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Shutter-shy

54 F Pinehill, NM

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:03am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Used up
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Often
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of high school
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
originally from california....
salinas valley, monterey bay, santa cruz, swimming, artichokes, 70s, summer of drugs, runaway, dropout, lesbian softball team, art school, the grateful dead, bicycles, skinny dipping, marriage, daughter, switzerland, england, editorial photography, independent design, runaway, dropout, expunged, rv life, hawaii, divorce....
and now i live in new mexico
What I’m doing with my life
‘i prefer breathing to working'
‘there's never enough time to do all the nothing you want'

I bought a nice house in the dusty heart of nowhere New Mexico that has a spare room that I intend to use as a b&b for artists and photographers that desire a space away from the modern conveniences of the city where they can sit on the porch and listen to the canine cacophony of wolves, coyotes, and dogs while watching the sun set behind piñon and juniper; have access to light and airy studio space; and enjoy the local tourist attractions. Brochure soon to follow...

i use a camera. i play around with a ukulele.
i am negotiating this new lifestyle of droughts and fire warnings.
I’m really good at
making bread and butter pudding
being kind to strangers
swimming
timing
eye contact
art
taking the plunge
The first things people usually notice about me
scowl, smile, infectious laughter
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
'and our faces, my heart, brief as photos'
kate winslet (except for that stupid titanic movie)
guernica hanging in madrid behind bullet proof glass
coltrane, zappa, bartok, patti smith
laguna burger, green chilli chicken burritos from glenn's in gallup
linda montano, marcel duchamp, william wegman
this american life, ted talks, professor blastoff
the sea, sand, and the sun
surfing, swimming, floating
The six things I could never do without
A few friends, telephone service, some old dog hanging around, a ukulele and a camera, orgasms, and gravity.

i long for you
i short for you
i wear shorts for you
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If you haven't got an airplane, take a cardboard box
how to get nowhere
what else i can add to my fuckit list

the type of person i might fall totally, madly, and deeply in love with. was it hannah? during that week on portland bill when i never laughed harder? that week when i wanted to get up at the crack of sunrise to cook your breakfast and pack your lunch and while you worked i cleaned the house and cooked and we entertained and sang and swam in the sea and i made you promise not to tell my husband how capable i was of being a good little housewifey. i had grown tired of him. he never made me laugh and he didn't dance and we had nothing to talk about and i never knew who he was in the 20+ years we were together.

and i think about what i want from the rest of my life and how best to please me because goddamit after having spent my life trying to please my mother (heavens!) and my husband (well?) so that they might love and respect me and that plan went all to shit i'm on another course and i am not willing to make any more sacrifices to my pleasure and am determined to be true to my self which will start with forgiving myself for having waited so fucking long.
On a typical Friday night I am
Singing and playing a ukulele for an audience of two dogs.

I don't know exactly as I often don't know what day of the week it is. I live far away from any nightlife, baby. But even so, there's hardly any day here that is typical. Never know what might happen. For example, my dog went out one morning for her daily constitutional and twenty minutes later came back in the house minus one back leg. Holy moly! And that's what life is like here in the desert. It doesn't care what day of the week it is. And neither do the mountain lions. It isn't for the feint hearted. But come on down ya'll! We love having company up here in the high desert. The locals will swarm ya like a pack of hungry zombies. Mmmmm fresh meat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I shagged a republican and I liked it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 28–82
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
you want to make time in the desert
you have a beach house and want to share
i crave new art and music pals
swimmin pools
movie stars