Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Woot! Back from China! Feels good but I'm gonna miss it. =) That
'Ello all and welcome. I will give a precursory "to get to know me
better its much better to chat" but here's some words to give you
an idea of what you're getting into:
I like to drink and hang out with friends and strangers. I am just
as at home spending time reading, writing, drawing, musing, and
concocting ideas as I am out and about enjoying an adventure doing
whatever happens to strike me or a friends inspiration (be that
dressing up like pirates, going to a concert (of almost any sort),
driving to the middle of no-where, or battling each other either
with martial arts, digitized personas, boffer weapons, or maybe
just the mind).
Very good at seeing things from multiple view points I make a good
mediator. I tend to let those with more drive take the lead;
however, that does not mean that I will refuse to step into the
leadership role if it is necessary. I prefer to nudge people in the
right direction letting lose potential energy but I don't mind
giving a good shove when it is called for.
Currently relationship wise I am looking for something fun. Maybe a
one night stand, maybe a friend, preferably a bit of both with an
emphasis on the latter. That said if the right person comes along
and knocks me off my rails I am not opposed to eventually getting
into something more serious/long term. Also I should note that in
my heading it says "Bisexual" but its really more "heteroflexible"
or "bicurious" or some such if there needs to be a label. I'm still
exploring that myself. ;) Mostly it means I'm more than happy to
play with anyone but tend to be more interested in guys
romantically then girls, but I find that line getting a bit more
fuzzy. I remind myself of Jamie from the "Girls with Slingshots"
web comic on that note. I'm also driven towards the idea of a
kink/poly/swinger friendly sort of relationship. In the end I hope
to find someone that I can share a strong emotional and physical
bond with, but feel comfortable sharing the experience with others.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Decorating cakes, listening, making people smile, instigating
mischief, cuddling, understanding connections, whatever I say I am
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know I'll have to ask you I suppose ^^
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Must I really choose a favorite?
Movies: are hard for me to pick simply because I usually don't
think much about them in the long run, so while I enjoyed them and
have fun talking about them afterwords, few just readily come to
mind to be like "oh yeah omg I love that one". That said I do
rather like Boondock Saints and Pitch Black. Might add some others
later but I like a bit of all genres though. I'll watch silly
cartoon movies, action packed explosions, sci-fi, martial arts,
dramas, comedies, horrors (both old cheesy ones and some new),
documentaries, musicals (more the old Broadway style movies from
earlier days then the newer ones), ....
Shows: That 70s Show, Myth Busters, a variety of Anime, Dr Who, the
various crime scene shows, Mad Men......
Book: probably the Wheel of Time series
Music: piratical folk punk rock ;) but I enjoy some jazz, techno,
blues, classical, rock of all varieties, and whatever is in between
them all. For some names of some popular bands though I love the
Beastie Boys and Cage the Elephant, they've been a couple of my
favorites for awhile.
Food: So... just got back from China and really missing the food.
So much good tasty om nomness.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The necessities of continued life (ie: food water etc.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The complex intricacies of life... ^^
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well make it any night and remember that my work schedule and every
other persons means things don't just happen on Friday nights
At one of a few parties
Doing something really random
Enjoying a day to myself away from everything
(or more lately studying ;) Just restarted college and am finishing
the upper division courses in a completely different major then
what I started out in, so doing a bit of a scramble to stay up with
You should message me if
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you want to have fun. Whether it be something adventurous or a good
conversation over your favorite beverage.
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