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35 M San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

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Native American, White, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Persian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My female friend showed me just how many sick and disrespectful messages women get on this site in just ten minutes.... I would apologize on behalf of all men but they are clearly not men.... Just delusional creeps posing half naked. Nevertheless...I sympathize with what you ladies have to go through and am an advocate of being a gentleman.

That being said..
I'm here looking for a true connection, something tangible with substance.
My interests extend from reggae music on the beach to cooking gourmet meals at home or on the grill. I love being outdoors in the fresh air and doing activities like hiking and exploring new places. I'm not at all into the club seen but I do enjoy meeting new people and am a huge fan of learning. I do like and MMA/boxing for the most part but it's not a mandatory thing that I watch them every weekend, going to an arts fair is just as appealing to me if not more. Aside from going out, a glass of wine and Netflix can be just as good too :-).

Chivalry isn't dead with me. Opening doors, compliments on your beauty, flowers, making sure you're not on the road side when we walk on the sidewalk...I'm a bit old fashioned when it comes to being a gentleman so I'm definitely interested in finding a classy lady
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on my degree in kinesiology while teaching, volunteering, and working at the world's largest telecommunication company.

Moreover, I'm Cultivating positive energy and paying it forward. Doing what I love and looking for a partner to share this adventure called life with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people smile.
Avoiding drama and BS.
Coaching PE
Being punctual
Wine pairing
Finding delicious, random places to eat.

Oh...And I've been told I'm a dynamite chef more than once. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I mostly read about zen philosophy and about martial arts. I also enjoy poetry, art, and scientific articles to keep my mind active.

Tv: Banshee, Fargo, Cosmos, House of Cards, Walking Dead, Archer, American Dad, Game of Thrones, Big Bang, Bar Rescue. Impractical Jokers
I really enjoy standup comedy, Kevin Hart, Jim Gaffigan, Tosh, Chappell, Tommy Davidson just to name a few

I love spicy cuisine from around the globe and am always looking for new places.Indian, Persian, Mexican, Ethiopian, Italian, Asian, I hope you like sushi!

As for music... I could listen to reggae all day. I also like classic and contemporary jazz, rock, hop hop (conscious hip hop like Tribe Called Quest not garbage like Lil Wayne) , country. Anything with soul and heart.
(bonus points if you know who Thomas Newman is)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family
2. Fresh Air
3. Fitness
4. Knowledge
5. Siracha!
6. (This spot is reserved for you)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If Morticians tied their clients shoelaces together that would be a big help if there were a Zombie Apocalypse
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most likely doing the most important activity in the world....
Spending time with family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to be an architect at Vandelay Industries......
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
+If you find intelligence attractive and important.
+If you're true to your word.
+If "u dont tYpe lik Dis".
+If you're looking for true love like Glenn and Maggie. ;-)

Not looking for a hook up....
I'm seeking something with substance