Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am intelligent and multi-facted indivdiual and very creative and
artistic. I am a hopeless romantic and demand that the person I get
involved with is a hopeless romantic too. I am caring, sincere,
sympathetic and empathic, kind, loving, giving and generous along
with my time as well. I am a giver in life, not a taker and looking
for the same. I am very monogamous - one woman man and am looking
for same; honesty; no game playing, no head games of any kind.
Looking for someone with integrity, honesty (not when it suits
him), fidelity, passionate about who he is with and his life with
them but not to the suffocating point where it becomes over kill
and too clingy or possessive; everyone needs their own space at
times, non-smoker, non-drinker, no drugs, no body piercings
including no ear piercings, no tatoos, clean cut, masculine, but
love a stache like Tom Selleck. :) A lot of men will try to grow
one, but the skinny skimpy ones aren't that great looking, in my
opinion. I like a man who can carry a stache' well on his face like
Tom Selleck has (wide and thick) or none at all. Not everyone can
pull off a great stache. Yes I know I am particular, but who isn't
in one way or another. A great stache or clean shaven is what I
like. I come from the old school of how a man should be, not the
new one. I like men to look like men. I am looking for someone in
SW VA or close enough to get to SW VA :). Long distance
relationships usuallly never work out unless one party moves
closer. Sorry, not into inter-racial relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I currently work as well as getting involved in the areas I like to
be involved in. Keeping busy and working keeps you young versus
not. I enjoy talking and being with people. And I imagine I will
continue on this path till I can no longer do it. However, once I
get involved most of my attention will go to him, versus to
everyone else, and I would think he would do the same for me.
However, I am not looking for someone who has to be praised 24/7 to
boost his ego only while my own life takes a back seat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am very artisitic and creative. Paint, draw, calligraphy,
needlepoint, knit, arts and crafts, make quilts, interior design,
gourmet cooking, great baker, sing at open mics (something I would
have been too shy to do when I was much younger), have a soprano
voice and sing mostly Streisand songs and songs from the Eagles,
Linda Ronstadt, Journey, etc. Used to sing in a rock and roll band
60-70's music in Michigan. Like to do Karaoke - that is when you
really see who can sing and who can't, LOL. Anything that is
creative I am good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It can go both ways here. I can come off shy (which some people
equate to snobbyness) or I can be upfront and personal; easy to
talk to. Just depends how comfortable I feel around someone.
Attractive, good dresser, easy to get along with, feminine in
dress, easy to talk to on any subject, polite and mannerly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like all kinds of movies, westerns, musicals, dramas, comedy,
horror, mysteries (whodunit), documentaries, cooking shows, cooking
contests, all kinds of music except rap. Books I usually read are
biographies of famous people, or fiction; romance stories as I also
write them. For TV, usually movies, chick flicks, (LOL), winter
olympics, PBS, Discovery.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my son, my two cats, a roof over my head as in a house that keeps
you warm in the winter and cool in the summer, music that I like to
listen to, my lover for life, and great food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A lot of things...whatever creeps into my mind at any given time -
many and varied thoughts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually winding down from a work week and just relaxing; watching a
good movie and eating popcorn and planning out my weekend or
chatting on aol at shesasexxxywtr. Yes I have a short story
published with a small publisher in Michigan.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is nothing at the moment. :) I am not always an open book to read.
"I appreciate a man who likes me for my "mind" and not my body, but
who "plays with my body", not my mind." Capice?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are serious of having a long term relationship for life, as I
am not interested in just chatting...As I said before, I am not
into playing head games. Not into long distance relationships as
they never work out and use too much energy and take up too much
time when it can be spent on someone closer. Looking for someone
closer to where I am or at least has a means to get closer to where
I am or can send me a plane ticket to get closer to him
Anyone who has any kind of intelligence and has worked in the
professional world, usually has no time for game playing and is
serious as they age, to find that someone for the rest of their
life, "come grow old with me...the best is yet to be." Not looking
for many, just that "right" person. This is the last phase of your
life to finally get it right!
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