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27 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:13pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a health nut, with a good sense of moderation. I have high expectations for myself and my own growth, but I'm not one to impose them on anyone else.

There are lots of things to know about me, and lots of things to know about you. I'm fascinated by people, as we are infinitely complex and unique. And that's just talking about individuals, let alone social and cultural complexities... phew!

I love to ponder, talk, and inquire. I love to slow down, keep quiet, and cuddle. I'm equally impressed by the musical genius who's filling the room with a beautiful, visceral art, and that one person in the corner with their eyes closed completely absorbing the experience.

I'm a dancer/movement lover. I stretch my body in some way every day.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I started a community tea house last year in order to provide a space to the city that's a late night, social alternative to the bar scene. So far, hot damn is it going well. That's where I spend a large part of my waking life:

I'm also on a constant quest to expand my capacity to speak other languages- another form of intimacy and connection. (Why is there no choice between "Okay" and "Fluently" for language skill on this site?)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Eating, dancing, massaging, cuddling, listening, surprising myself.

In all honesty, the best skill I ever developed was learning/listening. Once I learned how to listen/learn effectively through patience, tenacity, passion, and curiosity, life has never had a dull or unproductive moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I smile a lot. And I'm probably stretching.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Instead of favorites, habits:

I don't read as much as I'd like; I prefer to watch films in other languages; I don't watch TV; I adore the creation and reception of music; food is one of my greatest pleasures.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could always do without, but I'll list some things I contribute a lot of my happiness and health to:

Cuddling, instruments, super scrumptious food, words, yoga/exercise, tea
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Current thought patterns: What am I going to eat next? Why does life happen? Will I ever stop loving chocolate this much?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing, playing music, working, eating amazing food, smiling widely, laughing loudly. At least a few of those things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
These are both equally remarkable, depending on where you're coming from:

I used to work in the tech field.
I used to work as a stripper.

In general, if you want to know something, ask it. The only thing private is from an unasked question. I'm straight forward and honest, which I really appreciate in others, too.
You should message me if
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If... You want to talk the real talk. I love me some authentic conversation.