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35 • Philadelphia, PA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 6:35pm
- Asian, Black, Native American, White
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
I'm a Single parent , Widower(will be a year in March 2015) to a 6yr little boy. He's my 1st priority my life and I can't wait for him to be in college and out my fucking house.
I am a Poly,Kinky, into BDSM, Pro gun, Pro Violence, Gear head Feminist*,Artist, Pro Queer, LGBT, Science channel loving, Cartoon network watching, Game Maker Gamer Nerd, who works out (not often enough but I'm working on it) I am an amazing group of what seems like a massive group contradictions,but it actual comes together quite nicely and I'm always a good conversation.
I don't claim to be a good person, but I'm trying my best, I have been told that I'm awesome to talk to because i'm really good listener.. I have also been told that I'm a pain in the ass because I'm a really good listener
I'm acutely aware of my issues and hangups, I'm constantly in the process of self assessment and Self Improvement I always want to be better than I was the day before.
*I believe that we are equal and everyone's issue are important, at the same time all women are not given the same the regard of Men, And if you tell Men have all of the same issues I'm going to laugh in your face. I am Man who has been Sexual Assualted, Emotional battered and abused, And I'm still Don't have the level concern and fear in my personal safety as 99.9999% of any woman anywhere.
I've been told I see too much,and I have talent for getting into your head. For better or worst I pride myself on working hard enough to understand how people think, but this only after a long time of watching and listening to them.
I also make meals that taste and smell so good that I have made vegans return to the darkside of the tables and not look back.
I have returned to reading American comics, and back to tearing through novels between all of my creative work.
My Things have become contemporary fantasy,
and of course Sc-ifi.
If you have any recommendations i'm all ears
Movies are action movies comedy movies and horror movies
Music anything as long as it's good
TV: Twin Peaks, Full Metal Alchemist (including Brotherhood) Bleach, Naruto, Cosmos, Mythbusters, Good Eats, Outrageous Acts of Science, Worlds Dumbest, Adventure Time, The Amazing World of Gumball, Regular show, Daily show, Agents of Shield, I have Hulu plus, Netflix, Crunchy roll and Amazon Prime.. I could be watching anytime in freaking 12 mins i get free a day.
when it comes to food
not moving and not covered in mayo, mustard and ketchup is about it.
How to improve in all my skills.
Creating a unified theory of sexual encounters (basically an end to bad sex, mind you that is far different then idea of great sex for everyone ., but is the 1st step to getting there)
Oh and Gaint Robots
Or Cooking,, I like to cook. I don't get to go out very often but i don't really mind. its good to spend time with the boy
I also seem to be what i like to call "2nd look" or the get back around to guy but its always ends up with "why didn't we hook up sooner " and i remind then that I did speak to them like 6 months to several years ago
You just want an interesting conversation and can prove the other end
If you are looking to actually make a mental connection before the possibility of a sexual one.
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