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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-26
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 25
Straight, Demisexual
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Working on University
English (Fluently), Bengali (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I can tie a shoe faster than an one you know.
What I’m doing with my life
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I pursue chemistry and psychopharmacology.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tying my shoes extraordinarily quickly.

I'm also good at parallel parking, not having a circadian rhythm, photography, cooking, and avoiding small talk
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My library consists mostly of non-fiction and I have a habit of accumulating books faster than I can read them. I also tend to start books late at night and not sleep until I finish them.

I'm currently in the middle of Huxley's Island. It's excellent so far.

I recently read Surely You're Joking Mr. Feynman, and it's one of the best books I've ever read.

I don't think I have once been disappointed by something I've heard on 90.9 WDCB. They know what I like better than I do.

Pink Floyd has been a long-time contender for my 'Island' band

I [used to] spend [more of] my days walking around to various explosions in the sky albums

My exploration into much of the music I listen to today started after I started seeing The Beatles as more than a cliche

I know what kind of hip hop and rap I like but I don't know how to find more of it

I'm quite picky about the electronic music I listen to but I'm starting to get better at finding things that I like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The feeling I get when someone walks by humming or singing the same song that I have stuck in my head

That extra exposure or three that I can usually squeeze out of a roll of film

Having friends so good that it made it a bit difficult to live elsewhere, as I recently did for two years

A healthy balance of yearning and fulfillment

The physical communication of affection

Alone time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
“The truth is you already know what it's like. You already know the difference between the size and speed of everything that flashes through you and the tiny inadequate bit of it all you can ever let anyone know. As though inside you is this enormous room full of what seems like everything in the whole universe at one time or another and yet the only parts that get out have to somehow squeeze out through one of those tiny keyholes you see under the knob in older doors. As if we are all trying to see each other through these tiny keyholes.

But it does have a knob, the door can open. But not in the way you think...The truth is you've already heard this. That this is what it's like. That it's what makes room for the universes inside you, all the endless inbent fractals of connection and symphonies of different voices, the infinities you can never show another soul. And you think it makes you a fraud, the tiny fraction anyone else ever sees? Of course you're a fraud, of course what people see is never you. And of course you know this, and of course you try to manage what part they see if you know it's only a part. Who wouldn't? It's called free will, Sherlock. But at the same time it's why it feels so good to break down and cry in front of others, or to laugh, or speak in tongues, or chant in Bengali--it's not English anymore, it's not getting squeezed through any hole.

So cry all you want, I won't tell anybody.”

― David Foster Wallace, Oblivion
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Feeling both smug and guilty after winning bets involving how quickly I can tie my shoes

Discovering the influx of people in open relationships on this website after not logging in for a good month or two. You're more than welcome to ask me anything about mine--I'd encourage it if you find yourself curious

Update: currently single, but on great terms with my ex, as I am with all of my past partners
You should message me if
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You'd like to discuss the potential ramifications of sharing fortune cookies

You like people who are radically honest and straightforward--and not only when they are propositioning one for sex

One may call it what what they wish: the kind(s) of partners in which I am interested are those with whom I connect to such a degree that I passionately want to make them feel the best they've ever felt--sexually, emotionally, spiritually, etc--for as long (or short) as feels right.

You've acknowledged that at times I come with my own particular flavor of verbosity, and you're curious to see what It tastes like in a conversation between the two of us.

You appreciate this this notion expressed by Carl Jung:

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed."