I am a panromantic (romantic attraction not limited by sex and gender. Seeking romantic companionship, affection, and possibly* intimacy) gray-a (I don't normally feel sexual attraction, ever, and if I do, I don't feel the need to act on it *no this doesn't mean I'm incapable of desiring sex, I just don't go out of my way for it nor do I think about it the same way you do.) genderfluid queer being, first and foremost, this is important for me to mention because I am tired of people getting mad at me and treating me like crap because they didn't take the time to read any of this. (Subject to change)
I am vegan-hippie-dreadhead-gamer with a few issues (which I will disclose at my discretion) and a big heart. I am 420 friendly but I do not partake. I have not found my place in this world yet, but I am seeking it. "He is seeking it, seeking it — all his thought is bent on it." Geek moment! 10 points to Gryffindor if you know the reference. I frequently have movie quotes in mind for certain phrases - well, a lot of phrases and situations, but I try my best to not say them out loud. It's just one of those quirky, awkward things that my friends love about me. Believe me, I am awkward as hell sometimes, but supposedly in an endearing manner, to my friends. I have an odd sense of humor that only people with the same sense of humor seem to get.
I have learned to be my own best friend, and frankly, my life is better for it. I'm not looking for someone to "complete" me; I'd like friends and a partner that compliment me and my lifestyle.
Most days are spent playing with my dog, doing some manner of exercise, talking to my friends in whatever corners of the earth they're in, playing some video game, watching Netflix/Amazon Instant Video/Hulu+, working on a new piece of jewelry, and working on going raw vegan. I'm pretty content with that stuff, and I'm not sure I want to upset the balance I have going on. I might for the right person, though.
I really love making jewelry and I hope to one day have an etsy shop or have my jewelry sold locally - Though, preferably my own shop so I don't have to work for anyone. This is my current goal.
"I have to return some video tapes."
"If you're someone who genuinely believes that women don't deserve or aren't as much as men, you're like the plague. On the big history chart, you're the plague."
"Misogynist. Misogynist – some people might not know where the y goes in that word sometimes. We should reach out to those people. Education. But more importantly, misogynist implies very directly hate and aggressive action against. And most people will think of a misogynist as a sociopath, as an anomaly. Nobody is going to say "I hate them." And quite frankly, many people – most people – don't. As we all know, you don't have to hate someone to destroy them. You just don't have to not get it."
"Genderist. I would like this word to become the new racist. I would like a word that says there was a shameful past before we realized that all people were created equal. And we are past that. And every evolved human being who is intelligent and educated and compassionate and to say I don't believe that is unacceptable." #patheticprehistoricragefilledinbredassclown is apparently "a lot to ask of a hashtag", but I'm going to add it in there anyways. Thank you again, Joss Whedon.