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41 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:24am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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All for respectful open and poly relationships, but they are not for me. A few of my favorite things are female masculinity, music, sunrise on the East River, combating boredom with constant curiousity, keeping a positive mental attitude in trying times, humor as the highest form of defense against disappointments, rooftops, cybernetics, and keeping a delicate balance of kindness, cynicism and empathy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Hiking or biking on the weekends now that the weather is nice, acting on non-destructive impulse, finding ways to be ridiculous and childish, finding the right mixture of fantasy and reality and livin' for givin' the devil his or her due whenever the mood strikes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Acting w/confidence and conviction in most things and excellent in letting the non-essentials slide. Trying to eat healthy, exercise and take care of myself, but it is a terribly flawed work in progress.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My flaxin' waxin' long beautiful hair
Good listener, great taste and always interesting conversation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Network, Over the Edge, Cockfighter, Bring me the head of Alfredo Garcia, Cave of Forgotten Dreams, A Face in the Crowd, The Wicker Man Original version, Purple Rain, Night of the Hunter, Being There, Holy Mountain, Night and the City, Sunset Boulevard, Days of Heaven, Switchblade Sisters, virtually anything w/Warren Oates or Lee Marvin.

Gene Clark, Townes Van Zandt, Sandy Denny, Karen Dalton, Fairport Convention, Bert Jansch, Fleetwood Mac (Peter Green era and Buckingham/Nicks), 13 Floor Elevators, The Band, and The Byrds. I also like cheesy light AM rock from the 70's, disco, really loud fuzz fueled psych jams.

Working on Americanah and just finished The Empathy Exams.On deck are The Goldfinch, East of Eden and "This Wheel's on Fire", autobiography of Levon Helm, and countless books on psychology and the psyche.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Lovin', touchin', squeezin',books, family (of origin and my chosen family), and my records.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The perfect mix to chart an experience or honor a friend, alchemy as it's applied to the senses, injustice so long as it doesn't take too much away from my own mental health.

Getting back on my bike, healthy foods, having a low stress life and how that's not attainable, but i'll try my best and a glass of wine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinks w/friends, going to see music in some form, film, escaping New York for hiking and adventure and practicing my guitar.
You should message me if
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I have a soft spot for sweet talking yet authentic and straight-forward masculine spectrum folks. You are a positive, kind human being w/good communication skills and healthy levels of anarchy (a controlled fire) and you are not a fool that rushes in.

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