60 Novato, CA
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My self-summary
Hmmm, my self-summary! Well, I am a low key, simple person. I don't need much to be content. I am a helper. I like to support others. I am a good listener. I am compassionate and empathetic. I am responsible. I see everyone as an individual, instead of seeing them collectively. I am interested in dating a guy who is kind and thoughtful, courageous, has leadership qualities, and is smart and wise, attractive to me, financially stable, fun-loving, spiritual, self-controlled, optimistic, and patient.

In taking the Myers/Briggs personality test, I learned that I am the (I)ntrovert, (S)ensing, (F)eeling, (P)erceiveing type. In a nutshell, I=I need to think about things; S=Just give me the facts, please; F=Will anyone get hurt?; and P=Let's wait and see. If these qualities intrigue you, then let's chat!

I usually enjoy the present moment of what's going on around me. I sometimes need to have my own space and time frames. I am loyal and committed to my values and to people who are important to me. I dislike conflict and disagreements. However, I am not forceful with my opinion or my values; and I don't impress them on others.

So are you looking for a woman who is relational, empathic, and loyal? That would be me after we make that true connection, which will take some time.
What I’m doing with my life
I work part time. I like to spend time with friends, go wine tasting, go to the movies, and fiddle around my home. I am not much of a traveler. I only travel when there is a purpose. I am not much of the sightseer type.
Right now I am trying to get use to the idea of widowhood.
I’m really good at
My strengths are:
*Listening, to understand others!
*That I accept everyone as an individual.
*I tend to be responsible.
*I am empathic.
*I see the world in a contextual way.
*And I look for the connections in life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am usually quiet, observant and hard to read. Physically, I have a nice smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read self-help books. Right now, I am reading "Power of 2: How to Make the Most of Your Partnerships at Work and in Life." I also read "Our Daily Bread" everyday.

For movies I like comedies, dramas, thrillers, romances and biographies. I usually stay away from horrors.

Music: I found that I like all types of music - some classical, some country, some soul, some alternative, jazz, easy listening, etc. What I don't like is opera, rap crap and heavy metal.

I like lots of types of foods!
The six things I could never do without
God, family, good friends, good food, good water, and good communication! One more...good wine!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future
On a typical Friday night I am
With good friends, seeing a movie, going to dinner, playing Scrabble or staying at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a people person!
You should message me if
If you are looking to build a strong relationship with someone who is caring, supportive, empathic, responsible, friendly, sensitive, and kind. Also, message me if you are attracted to my personality type, if you believe in God or are open to God, if you are financially stable, and if you like to dance for fun or are open to learning to dance for fun!