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20 M Chicago, IL

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  • Ages 18–22
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Working on university
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Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I can tie a shoe faster than anyone you know.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently studying neuroscience, psychology, and pharmacology with the goal of researching the therapeutic potential psychedelics and entactogens
I’m really good at
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Parallel parking, being a night owl, photograpghy, skiing, making bad puns, cooking, keeping my sense of direction, and moving past small talk
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pink Floyd, Bob Dylan, The Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Jeff Buckley, TV On The Radio, Syd Barrett, The Decemberists, The Velvet Underground, The Pixies, Ravi Shankar, The Flaming Lips, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Cold War Kids, The Strokes, The Doors, Jimi Hendrix, Smith Westerns, The Shins, The Strokes, Lou Reed, Arctic Monkeys, STS9, Johnny Cash, Bill Frisell, The White Stripes, The Black Keys, Bon Iver, A Tribe Called Quest, Grateful Dead, Wilco, Alt-J, Explosions in the Sky, Darkside (the band, as well as the album).


I recently read Surely You're Joking Mr. Feynman, and it's one of the best books I've ever read.

Right now I'm in the middle of a few different books--Breaking Open the Head by Daniel Pinchbeck, This Is It by Alan Watts, and Carl Jung's autobiography.

I've also been putting off reading Infinite Jest for far too long.


Sherlock, Arrested Development, Wilfred, Game of Thrones, Community, House of Cards, 30 Rock,a nd Futurama,

I need to give this some thought
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"The truth is you already know what it's like. You already know the difference between the size and speed of everything that flashes through you and the tiny inadequate bit of it all you can ever let anyone know. As though inside you is this enormous room full of what seems like everything in the whole universe at one time or another and yet the only parts that get out have to somehow squeeze out through one of those tiny keyholes you see under the knob in older doors. As if we are all trying to see each other through these tiny keyholes.

But it does have a knob, the door can open. But not in the way you think...The truth is you've already heard this. That this is what it's like. That it's what makes room for the universes inside you, all the endless inbent fractals of connection and symphonies of different voices, the infinities you can never show another soul. And you think it makes you a fraud, the tiny fraction anyone else ever sees? Of course you're a fraud, of course what people see is never you. And of course you know this, and of course you try to manage what part they see if you know it's only a part. Who wouldn't? It's called free will, Sherlock. But at the same time it's why it feels so good to break down and cry in front of others, or to laugh, or speak in tongues, or chant in Bengali--it's not English anymore, it's not getting squeezed through any hole.

So cry all you want, I won't tell anybody."

― David Foster Wallace, Oblivion
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You'd like to discuss that which we have in common, or that which we don't

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You would like to see my shoe tying skills