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ShimaKaoru

22 / M / gay / Single

Cleveland, Ohio

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Japanese (Okay)

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I am caring, friendly, and easy-going.

My Self-Summary

I'm a pretty laid back person for the most part. I do not like drama or bringing my own life's drama to others. I believe I'm really caring and it seems like I care about others more than they care about me (I could be mistaken). I am really into cultures and looking at things from different perspectives and ways of life. I'm also really into Japanese Culture and Entertainment and can be Otakuppoi at times lol. I like to laugh and have a good time and make other people laugh even though I don't think I'm a funny person. I'm also pretty creative (comes from being an only child my whole life with really noone in the neighborhood) and like theater even though I haven't done it since high school but still like writing plays. I'm also a huge Roller Coaster junkie (and buff I guess) and like going to Cedar Point every year.

What I’m doing with my life

I jsut graduated from college this month with a degree in Chemistry and minors in Math and Asian Studies. Right now, just trying to get used to the real world and get a permanent job with a good pay and benefits. (yay) Hopefully I'll get one soon even though I only graduated a couple o' weeks ago. But for now I'm just workin at the pool at my college again benkyouing the nihongo ^_^. I'm just looking for the one right now who I can care about and who will care about me and I'm ready to fall in love again...

I’m really good at

DDR, learning other languages, caring, being a friend (i guess you'll have to ask my friends lol), anything else is up to your opinion...

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm tall and skinny and have black hair...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like to read manga (Japanese comics) alot. I also used to like to read alot of the French Literature such as The Count of Monte Cristo, Les Miserables, Three Musketeers, etc...

Some of my fav movies are The Matrix, Kill Bill Vol. 1, The Butterfly Effect, American Beauty, Crash, Babel, Freedom Writers, Requiem for a dream etc...

Some of my fav music is Rock, Pop, Techno, and JPop. Linkin Park is my favorite band by far and Ayumi Hamasaki is my favorite JPop artist by far.

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The six things I could never do without

Friends, Music, Hope, Family, anime/manga, my computer

I spend a lot of time thinking about

All of the what ifs in life and in my past. The future and what it could bring and just if I'm doing the right things in life or should be doing more. I usually think that I'm wasting my time if I'm relaxing and stuff and should be going out and doing stuff.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with friends, watching TV, etc...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

At home I shower sitting down cause there's a window in the bathroom and I think perverts are going to look in or serial killers are going to try to kill me... lol :(

You should message me if

You want to talk to someone who is interested in meeting new people and willing to listen.
If you're looking for someone to be with and hang out with.
You want to.