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28 M Stanford, CA

I’m looking for

  • Gay men only
  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:24pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello, and thank you for reading my profile :).

I think it a bit odd that the "you should message me if" section is at the bottom of the profile page, so here is mine:

You should message me if
-you are serious about having a long-term relationship.
I have no interest in casual dating. Friends? Sure? A partner? Absolutely.
-you like intensity.
I am intense, so, ideally, I am looking for someone who likes, and is able to balance, that.
-you are intelligent.
I make no claims to brilliance, but I have had enough
people tell me that my intelligence intimidates them that
I mention it here. I like a challenge.

Deal breakers: Smoking (anything), drugs, excessive drinking, open relationships, and closed minds. Those who feel that spirituality and science are in conflict with each other, or feel that a strict gender binary is a good thing, need not apply.

Lastly, I feel I should say that I have no interest in having children. If this is a deal-breaker for you, then, I would rather get that out of the way now :).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
at the moment is working on myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
remembering useless (though often comical) information. Seriously, there is an inverse relationship between something's direct use to me, and my likelihood of remembering said thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am high-energy, friendly, out-going, and passionate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A (not-so) random sampling includes:

-The Dark is Rising
-His Dark Materials Trilogy
-Harry Potter (even if the fanfiction is better)
-Pride & Prejudice

-Lemony Snicket's: A Series of Unfortunate Events
-Pride & Prejudice

Shows (I do not watch television, but my roommate's DVD collection is quite extensive):
-Downton Abbey
-Eureka (RIP)
-Merlin (RIP)

I read a line that sums this up perfectly: "My taste in music ranges from 'you need to listen to this' to 'I know, please don't judge me'".

Yes. Some of my favorites include: German, Thai, Dim Sum, Sushi, Indian, and Mexican. Pastries are a (not-so-guilty) pleasure. I vacillate on whether chocolate-chip cookie dough is a food group or not (at the moment, it is out of favor).

Sense of Humor:
If you find these funny, we are likely to have the same sense of humor:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My bicycle
2. My backpack
3. Dancing
4. Creativity/Imagination/Artistry
5. Music
6. Something sweet (ideally pastries and/or chocolate, though fresh fruit is acceptable :))
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
projects. I am a very creative and artistic person, but I have an equally strong sense of organization functionality. For me, projects need to be beautiful *and* functional. As it is possible (though often challenging) to do both, I see no reason to settle for less :).

ballroom dancing. Ideally, I'd love to find a dance partner (one who prefers to lead). Here is an example of what I would love to learn:
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
recovering from a long week most likely. I tend to have very busy weekends, and sometimes have events on weeknights, but, Fridays seem to be free most of the time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
on this site is that I know better than to put anything in print I do not want preserved for posterity. You should, too.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
In case you skipped to this section without reading the rest of my profile, I put this in the summary.