...overriding your programming,
...carrying out a fantastic dream in your loved one's memory, or
...a 62-mile march through a vast frozen wilderness, sustained by a little hope, a lot of duty, and an amazing display of the northern lights.
ISFJ (Personality profile: http://typelogic.com/isfj.html . ISFJs in relationships: http://www.personalitypage.com/ISFJ_rel.html)
I like to read and talk about science, history and politics. I like both the Green Party and the Libertarian Party. I'm looking for someone who likes visiting museums, zoos, and aquariums,hiking, spending time in nature (especially snow), and live music in small, intimate clubs.
I'm a spiritual person and consider myself Quaker, but I can't really embrace formal religion because of the way religious groups codify morality. I consider the great outdoors as my church.
I don't drive--I take the bus, walk, and have stuff delivered.
My ideal man is equally happy "going out" to walk around the Bolsa Chica wetlands or "staying in" to watch Star Wars or the Lord of the Rings trilogy. And he must be okay with letting the dog sleep in the bed.