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Silly_Sapien

35 / M / Straight / Single

Dublin, Ohio

His Details

Last Online
Today – 7:01pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"Life is a tragedy for those who feel, and a comedy for those who think " -- Jean De La Bruyere

If you don’t take a moment to look past the surface, you’re going to miss quite a bit. That applies to not only this profile and its wonderful author but to life in general. And I am indeed full of wonder. I am positively in awe of the beauty in this world – from the grandiose to the minuscule. Nature, art, music, and literature are treemendous sources of inspiration for me. I have the mind of a scientist and the soul of a poet, and am a very curious fellow – always observing and always learning. I take my time along the road less traveled to appreciate the finer details and special moments that make up life. This has given me an unique perspective and a much deeper understanding of the world around us.

Not to imply there aren’t some very fascinating things on the surface. I am very affectionate and enjoy getting out the Mr. Snuggleupagus costume, so there has to be a physical connection. And while that physical attraction is important, I am much more interested in its complement. There are many characteristics and traits that I value a great deal, but at the least I am looking for someone that eats a healthy diet, lives an active lifestyle, who will inspire me to be a better person, and has a great sense of humor. Mine has no boundaries, varying from the dry and sarcastic to...well, sometimes you wouldn't want to run into my sense of humor in a dark alley!

A few examples of one of my creative outlets:
What did Arnold say when the Schwarzenegger family was deciding which classical composers to dress up as for Halloween?
I'll be Bach.

An obtuse walks up to a triangle in the bar and says 'You don't look quite right but you sure are a cutey'.

While I am ultimately and absolutely interested in a long-term relationship I believe in going slow. Right now I am just looking for someone to share fun times with. Let's get to know each other, share some experiences, make some memories, and if we enjoy each other's company only then can we start mentioning the 'f' word.

I meant 'future', get your mind out of the gutter!
What I’m doing with my life
I've worked hard to have a great career, and I play just as hard. I like to explore and seek out new experiences. I have a lot of varied interests and believe life is meant to be enjoyed.

So I am, though wishing I had someone to share it with.

My dream is to live in the country while enjoying what enrichment the city has to offer, though regardless of where home is it will be surrounded by wildlife. I want a mini-homestead of sorts, so I can live with the land, as opposed to on it. Until then I'm doing whatever I can to live as healthy a lifestyle for both me and the environment.
I’m really good at
Being open-minded, adaptable, oxymoronic, and resistant to labels. I'm atypical, unique, and just like all the others that think they are atypical and unique.

Euchre. Mimicking bird calls. Proofreading. Planning. Dreaming. Strategy. Creating a maze of words that leaves you happily lost within.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd like to think it's my eyes. Perhaps my constant looking around or watching the skies - I find birds and clouds particularly interesting. Butt it might be something else entirely...

The first thing I notice about other people: if they're left-handed or not. I secretly make fun of the latter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a LOT. Depending on my mood I typically rotate between non-fiction, classics, and modern fiction. I feel naked without a new book or two at home. I also feel naked when I don't have any clothes on.

My top three favorite movie are Vitus, Into the Wild, and Good Will Hunting. I love Naked Gun/Airplane/Super Troopers types of comedies, and enjoy most genres except horror (my impressionable mind combined with an overactive imagination makes me vulnerable to nightmares).

I don't watch much TV at all, nor do I want to, so no cable. The only shows I see somewhat consistently are Family Guy reruns and Nature/Nova. I often question why I have a TV at all.

I always thought classic rock was fun to sing along with. I also am a fan of blues, jazz, classical, and anything else folksy or neat. Live music in smaller, more intimate venues: yes! Big, loud concerts: no. NPR.

It's not exclusive, but in the dining room I am fairly adventurous. I am all about variety and trying new dishes. I am a big supporter of local and/or organic foods. I'm excited to have joined my first CSA! Fast food is fast, but that's it. If the list below were expanded to seven sushi would make the cut.
The six things I could never do without
Friends and Family.
Nature and the Environment.
Music.
Laughter.
Creativity and Imagination.
Passion and Romance and Sex (in that order).

If you listed elements or the bare survival essentials for this section in your profile I like you already, nerd.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I am fascinated with psychology and ethology. I enjoy watching, analyzing, and predicting behavior.

I've always felt a special relationship with the natural world, both in a spiritual sense as well as a scientific interest. Consequently I think about such things as GMOs, global warming, evolution, biodiversity, global carrying capacity, pollution, sustainability, etc. quite a bit. Topics such as these are a formidable test for my powers of optimism.

Generally speaking though my mind knows no boundaries. It wanders and wonders at its own pace.
On a typical Friday night I am
As my Friday nights are Tuesday mornings, I'm usually asleep. Not quite the exciting answer you were looking for...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can juggle. I also can wiggle my nostrils. That's the key to winning any staring contest - make the other person laugh!

I'm very open to the idea of relocating.

My answers are hidden because I don't want a sneak-and-peek to replace conversation. I am an open book, so if you're curious, ask!

http://pseudoperfection.tumblr.com/post/4713107957/date-a-guy-who-writes
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
...if you identify with the quotes 'complancency is the death of the extraordinary' or 'love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered with imagination' (Voltaire).
...if you enjoy outdoor activities or simply feel an appreciation for or connection to the natural world.
...if you are susceptible to the magic that surrounds us all.

I enjoy playing a variety of sports so athleticism is certainly a plus. I am drawn to creative types (pun intended), and I find intelligence, an adventuresome spirit, and an open mind to be very attractive qualities.