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33 Los Angeles, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:35am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Okay), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First things first, here's 15 seconds of me:

It's become rather unoriginal to be a self-professed nerd, but I think I might still qualify. I get really excited about knowing stuff. Stuff is so neat. I'm passionate about singing and the chance to create art in real time, and about finding that elusive balance in life which maximizes joy in the present moment with fulfillment in the future.

Ok, that's the official state-sponsored answer. I would also say, "baby, let's snuggle/go for a drive/go try a new restaurant/fly to Italy/stay in bed all day/go for a hike/go to the Hustler store/read Donne aloud/make chocolate chip pancakes/do a career strategy session..." Teach me something new, challenge me, sweep me off my feet and I promise to do the same for you.

And you? You're ready to meet your person. You like to envelope your lady inside your sphere of protection, love, and awareness. You're whip smart. You make me laugh. You engender respect. You have the courage to communicate with total honesty, integrity, and humor. You have ambition, passion, curiosity, talent (in anything* - just be good at it) practicality peppered with hedonism, and joy.

Oh, and just took that nifty Myers-Briggs test, and I'm ENTJ, which apparently is the rarest type for women.

*Except taxidermy and video games
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Singing opera, teaching voice lessons, and looking to make my life as awesome as possible. Yes, I'm an opera singer. Yes, we exist, we don't all wear horned helmets, and we live among you...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking the best Saturday morning breakfast ever.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think I flirt like a man?

I rock the curves like a Kardashian (with brains) but I can hold my own in a Crossfit gym. If this doesn't make your toes curl with glee, then I wish you well, and may you find all the pre-pubescent boyish blondes our fine city has to offer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Podcasts, where have you been all my life? TED Radio Hour, 99% Invisible, Radiolab... Now it's practically guaranteed that I will arrive at any commuter destination marginally smarter than when I left.

Me like reading. Currently working through a biography of Marie Antoinette. Other recent reads include anything by Bill Bryson, Bossypants, Band of Brothers, The Signature of All Things, and The Happiness Project. I'm determined to finish A People's History of the United States one of these days.

I love movies. I'm a fan of historical dramas, sci-fi, drama and clever comedies. Ask me about my random skill for identifying film quotes.

For a night out of live entertainment it's impossible not to have fun at a show at UCB, but I'm always game for (good) live theater or music.

And food. Please take me somewhere new and order us your most beloved dish.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, music, learning, good food, sleep, physical contact.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can be a better singer.
What else I can create.
Whether ambition and satisfaction are mutually exclusive.
Googling that random fact.
What would taste good for dinner.
How to make Italian words sound like what they mean.
How great kissing is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking for friends, going out to a movie or a show, strolling a great neighborhood, trying a new restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will always receive more backrubs than I give. I'm not proud of it, but it's the truth. Perhaps we can work out some sort of barter system.
You should message me if
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You're the kind of guy who asks for a woman's number so you can pick up the phone and call her like it's 1999.