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ShiraTecorum

29 / F / Bisexual / Available

Portland, Oregon

Her Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it matters a lot
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am an eccentric, pagan, queer girl. I am a priestess of many things. I practice massage as often as possible. I love the local pirate culture. I have two primary partners, Feygon, who I live with and the woman that I consider my wife, who lives an unfortunately large distance away from here. I am polyamorous. I date people exclusively of my mates as well as occasionally in concert. My dream is to have a large poly family, though I don't date exclusively for that purpose.

As far as dating, I'm looking for something local and preferably low maintenance. Female, gender queer, or androgynous is a bonus. I do like males as well.

I love Portland with all of my heart and don't have any desire to live elsewhere. Besides brief stints in Hawaii, California, and Corvallis, I have lived here since I was 14. I do love to travel, though. I am hoping to move into the center of Portland soon, and I'm looking forward to exploring the city in new, deeper ways.

I am sensual, magical, and eccentric.
What I’m doing with my life
I just started back at University and I am now attending Portland State University. I am working on a liberal studies degree to get into Naturopathic college. I hope to continue my studies of herbology as well. I am an artist and my mediums tend to be what people might consider crafts or textiles. I do some rather complicated beadwork. I recently taught myself how to knit. I also sew quite a lot. I make costumes and renaissance clothes. I'm looking to start making custom lingerie and I am beginning to make apparel. I recently took up painting with acrylics and it is pretty fascinating. I read a lot. I like to study psychology as well. I am a very social person.

I have recently become very interested in learning how to live in the present instead of dreaming about the future. I am also learning about accepting and loving my fat body. I am beautiful and if you don't think so, don't message me.

I like to push my boundaries and question my ideas. I don't want to live within the confines of learned behavior and societal norms.
I’m really good at
Emotional support roles, sewing, academics, openness, spontaneity, off the wall conversation, wearing bodices, giving sensual affection and relaxing touch, massage, magic, creating, spiritual support, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
Expressive eyes, odd and vibrant personality, and well, sometimes my breasts. I rather like my breasts and they are very large and quite beautiful, but I hope that if someone were to compliment them, they would do so within a well thought out message that included many other things intended to allow me to get to know them better and showed an interest in other parts of me and my life as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a)The 10th Kingdom, anything by Piers Anthony, anything by Anne Rice, JRR Tolkien, The Clan of the Cave Bear (and following series), Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events, Merlin's Descendants, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy and anything by Douglas Adams, The Mists of Avalon, Ecstasy or anything by Robert Johnson, anything about magic, Still Life with Woodpecker. There is more... much, much more. I recently read and enjoyed Stranger in a Strange Land, but I was really upset by the heterocentricity of the book.

b)it varies frequently... currently, The 10th Kingdom, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Labyrinth,Running with Scissors, Dogma and really anything by View Askew, Sleepy Hollow (in any of its forms... a childhood favorite), Ever After (yes, sappy chick movie), The Shape of Things, Dangerous Beauty, anything with amazing costuming, especially period costuming, musicals... I love musicals, Across the Universe, Sweeney Todd (I am rather quite obsessed with this one), Repo: The Genetic Opera, and there really are many more.

c)a little bit of everything... current favs, though are Heather Alexander, Alexander James Adams, Poe, Devil Doll, Inkubus Sukkubus, Tom Waits, Flogging Molly, Rasputina...

d)Mmmm, anything of a nice texture and a rich, sensual taste. Can't stand anything of a spinach-like texture.
The six things I could never do without
Friends and deep relationships, paper/pen or pencil, books, skirts and a good bra/bodice/corset, intimate contact, moonlight
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Jung and all other sorts of psychobabble are interesting to me, as long you know what you are talking about. I think about emotion and psychology a lot. I also like to use my imagination and let my mind create. I think a lot about spirituality and how the world works, my understanding of deities and magic is strange, but it somehow works for me. I also like to think about healing and growth a good deal. Lately I've been thinking quite a lot about how to get a business off the ground.
On a typical Friday night I am
Often I attend plays with my mate and his lady. I enjoy going out drinking or going to clubs. I love to go out to friends' houses or have them come to mine for dinner parties or other types of parties. I hope to be doing a good deal more of that soon. I've been trying to focus a lot on me lately, so you might find me performing whatever personal ritual I have decided to develop to help me get in touch with myself in various ways.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sex and sexual pleasure are an integral part of my spiritual life.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 19–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You are curious, interested, or just generally want some odd conversation. If you have an interesting view on life, your friends are tired of hearing about it and you need a new ear. If you are interested in hearing the continuous babble of an odd creature with a curious nature.

For the most part, unless you are simply fascinating, I'm looking for people who are local to the Portland area.