Find better matches with our advanced
22 • F • Framingham, MA
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–99
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last Online
- Today – 8:35am
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body Type
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Dropped out of university
- Less than $20,000
- Relationship Status
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Yiddish (Poorly), French (Poorly)
All Souls (MacDonald), Catcher in the Rye (Salinger), The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty (Rice/Roquelaure), Encyclopedia of Herbs (Cunningham), Modern Political Thought, Symposium (Plato), The Things They Carried (O'Brien), A Wrinkle in Time (L'Engle), The Bell Jar (Plath)
J.K. Rowling, Plato, Bukowski, Neruda, Plath, Whitman, Frost
Movies and Televison:
I'm kind of a movie whore in that I can enjoy pretty much any movie as long as it's not action for the sake of action, or murder porn, or gaudily "artistic" just for the sake of shock value. I'm much more selective with TV shows because they require more investment. I particularly like film and television with a certain spirit behind it lent by an innovative mind, eye, or hand - Miyazaki films, much of Tim Burton's older work, Ken Burns documentaries. Any film by Adrian Lyne, select ones by Wes Anderson. Joss Whedon is my personal savior (though admittedly? Dr. Horrible and Cabin in the Woods both left something to be desired). I can take or leave Tarantino, if I'm being perfectly honest. I prefer actors who visibly enjoy their work and invest in their characters (Kevin Spacey, Ryan Gosling, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Alexis Denisof, Lauren Graham). I also enjoy thought-provoking subject matter, dark humor, heavy-handed foreshadowing and symbolism, and pop culture references. Favorites include Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Gilmore Girls, Game of Thrones, Broad City, Cold Case, Parks and Recreation, Louie, Nip/Tuck, American Horror Story, guilty pleasure show Pretty Little Liars. I like Jeopardy. I'm not big on Adult Swim. I hate Scarlett Johannson.
I like more music than I can list, but here is some music I love.
Bongo Love; Comrade Fatso and Chabvondoka; Outspoken and the Essence; Ali Farka Touré; Elliott Smith; Ray LaMontagne; Jason Mraz; Damien Rice; Cake; Radiohead; The Shins; The Smiths; The Cranberries; Mazzy Star; The Romanovs; Extreme; Alice in Chains; Mad Season; Disturbed; NIN; Rage Against The Machine; Imogen Heap; Eisley; Iron & Wine; Kate Bush; Beyoncé; Jackson 5; JoJo; Katani Sumner; Otis Redding; The Supremes; Shreya Ghosal; Utada Hikaru; Nujabes; Regina Spektor; Tom Waits; Billie Holiday; Etta James; Lena Horne; Peggy Lee; Ray Charles; Sarah Vaughan; John Mayer Trio; The Cure; Heart; John Lennon; Nick Drake; Zeppelin; Allison Krauss; Gillian Welch; KC and the Sunshine Band; Kool and the Gang; Passion Pit; Pretty Lights; Bassnectar; Kirk Franklin, Mary Mary, Tye Tribbet & G.A.; 2pac; Lil' Wayne; Immortal Technique; Substantial; Yiruma; Debussy; Satie; Mahler; Bach
Everybody Else Is Doing It So Why Can't We (The Cranberries); Fashion Nugget (Cake); Folklore (Nelly Furtado); Begin To Hope (Regina Spektor); Where The Light Is: Live In L.A. (John Mayer); Infinite (Eminem); Cozza Frenzy (Bassnectar); Wincing The Night Away (The Shins); Five Leaves Left (Nick Drake); Noel Gallagher's High Flying Birds; How to Save a Life (The Fray); Illmatic (Nas); Graduation (Kanye); Man on the Moon (Kid Cudi)
Bloody meat, stinky cheese, spicy nuts, burritos, organic strawberries, most berries in general and lots of things that include said berries, citrus, fancy salads, sushi, salmon, raw oysters, mushrooms, honeycomb, things that are chewy, flakey, melty, crumbly, crunchy, creamy, sweet, sour and briny. Probably not all at once. Whiskey and wine. Lots of water and lots of tea. Will try (almost) anything once. Tripe was a mistake.
Also, I don't really have any secrets. Ask me and I'll answer, usually.
or you have realistic expectations of your lovers, like I do.
or you are a sharp, unapologetic, sinewy-armed, loosely fashionable, slightly bookish, free-thinking, stereotype-disregarding, sexually confident wordsmith.
or you'd like to respectfully disagree with me.
or if you're Ben Wyatt, Jess Mariano, Spike, Ryan Gosling, Fred Burkle, or post-suit Wesley Wyndam-Pryce.
and if you are willing to dance with me to this and this.
YOU SHOULD NOT MESSAGE ME IF:
You don't regularly examine how you perceive yourself and the world around you, and how you can affect some kind of positive change in both.
You have nothing more to say than "hi" or "how are you" or "how was your weekend," and expect me to pick up the slack for your lack of conversational skills.
Your profile consists of any of the following phrases: fun, funny, fun-loving, laid-back, down to earth, drama-free, easy-going, love to laugh, love to have fun. You are a robot.
You think friendship, dating, or relationships of any kind necessarily or inherently include mind games, code words, secret messages, lying, "fronting", excessive subtleties, deception, passive-aggression, emotional control, manipulation, or similar.
You feel the need, for any reason, to point out that I have boobs. There is nothing original, intelligent, or funny about saying, "BOOBS!" or "Your tits are huge" or "y u post that pic if u dont want comments" or "you can't take a compliment." (Seriously, just an incredibly arid sample.) Please don't waste your time or mine with that nonsense.
Connect your existing OkCupid account
Restore your account to continue meeting new people.
Reset your password
We’ll email you a link to reset it.
An email is on its way to you. If you don’t see it, try checking your Spam folder.