Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an eccentric
person. I have three primary
partners, two of which I live with and the third lives an
unfortunately large distance away from here. I am polyamorous
. I date people
exclusively of my mates as well as occasionally in concert. My
dream is to have a large poly
family, though I don't date
exclusively for that purpose.
As far as dating, I'm not actually looking right now as I'm
settling into medical school. However, if I were to be interested
in someone, it is much more likely that it would be someone local
and queer. I almost never am interested in cis-gender men.
I love Portland with all of my heart and don't have any desire to
live elsewhere. Besides brief stints in Hawaii, California, and
Corvallis, I have lived here since I was 14. I do love to travel,
I am sensual, magical, and eccentric.
What I’m doing with my life
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I go to school at the National
College of Natural Medicine
. I am studying Naturopathic
medicine. I have
very little time outside of this and my current partners.
I am an artist and my mediums tend to be what people might consider
crafts or textiles. I do some rather complicated beadwork
. I recently taught myself
how to knit. I also sew quite a lot. I make costumes and
renaissance clothes. I'm looking to start making custom lingerie
and I am beginning to make apparel. I recently took up painting
with acrylics and it is pretty fascinating. I also sculpt. Most of
these things are currently on hold because of the medical school
I read a lot. I like to study psychology
as well. I am a very
I have recently become very interested in learning how to live in
the present instead of dreaming about the future. I am also loving
my fat body. I am beautiful and if you don't think so, don't
I like to push my boundaries and question my ideas. I don't want to
live within the confines of learned behavior and societal norms.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Emotional support roles, sewing, academics, openness, spontaneity,
off the wall conversation, wearing intense outfits, giving sensual
affection and relaxing touch, massage, magic, creating, spiritual
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Expressive eyes, odd and vibrant personality, and well, sometimes
my breasts. I rather like my breasts and they are very large and
quite beautiful, but I hope that if someone were to compliment
them, they would do so within a well thought out message that
included many other things intended to allow me to get to know them
better and showed an interest in other parts of me and my life as
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
, anything by Piers Anthony
, anything by
Tolkien, The Clan of the Cave Bear (and following series), Lemony
Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events, Merlin's Descendants
Guide to the Galaxy
and anything by Douglas Adams
, anything about
magic, Still Life with
. There is more... much, much more.
b)it varies frequently... currently, The 10th Kingdom, Eternal
Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
,Running with Scissors
Sleepy Hollow (in any of its forms... a childhood favorite),
, Dangerous Beauty
, anything with
amazing costuming, musicals... I love musicals, Across the Universe
Chicago, and there really are many more.
c)a little bit of everything... current favs, though are Heather
, Alexander James Adams
, Devil Doll
, Inkubus Sukkubus
, and recently I've become quite enamored of the
soundtrack to Hadestown
d)Mmmm, anything of a nice texture and a rich, sensual taste. Can't
stand anything of a spinach-like texture. I have recently figured
out many foods that cause me quite a lot of pain when I consume
them. I have to avoid wheat, beans, soy, and to a lesser extent,
grains in general (though I can sometimes have them in small
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and deep relationships, paper/pen or pencil, books, skirts
and a good bra/bodice/corset, intimate contact, moonlight
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about emotion and psychology
a lot. I also like to use
and let my mind create
. I think a lot about spirituality
and how the world works, my understanding of deities
, but it somehow works for me. I
also like to think about healing and growth a good deal. I think a
lot about social justice
development as well as socialization and how that influences our
experience of the world and what we can do to change the things
that we have internalized.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I spend a good deal of time entertaining loved ones and guests at
my home. I enjoy going out drinking or going to clubs. I love to go
out to friends' houses or have them come to mine for dinner parties
or other types of parties. I hope to be doing a good deal more of
that soon. I've been trying to focus a lot on me lately, so you
might find me performing whatever personal ritual I have decided to
develop to help me get in touch with myself in various ways.
((That used to be the case. these days, I am usually cuddled up to
one of my partners studying or trying to relax after my long week
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sex and sexual pleasure are an integral part of my spiritual life.
You should message me if
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There is some driving reason that we should know each other.
You think we will actually really be wonderful friends.
You don't plan on being particularly demanding of my time.
I don't consistently communicate over the internet, so I'll
probably be wanting to meet within 2 or 3 messages if we are
interesting to one another. I am much more interested in
For the most part, unless you are simply fascinating, I'm looking
for people who are local to the Portland area.
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