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26 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:39am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a health nut, with a good sense of moderation. I have high expectations for myself and my own growth, but I'll never impose them on anyone else.

There are lots of things to know about me, and lots of things to know about you. I'm fascinated by people, as we are infinitely complex and unique. And that's just talking about individuals, let alone social and cultural complexities... phew!

I love to ponder, talk, and inquire. I love to slow down, keep quiet, and cuddle. I'm equally impressed by the musical genius who's filling the room with beauty, and that one person in the corner with their eyes closed completely absorbing the experience.

I'm a dancer/movement artist. I train my body in some way every day.
What I’m doing with my life
I started a service four years ago called Cuddle Therapy, where I help others who are lacking intimacy/affection/closeness/companionship. I help them learn how to have these things in their lives. I'm an intimacy advocate.

I'm also on a constant quest to expand my capacity to speak other languages- another form of intimacy and connection. (Why is there no choice between "Okay" and "Fluently" for language skill on this site?)
I’m really good at
Eating, dancing, massaging, cuddling, listening, surprising myself.

In all honesty, the best skill I ever developed was learning/listening. Once I learned how to listen/learn effectively through patience, tenacity, passion, and curiosity, life has never had a dull or unproductive moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
I smile a lot. And I'm probably stretching.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Instead of favorites, habits:

I don't read as much as I'd like; I prefer to watch films in other languages; I don't watch TV; I adore the creation and reception of music; food is one of my greatest pleasures.
The six things I could never do without
I could always do without, but I'll list some things I contribute a lot of my happiness and health to:

Cuddling, instruments, super scrumptious food, words, yoga/exercise, tea
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Current thought patterns: What am I going to eat next? Why does life happen? Will I ever stop loving chocolate this much?
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing, playing music, working, eating amazing food, smiling widely, laughing loudly. At least a few of those things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
These are both equally remarkable, depending on where you're coming from:

I used to work in the tech field.
I used to work as a stripper.

In general, if you want to know something, ask it. The only thing private is from an unasked question. I'm straight forward and honest, which I really appreciate in others, too.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I intrigue you and you think that you would intrigue me.