46 Saint Paul, MN
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My self-summary
I'm really not 46.

Oh wait, fuck, yes I am.

Not really keen of online dating. But it seems like the necessary evil of our time, age and schedules.

Please help me get off this site.

I'm a reader who works in television. I'm smart, but have made stupid mistakes. I'm handy with tools and have assembled Ikea furniture sans instructions. I've cooked in a restaurant and will cook for you, as long as you'll help clean up.

I'm looking for someone to play with... racquetball, skiing, road trips, camping, climbing, bowling, skating, kayaking, shooting (but not hunting), archery, motorcycles, ATV's, fishing, scuba diving, motor boats, and sailing... (list not inclusive and honestly, I only have so much time these days)

If you get me in the right mood sometimes I'm hilarious. I've made more than one person choke on their drink. Thankfully, it's not an everyday experience. More common, it's a chortle.

I appreciate sarcasm, and stupid funny is sometimes still ... well, funny.

If you follow Meyers-Briggs, I have officially self classified myself an ISFP personality. Knowing that has done nothing to change my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Do you like to travel? I like to visit friends and family in CO, NY, CA... I've traveled overseas and there's plenty more I want to see and explore.

I've got a 10 year old daughter and I'm dedicated to being a great dad. That's a reward and a challenge.

I'm striving to be healthier - for my body, head and heart.

But I love food, and frankly some of the tastiest isn't that healthy.

Plus, the winters here are conducive to hibernation... staying in, building a fire (that is, if I had a fireplace) to cuddle by and watching a movie... c'mon spring
I’m really good at
Music, video editing, home improvement projects, cooking, capturing spiders, kissing boo boos, napping.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes and lashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Documentaries, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Californication, Shameless, Jon Stewart, Real Time, Top Chefs, Chopped

As a musician, I listen to everything from Metallica to Yo Yo Ma. Right now I mainly listen to bands like Alt J, Local Natives, Spoon, Foo Fighters, Passion Pit, pretty much what they play on The Current...

I like all sorts of food... Thai, Steak, BBQ, Indian
The six things I could never do without
My daughter
The sun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Are you kidding? My mind is in a constant whirlwind. Life? My life? The environment. My daughter. Work. Love.

I think this OKcupid Quiver bot is starting to take wild stabs... perhaps it should be called OKmaybe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Half the time I love getting turned on to new places and discovering fun things to do. Live music, art, good movies and trying new restaurants always works for me.

I don't hang out in bars unless there's a good reason -- good food, a band, or meeting up with friends.

The other half of the time I'm trying to do fun stuff with my daughter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This profile has been tweaked, revised and slaved over.
You should message me if
You made it this far and think there could be a spark or maybe we'd connect as friends OR you want to give me something valuable like a free trip to Italy, or a lake cabin or something like that...