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21 • Chicago, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18-26
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Oct 25
- Straight, Demisexual
- Relationship Type
- Mostly non-monogamous
- 5' 10" (1.78m)
- Working on University
- English (Fluently), Bengali (Fluently)
I'm also good at parallel parking, not having a circadian rhythm, photography, cooking, and avoiding small talk
My library consists mostly of non-fiction and I have a habit of accumulating books faster than I can read them. I also tend to start books late at night and not sleep until I finish them.
I'm currently in the middle of Huxley's Island. It's excellent so far.
I recently read Surely You're Joking Mr. Feynman, and it's one of the best books I've ever read.
I don't think I have once been disappointed by something I've heard on 90.9 WDCB. They know what I like better than I do.
Pink Floyd has been a long-time contender for my 'Island' band
I [used to] spend [more of] my days walking around to various explosions in the sky albums
My exploration into much of the music I listen to today started after I started seeing The Beatles as more than a cliche
I know what kind of hip hop and rap I like but I don't know how to find more of it
I'm quite picky about the electronic music I listen to but I'm starting to get better at finding things that I like.
That extra exposure or three that I can usually squeeze out of a roll of film
Having friends so good that it made it a bit difficult to live elsewhere, as I recently did for two years
A healthy balance of yearning and fulfillment
The physical communication of affection
But it does have a knob, the door can open. But not in the way you think...The truth is you've already heard this. That this is what it's like. That it's what makes room for the universes inside you, all the endless inbent fractals of connection and symphonies of different voices, the infinities you can never show another soul. And you think it makes you a fraud, the tiny fraction anyone else ever sees? Of course you're a fraud, of course what people see is never you. And of course you know this, and of course you try to manage what part they see if you know it's only a part. Who wouldn't? It's called free will, Sherlock. But at the same time it's why it feels so good to break down and cry in front of others, or to laugh, or speak in tongues, or chant in Bengali--it's not English anymore, it's not getting squeezed through any hole.
So cry all you want, I won't tell anybody.”
― David Foster Wallace, Oblivion
Discovering the influx of people in open relationships on this website after not logging in for a good month or two. You're more than welcome to ask me anything about mine--I'd encourage it if you find yourself curious
Update: currently single, but on great terms with my ex, as I am with all of my past partners
You like people who are radically honest and straightforward--and not only when they are propositioning one for sex
One may call it what what they wish: the kind(s) of partners in which I am interested are those with whom I connect to such a degree that I passionately want to make them feel the best they've ever felt--sexually, emotionally, spiritually, etc--for as long (or short) as feels right.
You've acknowledged that at times I come with my own particular flavor of verbosity, and you're curious to see what It tastes like in a conversation between the two of us.
You appreciate this this notion expressed by Carl Jung:
"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
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