I think it a bit odd that the "you should message me if" section is at the bottom of the profile page, so here is mine:
You should message me if
-you are serious about having a long-term relationship.
I have no interest in casual dating. Friends? Sure? A partner? Absolutely.
-you like intensity.
I am intense, so, ideally, I am looking for someone who likes, and is able to balance, that.
-you are intelligent.
I make no claims to brilliance, but I have had enough
people tell me that my intelligence intimidates them that
I mention it here. I like a challenge.
Deal breakers: Smoking (anything), drugs, excessive drinking, open relationships, and closed minds. Those who feel that spirituality and science are in conflict with each other, or feel that a strict gender binary is a good thing, need not apply.
Lastly, I feel I should say that I have no interest in having children. If this is a deal-breaker for you, then, I would rather get that out of the way now :).