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Shockingly

30 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:57pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
You were once a spark that ignited a fire that will burn forever. You began on the end of a matchstick and will end across the universe. Burn down the walls you create by trying to describe yourself in words.

I'm an open book; write what you will.

I am oooOOOooo, aaaaAAAhhh, and rawr
What I’m doing with my life
Fighting that unnecessary need to run and squeeze into the next subway car, because life is too short to be letting the system make you rush or squeeze in all hurdled together like livestock.

When you begin to sacrifice the current moment to more quickly get to the next moment is when you stop living.
I’m really good at
Musi-Artsy-Thinki-Stuff

Dabble in:
Playing the Theremin, Singing, playing the EWI, playing the Piano

Photoshop Art

Dabble in:
FireSpinning Staff

Video Games - League of Legends and Smash Brothers N64

Programming Various languages -- google helps with the syntax ;o, RegEx, SQL to a decent extent -- SQL queries can get pretty damn complex
The first things people usually notice about me
"Are you a musician?" . . . Reply: "Maybe."
"Are you an artist?" . . . Reply: "Also maybe."
"Your hair is so soft!" . . . Reply: "Why are you touching my head?"

or sometimes people don't notice me at all (ninja)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Reading: Chuang Tzu, The Secret of the Golden Flower, Friedrich Nietzsche, Arabian Nights

Chuang Tzu sums up why I'm apolitical:
And so in the days when natural instincts prevailed, men moved quietly and gazed steadily. At that time, there were no roads over mountains, nor boats, nor bridges over water. All things were produced, each for its own proper sphere. Birds and beasts multiplied; trees and shrubs grew up. The former might be led by the hand; you could climb up and peep into the raven's nest. For then man dwelt with birds and beasts, and all creation was one. There were no distinctions of good and bad men. Being all equally without knowledge, their virtue could not go astray. Being all equally without evil desires they were in a state of natural harmony, the perfection of human existence.
But when philosophers and prophets appeared, tripping up people over charity and fettering them with duty to their neighbor, doubt found its way into the world. And then, with their preoccupation with the performance of music, and their fussing over ceremony, the empire became divided against itself.

Movies: The Fifth Element, The Matrix, Mary Poppins

Music:
Electronic: Zero 7, Bonobo, Nightmares on Wax, Quantic
Old School Stuff: The Beatles, Jimi Hendrix, Pink Floyd, Joni Mitchell
Jazzy/Funky: The Greyboy Allstars, John Scofield, Miles Davis, The Brew
Pop: John Mayer, Jason Mraz

Classical (various)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVR3dx8XQ7Y
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4UtIDlWk2D0

Anime:
Cowboy Bebop, Last Exile, Samurai Champloo, Mushishi, XXXholic, Howl's Moving Castle, Spirited Away, Princess Mononoke, Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind

Series:
Game of Thrones, Kings: NBC Series, Star Trek: The Next Generation, Babylon 5, Archer
The six things I could never do without
one life to live so . . . new New NEW!!

The other 3 I can manage without.

Realistically:

I crave stimulation: mentally, physically, spiritually, and I suppose (to a lesser extent) emotionally. ... for some reason the 2 Ls at the end of all those words I just typed naturally but it still feels odd to me that they have 2 Ls.. -- NATURALLY there's another one!!! :o

I really enjoy my dual computer setup, it's almost become an extension of my body as a tool for various forms of information, work, and play. Although part of me wishes I could just tie myself to a piano and only be allowed to perform any form of bodily function after I've learned something new on the piano instead of spending time on the computer :o.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything . . . And then some.

Sometimes I fantasize about very fantastical settings or vague plot elements.

Sometimes I question the nature of reality.

Sometimes I look at my body and think how fucking weird it is to have a body.

Sometimes I get a random tune in my head that (to my knowledge) only exists in my head and I try to record it for hopefully later doing something with.

Sometimes I'm thinking "wtf are they thinking?".

Sometimes I'm caught in thinking about the next step of a programming project leading to all-night programming binges.

Sometimes I'm not thinking about anything at all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Atypical.

Usually a homebody, sometimes not. Love the outdoors, specifically taking deep breaths of fresh air.

Trying to give more of a fuck about not giving a fuck, and just going all out more.. as in: the potential possibilities from moment to moment are entirely dependent on how much you are willing to just go all out and not give a fuck and follow the random awesomeness that is the endless stream of possibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'd consider myself more queer than bisexual since I don't really like labeling the vast universe of sexual attraction, but being listed as bisexual on here lets you interact with more people. (even straight guys.. go figure) Works for me. I think that when we as a species get to the point where the prospect of sex/relationships isn't the strongest force connecting us we will be truly evolved. Also, most "straight" guys I've interacted with on here are primarily interested in sex. I guess it makes sense, curiosity is killer.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
...you feel like it ... especially if you aren't looking for anything in particular but are still drawn to send a message for reasons you don't yet understand.

That said... I'm just really looking for new friends on here, so don't expect me to be "the one". Besides if you think hard enough we are all "the one" and there's no way you should just stop with me.