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45 Saint Paul, MN Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32-44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:39pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Space camp
Has kid(s) and might want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm really not 45.

Oh wait, fuck, I am.
I hate dating. Please help me get off this site.

I'm a reader who watches TV. I'm smart, but I like stupid jokes. I'm handy with tools and have been known to assemble Ikea furniture sans instructions.
I'm a pretty awesome cook, but I don't like cleaning up.

I like all sorts of stuff - racquetball, skiing, road trips, camping, climbing, bowling, skating, kayaking, shooting (but not hunting), archery, motorcycles, ATV's, fishing, scuba diving, motor boats, and sailing... (list not inclusive). But honestly, I rarely do any of that.

Sometimes I say some funny shit. I appreciate sarcasm, but stupid funny is sometimes still ... well, funny.

If you follow Meyers-Briggs, I have officially self classified myself a ISFP personality. And I'd love if you could explain to me what that means, because I have no idea.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I like to travel when I can. Visit friends and family in CO, NY, CA... I've done some traveling overseas and there's plenty more I want to see.

I'm dedicated to being a great dad.

Always attempting to be healthier - for my body, head and heart.

But I'm quite fond of some pretty unhealthy food... and the winters here can make me want to stay in, build a fire (that is, if I had a fireplace) to cuddle by and watch TV...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, video editing, home improvement projects, cooking, capturing spiders, kissing boo boos, napping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes and lashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Californication, Shameless, Jon Stewart, Real Time, Top Chefs, Chopped

As a musician, I listen to everything from Metallica to Yo Yo Ma. Right now I mainly listen to bands like Alt J, Local Natives, Spoon, Foo Fighters, Passion Pit, pretty much what they play on The Current...

I like all sorts of food... Thai, Steak, BBQ, Indian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter
The sun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Are you kidding? My mind is in a constant whirlwind. Life? My life? The environment. My daughter. Work. Love.

I think this OKcupid Quiver bot is starting to take wild stabs... perhaps it should be called OKmaybe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Half the time I love getting turned on to new places and discovering fun things to do. Live music, art, good movies and trying new restaurants always works for me.

I don't hang out in bars unless there's a good reason -- good food, a band, or meeting up with friends.

The other half of the time I'm trying to do fun stuff with my daughter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This profile has been tweaked, revised and slaved over to hopefully find my match.
You should message me if
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You made it this far and think we might be a good fit OR you want to give me something valuable like a free trip to Italy, or a lake cabin or something like that...

OKC isn't a good replacement for meeting in person to see if there's an actual spark... it's merely a facilitator. So let's meet up already!

If not... don't worry, there're still plenty of good ol regular Joes on here...