Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It seems like the true meaning of love has been lost somewhere in a
fog of misunderstanding. There is a thing people call love, but
that thing is not love at all; it is the opposite of love.
Like the woman who loved her new kitten so much that she smothered
it to death. That isn't love. That's selfish indulgence.
Love is tending to a garden whose thorns scratch at your skin but
whose beauty compels you to keep tending. It is not merely picking
all the flowers to put in a vase for your amusement until they
wither and die. It is nurturing the flowers, maintaining and
nourishing what makes them beautiful. Love is putting the
nourishing of that beauty before your own needs. Love is a giving
of yourself, not a taking of something else.
Until people understand this love will always be misunderstood and
the word itself will continue to be diminished as it is used to
mean the antithesis of love.
Love for the sake of love itself. Don't try to cling to it or it
will just wither and die. Nourish it, let it grow, and appreciate
its existence in each moment because those moments will never come
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fighting that unnecessary need to run and squeeze into the next
subway car, because life is too short to be letting the system make
you rush or squeeze in all hurdled together like livestock.
When you begin to sacrifice the current moment to more quickly get
to the next moment is when you stop living.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing the Theremin
, playing the EWI
, playing the Piano
and Smash Brothers N64
Various languages -- google helps with the syntax ;o, RegEx
to a decent extent -- SQL queries can
get pretty damn complex
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Are you a musician?" . . . Reply: "Maybe."
"Are you an artist?" . . . Reply: "Also maybe."
"Your hair is so soft!" . . . Reply: "Why are you touching my
or sometimes people don't notice me at all (ninja
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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, The Secret of the
, Friedrich Nietzsche
Chuang Tzu sums up why I'm apolitical:
And so in the days when natural instincts prevailed, men moved
quietly and gazed steadily. At that time, there were no roads over
mountains, nor boats, nor bridges over water. All things were
produced, each for its own proper sphere. Birds and beasts
multiplied; trees and shrubs grew up. The former might be led by
the hand; you could climb up and peep into the raven's nest. For
then man dwelt with birds and beasts, and all creation was one.
There were no distinctions of good and bad men. Being all equally
without knowledge, their virtue could not go astray. Being all
equally without evil desires they were in a state of natural
harmony, the perfection of human existence.
But when philosophers and prophets appeared, tripping up people
over charity and fettering them with duty to their neighbor, doubt
found its way into the world. And then, with their preoccupation
with the performance of music, and their fussing over ceremony, the
empire became divided against itself.
, The Matrix
, Mary Poppins
Electronic: Zero 7
, Nightmares on
Old School Stuff: The Beatles
, Jimi Hendrix
, Pink Floyd
, Joni Mitchell
Jazzy/Funky: The Greyboy Allstars
, Miles Davis
, The Brew
, Howl's Moving Castle
, Princess Mononoke
, Nausicaa of the
Valley of the Wind
, Kings: NBC Series
Trek: The Next Generation
, Babylon 5
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
one life to live so . . . new New NEW!!
The other 3 I can manage without.
I crave stimulation: mentally, physically, spiritually, and I
suppose (to a lesser extent) emotionally. ... for some reason the 2
Ls at the end of all those words I just typed naturally but it
still feels odd to me that they have 2 Ls.. -- NATURALLY there's
another one!!! :o
I really enjoy my dual computer setup, it's almost become an
extension of my body as a tool for various forms of information,
work, and play. Although part of me wishes I could just tie myself
to a piano and only be allowed to perform any form of bodily
function after I've learned something new on the piano instead of
spending time on the computer :o.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything . . . And then some.
Sometimes I fantasize about very fantastical settings or vague plot
Sometimes I question the nature of reality.
Sometimes I look at my body and think how fucking weird it is to
have a body.
Sometimes I get a random tune in my head that (to my knowledge)
only exists in my head and I try to record it for hopefully later
doing something with.
Sometimes I'm thinking "wtf are they thinking?".
Sometimes I'm caught in thinking about the next step of a
programming project leading to all-night programming binges.
Sometimes I'm not thinking about anything at all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually a homebody, sometimes not. Love the outdoors, specifically
taking deep breaths of fresh air.
Trying to give more of a fuck about not giving a fuck, and just
going all out more.. as in: the potential possibilities from moment
to moment are entirely dependent on how much you are willing to
just go all out and not give a fuck and follow the random
awesomeness that is the endless stream of possibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'd consider myself more queer than bisexual since I don't really
like labeling the vast universe of sexual attraction, but being
listed as bisexual on here lets you interact with more people.
(even straight guys.. go figure) Works for me. I think that when we
as a species get to the point where the prospect of
sex/relationships isn't the strongest force connecting us we will
be truly evolved. Also, most "straight" guys I've interacted with
on here are primarily interested in sex. I guess it makes sense,
curiosity is killer.
Also I enjoy being naked, especially outdoors, and think that
social nudity really isn't all that weird once you get used to it.
Took some friends to a nude beach once and we all had a blast and
afterwards were changing around each other comfortably going like
"huh, this should be weird? but its not.. cool"
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you feel like it ... especially if you aren't looking for
anything in particular but are still drawn to send a message for
reasons you don't yet understand.
That said... I'm just really looking for new friends on here, so
don't expect me to be "the one". Besides if you think hard enough
we are all "the one" and there's no way you should just stop with
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