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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 30, 2014
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay), Tagalog (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Woot! Back from China! Feels good but I'm gonna miss it. =) That said....

'Ello all and welcome. I will give a precursory "to get to know me better its much better to chat" but here's some words to give you an idea of what you're getting into:

I like to drink and hang out with friends and strangers. I am just as at home spending time reading, writing, drawing, musing, and concocting ideas as I am out and about enjoying an adventure doing whatever happens to strike me or a friends inspiration (be that dressing up like pirates, going to a concert (of almost any sort), driving to the middle of no-where, or battling each other either with martial arts, digitized personas, boffer weapons, or maybe just the mind).

Very good at seeing things from multiple view points I make a good mediator. I tend to let those with more drive take the lead; however, that does not mean that I will refuse to step into the leadership role if it is necessary. I prefer to nudge people in the right direction letting lose potential energy but I don't mind giving a good shove when it is called for.

Currently relationship wise I am looking for something fun. Maybe a one night stand, maybe a friend, preferably a bit of both with an emphasis on the latter. That said if the right person comes along and knocks me off my rails I am not opposed to eventually getting into something more serious/long term. Also I should note that in my heading it says "Bisexual" but its really more "heteroflexible" or "bicurious" or some such if there needs to be a label. I'm still exploring that myself. ;) Mostly it means I'm more than happy to play with anyone but tend to be more interested in guys romantically then girls, but I find that line getting a bit more fuzzy. I remind myself of Jamie from the "Girls with Slingshots" web comic on that note. I'm also driven towards the idea of a kink/poly/swinger friendly sort of relationship. In the end I hope to find someone that I can share a strong emotional and physical bond with, but feel comfortable sharing the experience with others.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Decorating cakes, listening, making people smile, instigating mischief, cuddling, understanding connections, whatever I say I am ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know I'll have to ask you I suppose ^^
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Must I really choose a favorite?

Movies: are hard for me to pick simply because I usually don't think much about them in the long run, so while I enjoyed them and have fun talking about them afterwords, few just readily come to mind to be like "oh yeah omg I love that one". That said I do rather like Boondock Saints and Pitch Black. Might add some others later but I like a bit of all genres though. I'll watch silly cartoon movies, action packed explosions, sci-fi, martial arts, dramas, comedies, horrors (both old cheesy ones and some new), documentaries, musicals (more the old Broadway style movies from earlier days then the newer ones), ....

Shows: That 70s Show, Myth Busters, a variety of Anime, Dr Who, the various crime scene shows, Mad Men......

Book: probably the Wheel of Time series

Music: piratical folk punk rock ;) but I enjoy some jazz, techno, blues, classical, rock of all varieties, and whatever is in between them all. For some names of some popular bands though I love the Beastie Boys and Cage the Elephant, they've been a couple of my favorites for awhile.

Food: So... just got back from China and really missing the food. So much good tasty om nomness.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The necessities of continued life (ie: food water etc.)
An adventure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The complex intricacies of life... ^^
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well make it any night and remember that my work schedule and every other persons means things don't just happen on Friday nights then:

At one of a few parties
Doing something really random
Enjoying a day to myself away from everything

(or more lately studying ;) Just restarted college and am finishing the upper division courses in a completely different major then what I started out in, so doing a bit of a scramble to stay up with it all)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask ^^
You should message me if
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you want to have fun. Whether it be something adventurous or a good conversation over your favorite beverage.