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25 Santa Clara, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 10
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I like playing sports. I have been going to the gym on a semi-frequent basis. I like watching anime and people play video games on Currently I am researching the Prince of Tennis on Crunchyroll!

I am also pretty decent at tennis, and I finally brought my tennis racquets back to Santa Clara. However, I haven't played tennis in over a year and a half. Feel free to message me if you are interested in playing tennis with someone. I follow the professional tennis scene (ATP), and like to watch the Grand Slams on television. I also watch other sports including American football, basketball, baseball, and soccer (futbol).

I am a Christian. I struggle with my faith everyday, but I am always hopeful. During my free time I do go to a church in San Jose every Sunday. I also go to a neighborhood small group bible study every week.

I am super quiet in group conversations. I am a lot more talkative in one on one conversations and I think I have something unique and interesting to bring to the table. I can be pretty weird at times, blurt out random/odd things with perfect timing. I would describe my humor as fairly dark and sarcastic.

I also do have a significant hearing loss, so I have to ask people to speak up. For example, if a person has a naturally clear and relatively loud TV-anchor like voice, then I will have a much easier time understanding that person than someone with a much quieter voice.

Sometimes, I will pretend to understand what a person has said by saying yes or no, rather than asking them to repeat themselves. This can lead to an awkward conversation if their question isn't something that can be answered with a yes or no statement. All that being said, patience when talking with me is definitely something that I have come to appreciate. I know that I am not going to hear everything a person says 100 percent of the time. This is especially true in loud and crowded environments, where my hearing aids amplify all of the noise around me and not just the person speaking.

I do wear behind the ear (bte) hearing aids, which are visible. People tell me that that I have a excellent command of the English language, considering my hearing loss. I do know some American Sign Language, but I haven't used ASL in a long time.

I think I am pretty dense when it comes to dating girls. Like a girl would have to punch me in the face for me to get the hint...(please don't punch me).
What I’m doing with my life
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Working full time in San Jose. Trying to strive for something better with my life, build upon my faith, and make the most of it.
I’m really good at
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Writing, editing, reading, and analyzing information. Being able to understand other people's point of view. Patience and tolerance of others. I think I have a lot of empathy for others as well, considering I have a permanent disability myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I wear hearing aids.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Fahrenheit 451, Brave New World, A Wrinkle in Time, and any book that contains science fiction. Read the first two Hunger Games books.
Movies: The Dark Knight Rises, The Avengers, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy. I really want to go see Captain America 2.
Tv Shows: Supernatural, Jericho (It was good while it lasted), Breaking Bad, Suits, and Community.
Music: Don't have a favorite band, but Coldplay and Five for Fighting are pretty good. With music, I don't really understand the lyrics, so I am more into the music and the beat than what is being said.
Food: I don't have a favorite type of food, but I am willing to eat almost anything except olives. Please don't ask me to eat olives.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Sports
2. The Outdoors
3. Television (with closed captions or subtitles)
4. Friends (The most important item on the list)
5. Church
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what it would be like to be a professional tennis player. I think it would be nice if I was ranked in the top 50, I could go to tournaments all over the world. If I was ranked outside the top 100, then it would be a tough living.

I also think about what the end of the world would be like and hypothetical scenarios that have a one in a billion chance of happening in real life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with friends and working. I need to get out more, I spend too much time at home and watching Netflix or just pining about life in general.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get really excited whenever Roger Federer plays tennis on television. He is my favorite tennis player and athlete in general.
You should message me if
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Feel free to send me a message if you are interested or have any questions about me or my hearing loss! Women who take the initiative are awesome! :)

Not saying that I won't take the initiative, cause I will if the right person comes along.