In a nutshell, I'm a Erotic Writer and Artist, a Geek, ASMR Lover (Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response), a Science Fiction Lover, an LGBT Supporter, Nintendo and Xbox Gamer (Gamertag: Silken4ssassin), a Dominant Silk/Satin Fetishist and a Maker of Toys, Gags and Silk Fetishwear".
I'd like to admit I do have, what I call, an erogenous sense of humour. Goofy, sexual, pervy, light hearted, clever, witty, but encapsulated... yeah,. I'd call it pretty much erogenous.
And if you'd like to read my stuff then you can find me on Wattpad: http://www.wattpad.com/user/SoftnAndy
Yet here is an example of my writing. Please enjoy, it's a decent look at how my mind works.
'Our True Colours, At the Nexus of Silk & Chain'
And also, bearing in mind I'm a dominant with over 12 years in the lifestyle as a BDSM who has tasted both sides of the D/s coin, you may be wondering what I thought of the 50 Shades of Grey film. Read my 10 page damning review here: https://www.facebook.com/notes/andy-warren/50-shades-of-grey-my-review/10152976961835339
Funny how the next deluge of information could have probably been squooshed into that version above... it's not nearly as exciting to think about. Or as Hugo says from the old CITV cartoon show Victor & Hugo http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ATv26Jtkxqs "That's what I think anyway".
Okay, here goes.
First of all, be warned, I am not for the feint of heart. If you don't have a liking, interest or understanding of kink and fetish then you may wanna pass me on by. I'm not looking to waste anyone's time nor my own. I want a connection, it's... the ideal, love with a twist, but you really need to know what I'm all about, if you're gonna make a judgement call on reading this. If you are open minded and compassionate towards the fetish scene, or would like to, maybe you're already a kinkster (a laymen's term I find) or a wanna be, then do read on. I am seeking a long term, life partner, the real deal. That's what I am striving for. Yet please don't let this make you think I take all this just that seriously. If anything I take myself extremely UNseriously. And I think this is also very very important in life.
Admin stuff aside, let's crack on. I am soft-centred and hot blooded. I adore affection and cuddles, I could cuddle all freakin day. Yet I am an acquired taste to a few who are able to give great compassion and whom are more sexually open and free. Or at least consider themselves to be open-minded and/or curious. If you are indeed curious about the mystery that could be the one that completes you, then please... read on.
I am not that complex but I am a Dominant looking for a submissive, a partner, a confidant, a best friend, someone to give my entire soul to.
I like to think of myself as a kinky romantic. I'm a very sensual and sensitive man and am not afraid to express it, in public as well as in private. I adore femininity and as such am a male feminist.
Yet one thing I would like to say is here in Britain and in the States, there are still hang-ups about people, women in particular being labelled for being too promiscuous. Well, Nope, that opinion is wrong. We should all love pleasure and as long as we take care of ourselves and each other then why can't we express our sexuality more. I know many people don't like the French, but why...?? They're doing something right, and here's why...
I am an artist and my preferred artistic field is... rather frankly speaking, erotic art (There I said it). With a few more branching themes along the same lines. While I am on here to make friends, chat, get to know someone, first and fore-mostly, you will find me an outgoing and very open sexually liberated person.
I write also. Things I enjoy writing would be poetry, stories, scripts. I'm hoping to become a blogger this year sometime.
I have joined the Gym after years of holding back. I never considered myself a Gym-goer yet I have surprised myself at how fit I am and how much I really enjoy it. Don'tcha just love it when you surprise yourself so much it changes your whole attitude and lifestyle.
I’m a smart, caring, devoted and very affectionate man, any partner of mine would need to adore cuddles and affection as much as me, plus a gentle intimacy and a creative mind. You would need to be very compassionate to realise what you have in me. I have a strong, varied, random, sarcastic, pretty sexual, sometimes goofy sense of humour. I'm very much a total people person and I love meeting new people and making new friends. A motto of mine is "what's the one thing you'll find most of in this world?... people, if you can enjoy people, them half the battle is won". Yeah I know, long motto.
I'm not a fan of male bravado and I always say, if it takes no effort to be yourself then why try and be anything else. I'm very reliable emotionally and am often the shoulder to cry on. I love this as I'm a firm believer in doing all you can for anyone. Holding and supporting them while they do what is necessary is something a lot of men I know feel icky about. But my strong hate for bullying has really brought out the vengeful in me. I won't ever sit back and see people get hurt. I follow, back and support SHELTER, a charity that supports victims of domestic abuse among many other noble causes.
I've felt somewhat nostalgic and reflective about my life thus far, and I continue to be. But now I know what I want and when I want it. I have a five year plan consisting of my career, hobbies and where I want to improve myself through means I have existing to me now. And I'm ready to meet someone I can pretty much dedicate my life to. A girlfriend, partner and companion.
As you have read I love art, the history, practicality of it and application of it. I have a bit of a fascination with the Italian Renaissance, yet contradictorily my favourite artist is Constable, his pieces are so romantic and deep to me. I swear when I have that house my family and I live in I will have his framed artworks in a few places.
I don't have any pets, no dogs are allowed in the house as my Mum is scared of them. But I adore them and as I can't YET have any I give to the Dogs Trust every month, to 2 dogs, Jason and Tyson.
I love to talk a lot sure, but I also have a huge thing for listening too. I hope the woman reading this is compassionate and open minded. I'm not your average man yet smarter than your average bear. And a damn sight cuddlier too. ;)
One, maybe controversial aspect about me is that besides being very sex-positive I also support those in the Sex-worker lifestyle. I have a very open opinion on this, I do not turn a blind cheek or eye to it. Call it what you will but it's not going away and all I want for those who place themselves in the risk of randy potentially untrustorthy clients is that that remain safe. If you're on Fetlife I have an image you may like the look of, it sums up what would do if I were in power, if I were running the country.
The above, is what I would love my partner to wear, Imagine a silky Courtesan working in a modern-day Bordello. I would love to be the guy who influences the government here in the UK to legalise prostitution, set up Bordellos in a few exclusive cities and towns where working girls could afford to look classy, be kept safe from criminal elements, drugs and violence. With medical facilities or a hospital nearby, regular STD checks and a high rate or earnings.... I just see that this would solve more problems than the Arseholes in Whitechapel could imagine or even pass an eye over. Plus it's a fantasy. I wanna revolutionise 21st Century Prostitution. 'It' goes on, you can't deny it does. If you wanna hide from it, then do so. But there's nothing wrong with the girls who wish to or need to 'work'. Let's just get them off the Streets and into somewhere safe, somewhere that they run and where they call each and every one of the shots. If I could have this achievement on my tombstone I would die a very happy and proud man.
It should also be clear I have a huge die-hard fetish for Silk Scarves.
I have also learned that my personality type is an ENFJ-A type. I am a protagonist. See below...