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44 M Saint Paul, MN

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Based solely on other guys profiles (I snooped) and people I know, I don't necessarily consider myself represtative of most dudes on here.

I'm not really into most team sports. Football, basketball, baseball... I'll take free tickets or watch a game, but generally I don't care, and certainly don't know stats and players. I'm also not really... conservative, not quite a hipster, or a geek, super athlete, amazingly brilliant, electrically charismatic, or a huge drinker (but I do drink).

I like to read, but I can't keep up with the particularly well read. I'm smart, but a few points south of genius. I'm handy, but I know my limits. I love to cook, but don't like cleaning up.

Live in St. Paul, I work downtown MPLS. I've owned several (very small) businesses and fancy myself creative. Contrarily, I can be a semi-professional procrastinator. =)

Sometimes I say some funny shit. I appreciate sarcasm, but stupid funny is sometimes still ... well, funny.

I value honesty... not into drama or games, I'm open and a pretty good communicator. I'm a fan of East Coast straight-up frankness.

I try to stay positive and my goal is to be happy, but I'm not always happy and not always in a good mood. Life can sometimes be trying and difficult.

But I'm white, middle class, healthy and not living in a third world country, millions have it way worse, so I really don't have any right to complain.

I have officially self classified myself a Meyers-Briggs ISFP personality.

I'm easy going, happy at home reading, watching a movie or TV show -- or out dinners, movies, soaking in the energy of a band. Pretty normal stuff... I like having a few close friends.

I can't say I'm a true believer in the perfect partner. Nothing is perfect. Beauty is in imperfection.
Everyone has a past, and surprise, people aren't perfect either. I'm not perfect you're not perfect. There is no perfect. Never has been, never will be... and that's okay.

You? Looks are important. A connection is important. In fact, everything's important! I'm looking for someone to go out with but can be just as happy chilaxing in. Someone who can get dirty (gardening).

I've discovered that OKC isn't a good replacement for meeting in person to see if there's an actual spark... it's merely a facilitator. And enough with only communicating via IM already.

If you made it this far and think you might be a good fit - apply below. If not... don't worry, there're still plenty of good ol regular Joes on here...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I realize this might be making me sound like I'm no fun, but au contraire mon cheri...

I've done some pretty fun shit in my days... Owned a restaurant. Played in some bands. Lived on a boat.

Chances are, I probably like a lot of the same things you do, have either done them, or would like to.

I like racquetball, skiing, road trips, camping - getting outside to play and adventures ... climbing, bowling, skating, kayaking, shooting, archery, motorcycles, ATV's, fishing, scuba diving, motor boats, and sailing... (list not inclusive). Still don't play golf.

Mind you, none of these do I do well or often. Most I've done, others I want to... I'll try just about anything fun, but I'm not exactly Sporty Spice or Mr. Olympia or anything.

I like to travel when I can. Visit friends and family in CO, NY, CA... I've also been to many states, Hawaii, Europe, Mexico amongst other places... I'd love to go back and there's plenty more I want to see.

I love the outdoors -- the beach and the mountains. Lakes, streams, sunsets...

I'm working on being a great dad. I'm trying to live healthier - for my body, head and heart - doing some yoga - (not to pick up girls and not because I really like yoga - In fact I'd rather not work out at all, but I need to do something.) *UPDATE - I'm no longer doing yoga... (or Krav Maga).

I try to eat healthy But I admit it's a battle... I'm quite fond of some pretty unhealthy food... I often get free lunch where I work and the winters here can make me want to stay in, build a fire (that is, when I have a fireplace again) to cuddle by and watch TV...

Trying to figure out when and what kind of dog I should get when I have extra money, time, and a house... oh, and I told my daughter she could have a cat one day, but hairballs suck, so that might not happen anytime soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, video editing, home improvement projects, cooking, capturing spiders, kissing boo boos, napping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes and lashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Californication, Shameless, Jon Stewart, Real Time, Duck Dynasty, Top Chefs, Chopped

As a musician, I've been into everything from Metallica to Yo Yo Ma. Right now I mainly listen to bands like Alt J, Local Natives, Spoon, Foo Fighters, Passion Pit, pretty much what they play on The Current...

I like all sorts of food... Thai, Steak, BBQ, Indian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter
The sun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Are you kidding? My mind is in a constant whirlwind. Life? My life? The environment. My daughter. Work. Love.

I think this OKcupid Quiver bot is starting to take wild stabs... perhaps it should be called OKmaybe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Half the time I love getting turned on to new places and discovering fun things to do. Live music, art, good movies and trying new restaurants always works.

I don't really like hanging out in bars much unless there's a good reason -- There better be good food, a band, or friends to shoot darts with.

The other half of the time I'm trying to do fun stuff with my daughter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This profile has been carefully crafted, revised and slaved over for the past two years and has still failed to find me a match.
You should message me if
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You're kind, compassionate, witty, intelligent, modest, wonderful, etc.... and after reading all of this, you still think you would like me and I might like you.

Or if you want to give me something valuable like a free trip to Italy, or a lake cabin, or something like that.