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22 F Framingham, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:20pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Yiddish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am still so naïve; I know pretty much what I like and dislike; but please, don’t ask me who I am. A passionate, fragmentary girl, maybe.
What I’m doing with my life
Don't you worry yourself. I gotta do this for me. They tell me life is a test, but where's a tutor for me? Pops came late, I'm already stuck in my ways, ducking calls from my mother for days. Sometimes she hate the way she raised me, but she love what she raised. Can't wait to hand her these house keys with nothing to say, except: I'm a born sinner, but I'll die better than that, swear.
I’m really good at
I can make a dress out of a feed bag, and I can make a man out of you.
The first things people usually notice about me
Nothing is original. Steal from anywhere that resonates with inspiration or fuels your imagination. Devour old films, new films, music, books, paintings, photographs, poems, dreams, random conversations, architecture, bridges, street signs, trees, clouds, bodies of water, light, and shadows. Select only things to steal from that speak directly to your soul. If you do this, your work (and theft) will be authentic. Authenticity is invaluable; originality is non-existent. And don't bother concealing your thievery - celebrate it if you feel like it. In any case, always remember what Jean-Luc Godard said: "It's not where you take things from - it's where you take them to."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

All Souls (MacDonald), Catcher in the Rye (Salinger), The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty (Rice/Roquelaure), Encyclopedia of Herbs (Cunningham), Modern Political Though, Symposium (Plato), The Things They Carried (O'Brien), A Wrinkle in Time (L'Engle)

J.K. Rowling, Plato, Bukowski, Neruda, Plath, Whitman, Frost

Movies and Televison:

I'm kind of a movie whore in that I can enjoy pretty much any movie as long as it's not action for the sake of action, or murder porn, or gaudily "artistic" just for the sake of shock value. I'm much more selective with TV shows because they require more investment. I particularly like film and television with a certain spirit behind it lent by an innovative mind, eye, or hand - Miyazaki films, much of Tim Burton's older work, Ken Burns documentaries. Any film by Adrian Lyne, select ones by Wes Anderson. Joss Whedon is my personal savior (though admittedly? Dr. Horrible and Cabin in the Woods both left something to be desired). I can take or leave Tarantino, if I'm being perfectly honest. I prefer actors who visibly enjoy their work and invest in their characters (Kevin Spacey, Ryan Gosling, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Alexis Denisof, Lauren Graham). I also enjoy thought-provoking subject matter, dark humor, heavy-handed foreshadowing and symbolism, and pop culture references. Favorites include Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Gilmore Girls, Cold Case, Parks and Recreation, Nip/Tuck, American Horror Story, guilty-pleasure-show Pretty Little Liars. I like Jeopardy. I'm not big on Adult Swim. I hate Scarlett Johannson.


Because you're probably only really interested in the music that you like too. If you look through a section and see some artists you love and some you've never heard of, you may be pleasantly surprised by checking out the unfamiliar ones. (Please message me if you want other suggestions or have any for me, too!)

African (Blues/Traditional): Bongo Love; Comrade Fatso and Chabvondoka; Outspoken and the Essence; Ali Farka Touré

Ambient/Soft Rock: Elliott Smith; Cake; Radiohead; The Cranberries; Dave Matthews Band; Extreme; The Hush Sound; Imogen Heap; Jason Mraz; Keane; Matt Nathanson

Blues/Jazz: Benny Goodman; Billie Holiday; Boswell Sisters; Count Basie; Etta James; Jane Monheit, Johnny Mathis; June Christy; Lena Horne; Michael Bublé; Nat King Cole; Peggy Lee; Ray Charles; Sarah Vaughan; Frank Sinatra; John Mayer Trio

Classic Blues/Rock: Bob Dylan; Boston; David Bowie; The Cars; The Cure; Eric Clapton; Heart; John Lennon; Nick Drake; Stevie Ray Vaughan; Zeppelin; Pixies

Classical/Symphonic: Carter Burwell; Charles Camille Saint-Saëns; Claude Debussy; Dustin O'Halloran; Erik Satie; Gustav Mahler; Nightwish; Taliesin Orchestra; Trans-Siberian Orchestra; Yiruma

Country: Allison Krauss; Dixie Chicks; Gillian Welch; Lyle Lovett

Disco: Earth, Wind, and Fire; KC and the Sunshine Band; Kool and the Gang; A Taste of Honey; The Whispers

Electronic: Passion Pit; Infected Mushroom; Pretty Lights; Bassnectar; Mimosa; Super Mash Bros.

Gospel: Hezekiah Walker; Kirk Franklin; Kurt Carr; Mary Mary; Tye Tribbett & G.A.

Hip-Hop/Rap: A Tribe Called Quest; Lil' Wayne; Immortal Technique; Afroman; Black Ice; Eminem; Mos Def; Movits!; Nujabes; Steven Coleman; Kanye West ca. Graduation; Kid Cudi; 2pac; Atmosphere; Q-Tip

Indian: Shreya Ghosal; A.R. Rahman; Sonu Nigam

Indie/Alternative: The Shins; The Smiths; The Magnetic Fields; The Kooks; Death Cab; Phoenix

Industrial: Corvus Corax; Faun; Wumpscut

Irish/Gaelic (Traditional): Chloë Agnew; Fiona Joycel; Karen Matheson; Máire Brennan; Mairead Nesbitt; Meav Ni Mhaolchatha; Nancy McCallion

J-Pop/K-Pop: Fairy Fore; Kana Ueda; Kiss; Rie Fu; Shocking Lemon; Utada Hikaru

Grunge/Metal/Hard Rock: Alice in Chains; Apocalyptica; Disturbed; Evanescence; NIN; Nirvana; Puscifer; Rage Against The Machine; KISS; Smashing Pumpkins

R&B: Al Green; Amy Winehouse; Anita Suhanin; Beyoncé; Bonnie McKee; Christina Aguilera; India.Arie; Jackson 5; Jill Scott; John Legend; John Mayer; Jojo; Katani Sumner; Marvin Gaye; Mario; Ne-Yo; Otis Redding; Prince; Ray LaMontagne; The Supremes; Timex Social Club

Other: 311; Damien Rice; Eisley; Flyleaf; Iron & Wine; Kate Bush; Leonard Cohen; Morgan Kibby and the Romanovs; Nelly Furtado; Newton Faulkner; Norah Jones; The Raveonettes; Regina Spektor; Thom Yorke; Tom Waits


Everybody Else Is Doing It So Why Can't We (The Cranberries); Fashion Nugget (Cake); Folklore (Nelly Furtado); Begin To Hope (Regina Spektor); Where The Light Is: Live In L.A. (John Mayer); Infinite (Eminem);Cozza Frenzy (Bassnectar); Wincing The Night Away (The Shins); Five Leaves Left (Nick Drake); Noel Gallagher's High Flying Birds; How to Save a Life (The Fray); Illmatic (Nas)


Bloody meat, stinky cheese, spicy nuts, burritos, organic strawberries, berries, citrus, fancy salads, sushi, salmon, mushrooms, honeycomb, things that are chewy, flakey, melty, crumbly, crunchy, creamy, sweet and sour. Probably not all at once. Whiskey and wine. Lots of water and lots of tea. Will try (almost) anything once.
The six things I could never do without
Righteous indignation x6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Just before our love got lost, you said, "I am as constant as the Northern Star" and I said, "Constantly in the darkness? Where's that at?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Intemperance and business trouble, imaginary female trouble, immoral life, jealousy and religion, laziness, mental excitement, novel reading, nymphomania, over-action of the mind, over-taxing mental powers, periodical fits, tobacco and masturbation, political excitement, bad company, bad habits, bad whiskey, business nerves, congestion of brain, deranged masturbation, dissolute habits, domestic trouble, egotism, exposure and quackery, superstition, greediness, grief, seduction and disappointment, self abuse, sexual derangement.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am blessed with panic attacks and fairly serious anxiety. I'm pretty introverted, stubborn, and self-involved. I tell really drawn out stories, have an opinion about everything, experience some difficulty in decision-making, laugh at my own jokes, talk about tumblr a lot, and sometimes stutter when excited. I swear. Like, a lot. I waver between staunch autonomy and vaguely insecure clinginess, though neither in unsettling excess. I have a penchant for lateness, though I am getting better about it now. I will likely force you to look at this thing I found on the internet, refer to dissident politics and "impolite" or uncomfortable conversation topics, and act shy and withdrawn and possibly totally uninterested if I'm attracted to you (not on purpose; I loathe head games). I have a love/hate relationship with labels and how I apply them to myself. Sometimes I find my own laugh annoying. I will judge you based on your spelling and grammar, sorry in advance. Kind of. I write more formally than I speak, and find this a useful way to demonstrate thoughtful understanding to internet strangers.

On the bright side, I am the essence of "The Maid of Honor": doting, supportive, and grateful in a relationship, and of the Aquarian stereotype: curious, communicative, unconventional, and progressive. Despite my self-consciousness, I am a novice pragmatist, and an eternal realist with an idealist's fervor. I must respect you to love you, and though I relish companionship, I also require a certain level of independence in most things, especially romantic relationships. I believe in openness between lovers, with few exceptions.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
you can accept the fact that as long as you are not Thomas William Hiddleston, I will never truly love you.

or you have realistic expectations of your lovers, like I do.

or you are a sharp, unapologetic, sinewy-armed, loosely fashionable, slightly bookish, free-thinking, stereotype-disregarding, sexually confident wordsmithy fallen angel.

or if you're Ben Wyatt, Jess Mariano, Spike, Ryan Gosling, Fred Burkle, or post-suit Wesley Wyndam-Pryce.

and if you are willing to dance with me to this and this.