learn a bit of whatever I can, whenever I can. In my spare time I volunteer with Partnership for Animal Welfare (PAW) working primarily with dogs.

I actually enjoy planning dates and have been told I'm really good at them. If you're up for a challenge, send me any 5 facts about you, and only using what you've sent, i.e. without looking at you profile, I will send back a date plan. If you like it, we'll go, if not, then no.

If you want to know more, just ask, I'm an open book on most things. I promise that I'm a lot less serious in person.

If you're reading this and don't think we'd be a good match, but would be awesome friends/drinking buds don't hesitate to message me, I'm always on the lookout for new stories to collect and interesting people to connect with. If not that either, thanks for stopping by and I really do wish you luck on your search. Even when the search gets frustrating, remember: we all deserve someone, even you and me, but its the stubborn ones who don't give up that really get what they deserve.

Lastly: Hoya Saxa. I bleed Grey and Blue (please don't actually test that statement).
What I’m doing with my life
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Working as a defense contractor and planning my next accomplishment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Achieving whatever goals I set for myself
I've been told I'm great at giving massages
Making plans
Giving clear and unbiased advice
Quoting Dr. Cox
Pretty good at making Indian food
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: (we'll keep it to the top 5 for now)
Sung Tzu-Art of War
Machiavelli- The Prince
Miyamoto Musashi- The Book of Five Rings
Harry Potter (Of course)
The Catsitter

Movies: Oh man, too many to even list, we'll have to discuss that in person, I'll just name a few:
Jodha Akbar
The Siege
Harry Potter Series
Dark Knight
And the list could stretch ad infinitum

Game of Thrones
Burn Notice
How I Met Your Mother
The Big Bang Theory
The Blacklist

Very mood dependent, but I always try to give everything at least one chance. I don't follow bands as much as I enjoy songs.

Everything except beef. And I do mean everything. I will try pretty much anything at least once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides my friends and family of course....

1) My suits
2) My phone
3) My watches
4) Scotch
5) My computer
6) Internet connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. Literally. I sometimes have trouble sleeping at night because I can't turn off my brain.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Same thing as every night Pinky: try and take over the WORLD!"

Seriously though, generally out with friends, at a networking event, winning boardgame nights, or just generally doing something I love; life is too short to not enjoy yourself, whatever that may mean at the time. I usually reserve Sundays for a recharge.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That's a funny story...Feel free to ask me in person.
You should message me if
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If you feel like we'd hit it off, you want to grab a drink, you have a particularly interesting life story, or are just trying to make a new friend.