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20 Chicago, IL Man


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  • Ages 18–22
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:04am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Yes, I am using a quote to fill out this section. And yes, it is about how we try to manage the parts of ourselves that others see. Nonetheless, if you like it, along with the rest of my profile, you might just like me too.

Naturally, there's only one way to find out!

"The truth is you already know what it's like. You already know the difference between the size and speed of everything that flashes through you and the tiny inadequate bit of it all you can ever let anyone know. As though inside you is this enormous room full of what seems like everything in the whole universe at one time or another and yet the only parts that get out have to somehow squeeze out through one of those tiny keyholes you see under the knob in older doors. As if we are all trying to see each other through these tiny keyholes.

But it does have a knob, the door can open. But not in the way you think...The truth is you've already heard this. That this is what it's like. That it's what makes room for the universes inside you, all the endless inbent fractals of connection and symphonies of different voices, the infinities you can never show another soul. And you think it makes you a fraud, the tiny fraction anyone else ever sees? Of course you're a fraud, of course what people see is never you. And of course you know this, and of course you try to manage what part they see if you know it's only a part. Who wouldn't? It's called free will, Sherlock. But at the same time it's why it feels so good to break down and cry in front of others, or to laugh, or speak in tongues, or chant in Bengali--it's not English anymore, it's not getting squeezed through any hole.

So cry all you want, I won't tell anybody."

― David Foster Wallace, Oblivion
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently taking some time off school, working and generally enjoying life. Ultimately, my goal is to research the therapeutic potential psychedelics and entactogens.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Giving advice
Paranomasia and wordplay
Parallel parking
Avoiding small talk

Oh, and tying shoes incredibly quickly. I'm not joking--I'm ridiculously fast at tying shoes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pink Floyd, Explosions in the Sky, Nicolas Jaar, Bob Dylan, The Beatles, Bill Frisell, Led Zeppelin, Jeff Buckley, TV On The Radio, The Dandy Worhols, Chopin, Syd Barrett, The Decemberists, The Velvet Underground, Ravi Shankar, Grizzly Bear, The Flaming Lips, Darkside, Tame Impala, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Robben Ford, Sigur Rös, Neil Young, Massive Attack, Cream, The Doors, Jimi Hendrix, Radiohead, The Shins, Lou Reed, Electric Guest, Arctic Monkeys, New Radicals, Broken Bells, STS9, Gorillaz, Johnny Cash, The White Stripes, Bon Iver, Mr. Lif, Grateful Dead, Cold War Kids, The Black Keys, Wilco, Alt-J, Grant Green

Lately I have been reading a lot of non-fiction.

I have a habit of accumulating books faster than I can read them.

I recently read Surely You're Joking Mr. Feynman, and it's one of the best books I've ever read.

Right now I'm in the middle of a few different books--Breaking Open the Head by Daniel Pinchbeck, This Is It by Alan Watts, and Carl Jung's autobiography.

I recently read Surely You're Joking Mr. Feynman, one of the best books I have ever read

Excuse me while I give some thought to the rest of these sections
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The feeling I get when someone walks by humming or singing the same song that I have stuck in my head

A healthy balance of yearning and fulfillment

A pillow with a cold side

That extra exposure or three that I can usually squeeze out of a roll of film

Having friends so good that it made it a bit difficult to live elsewhere, as I recently did for two years

A healthy balance of yearning and fulfillment

The physical communication of affection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the portion of my profile titled "The Most Private Thing I'm Willing to Admit" has completely vanished--I don't see it when I try to edit my profile either. Anyway, you very well may find out if you message me. Remember what I said about being good at Avoiding small talk?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Feeling both smug and guilty after winning bets involving how quickly I can tie my shoes
You should message me if
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You're thoughtful, open-minded, caring, and adventurous.