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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:53pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an easygoing, somewhat scatterbrained person. Although I'm usually purposefully doing something, every once in a while I like to stop scampering around, take a deep breath, and enjoy the scenery. I like to think of myself as very open-minded.

I'm polyamorous, and currently have a primary partner.

I try to always have at least one ongoing creative project. I finish about 20% of them. Right now I'm trying to develop a multi-platform educational math game.

I'm socially liberal and fiscally wishy-washy. The closest political label you could stick on me would be Libertarian. I'm all about LGBT rights, feminism, and destroying the gender binary.

My preferred forms of exercise are squash, biking, rock climbing, running, rowing, and swimming in that order.

Born in Russia and moved to the states when I was 7. I still speak, read, and write in Russian fluently.

I have a very low tolerance for people who take themselves too seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live in a triple-decker in Somerville with 10 other people and work for a software startup in Cambridge. In my free time I read, sail, play board games, camp, hike, cook, and try to figure my life out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good listener, have good hand-eye coordination, an excellent imagination and a relatively long attention span. Specifically, I'm decent at programming, writing, math, understanding people and video games.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People tend to think I'm shy, but I'm really not. I just don't like small talk. I like long, meaningful conversations, as well as short, ridiculous ones, just not talking for the sake of talking. I don't find silences awkward.

To quote Mia Wallace:
"That's when you know you found somebody special. When you can just shut the fuck up for a minute, and comfortably share silence."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I try but usually fail to update these often:


For books I'm a big fan of SF: Ray Bradbury, Robert Heinlein, Isaac Asimov, Neil Stephenson, Dan Simmons, Greg Egan, Frank Herbert, and The Strugatsky Brothers. I like to mix in some Terry Pratchett, Douglass Adams or Neil Gaiman every once in a while for comic relief. Also lately I've been reading a lot of history, specifically about the Mongol empire and the WW2 era. Winston Churchill was such a BAMF.

I read a lot of webcomics. Questionable Content, Abstruse Goose, and SMBC are the ones I check regularly.

I like movies that inspire and make me think, but sometimes there's nothing like some simple gratuitous violence. Some favorites are Inception, Serenity, Run Lola Run, Ghost in the Shell, Atonement, Infernal Affairs, Oldboy, Amelie, All the Guy Ritchie films, American Beauty, Good Will Hunting, Princess Bride, The Man from Earth, Burn After Reading, Mononoke-hime, The English Patient, The Matrix, Kill Bill, Inglourious Basterds, and Les misérables(The 1995 one with Jean-Paul Belmondo).

Shows: The Wire, Boston Public, The West Wing, Deadwood, House of Cards, Samurai Champloo, Cowboy Bebop, Ghost in the Shell, Attack on Titan

I listen to a lot of Russian rock and metal, mellow indie rock with mostly female vocals, some classic, a lot of random pop and techno, and RAMMSTEIN.

Every once in a while I have Eminem phases.

Whiteyes is amazing cloud-watching music.

Been getting into Pendulum and other similar electronic music recently.

I like to get my nom-noms on. My favorie food varies a lot, but semi-constant favorites include dumplings, sushi, meat pies, hot & sour soup, and muffins.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hmm. There's really no THING I could NEVER do without. I guess I'm not a very materialistic person...

That sounds a bit pretentious. The most important objects in my life would have to be my laptop, my multi-tool, my phone, my Kindle, my notepad, and comfy shoes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The technological singularity. Probabilities. Magic. And just how fucking beautiful everything is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually doing something with people. Drinking, movie-watching, gaming, running around outside being silly.
You should message me if
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You want to meet up and do one or more of these things:

- Build stuff

- Cook stuff

- Eat stuff

- Drink stuff

- Be my belay bro

- Play board games/video games/MTG

- Go biking/sailing/kayaking/hiking

- Mini-golf

I'm also looking for someone to re-watch Rick and Morty with who hasn't seen it. I want to vicariously re-experience watching it for the first time.