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41 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:18am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Not at all
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I love living in Chicago and I'm having a great time meeting new people. I am looking for new friends and a girlfriend.

I am usually trusting, and honest if not terribly forthcoming at times. Some people think I'm quiet, but those are the ones who don't know me very well. I enjoy getting out and finding a good show to go to, or going for a long bike ride. I like all kinds of food and like to try new restaurants.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm listening to a lot of Spotify and looking forward to visiting my parents in NY in a few weeks. I'm biking quite a bit. I'm petting my geriatric cats a lot.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading books, being a good friend, listening to music, not being bored, going to concerts, biking all the good trails.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look younger than I am.

I'm of average height and I have an excellent sense of humor. YMMV on the humor, but that's what people have told me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a) George R.R. Martin, "I Capture the Castle" by Dodie Smith, Dune, anything by Iain (M.) Banks, Ann Radcliffe, Guy Gavriel Kay, Edna St. Vincent Millay, a lot of sci fi/fantasy stuff b) Dune, Equilibrium, other dark sci-fi stuff, Better Off Dead, Real Genius, The Italian Job, Am�lie, Pulse, Mulholland Drive, Aeon Flux, c) X-Files, Sons of Anarchy, Homeland, New Girl, Big Bang Theory, Pretty Little Liars, Downton Abbey, Breaking Bad, Sherlock, Dexter, d) OTEP, Kate Bush, Hawkwind, Lissie, Porcupine Tree, Pink, Doves, Throwing Muses, Concrete Blonde, Ladytron, Renaissance, Steeleye Span, Mike Oldfield, Redshift, Metric, The Knife, The Mars Volta, electronic music, prog rock, alt rock, hard rock e) sushi, Indian, Mexican, I love to try new food. Anything spicy!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, books, music, my kitties, my phone, my bikes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to wring the most enjoyment out of Chicago. What new bike trail would be fun to try. What book I should read next. Why more women don't like video games.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out and having fun, or home and thinking "Now I can finally get some sleep!" Sometimes, it's just a good night for Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I chose to abstain from alcohol but I don't mind dating a social drinker. I also don't do caffeine, but that's because it makes me really anxious and it's just no fun anymore. I miss caffeine a whole lot more than alcohol. :(
You should message me if
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You like obscure bands, computers, books, cats, or if you are cute, smart, and funny. You would like to go biking (I have a hybrid). I would like to have a partner in crime.

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