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32 F Los Angeles, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 9:36pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
It's become rather unoriginal to be a self-professed nerd, but I think I might still qualify. Mostly because I get really excited about knowing stuff. Stuff is so neat, and so is being excited about it. I'm passionate about singing and the chance to create art in real time, and about finding that elusive balance in life which maximizes joy in the present moment with fulfillment in the future. Ok, that's the official state-sponsored answer. I would also say, "baby, let's snuggle/go for a drive/go try a new restaurant/fly to Italy/stay in bed all day/go for a hike/go to the Hustler store/read Donne aloud/make chocolate chip pancakes/do a career strategy session..." Teach me something new, challenge me, sweep me off my feet and I promise to do the same for you.

And you? You gotta be in it to win it, ready to go all-in. You are ready to envelope your lady inside your sphere of responsibility, protection, love, and awareness. You're whip smart. You make me laugh. You engender respect. You have the courage to communicate with total honesty, integrity, and humor, you have ambition, passion, curiosity, talent (in anything* - just be good at it) practicality peppered with hedonism, and joy.

*Except taxidermy and video games
What I’m doing with my life
Singing opera, teaching voice lessons, and looking to make my life as awesome as possible. Yes, I'm an opera singer. Yes, we exist, we're not all fat, and we live among you...
I’m really good at
Cooking the best Saturday morning breakfast EVER.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think I flirt like a man? Oh, and I'm fit, strong, and curvy like Kim Kardashian (with brains), so if this doesn't make your toes curl with glee, then I wish you well, and may you find all the pre-pubescent boyish blondes our fine city has to offer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Me like reading. Just tore through Band of Brothers, State of Wonder, the Hunger Games Trilogy, The Slight Edge, The Signature of All Things, and The Happiness Project (it was a very productive winter holiday!) I'm determined to finish A People's History of the United States one if these days. For movies I'm a fan of historical dramas, sci-fi, drama and clever comedies. For a night out of live entertainment it's impossible not to have fun at a show at UCB, but I'm always game for (good) live theater or music.
The six things I could never do without
Books, music, learning, good food, sleep, physical contact.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What else I can create.
Whether ambition and satisfaction are mutually exclusive.
The next nifty item I can find to populate my apartment.
What would taste good for dinner.
How to make Italian words sound like what they mean.
How I can be a better singer.
How great kissing is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Staying in and cooking for friends, going out to a movie or a show, strolling a great neighborhood, trying a new restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will always receive more backrubs than I give. I'm not proud of it, but it's the truth. Perhaps we can work out some sort of barter system.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 33–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're the kind of guy who asks for a woman's number so you can pick up the phone and call her like it's 1999, not text her inanely like it's 2014.