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36 Indianapolis, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 10, 2014
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a hopeless romantic and old fashioned gentleman. A passionate gamer and writer, and an occasional poet. I love almost anything with a good story; be that a book, game, or movie. And I'm a sucker for any story where the guy gets the girl.

I'd rather spend an evening with friends playing board games or relaxing over dinner and a great conversation than most anything, and about half the time I'm the one cooking that dinner.

I'm a mix of deeply logical, profoundly passionate, and endlessly patient.

Laid-back, light hearted, and outgoing, I care deeply for people, and love animals and the outdoors.

I'm also quick to laugh and a big goof at times.

I believe being a honorable good man is a goal worth striving for.
What I’m doing with my life
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I do my best to make the lives of those I love a little richer and those I meet a little brighter. As for my day job I take care of medical computer systems.

I am very dedicated to the communities I call home and do my best to support them and their members. I also strongly believe in the idea of community in general and in people taking care of their friends and neighbors. As a result I'm often the first called on to lend a hand, a fact I love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a bit of a jack of all trades but I'd say I'm best at teaching. Whether that's teaching a friend how to play a game, breaking a complex concept down into something far simpler or helping a loved one through a rough spot.

I've also got broad shoulders, a good ear to listen, and a big heart. Unfortunately those come with a guy's inclination to always want to fix things which can be both a blessing and a curse.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My voice, I have a very deep bass voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Like I said I love a great story so these lists could go on forever but some high points are:

Books - Edgar Rice Burrough's Martian Chronicles, Steven Lawhead's Song of Albion series, anything by Orson Scott Card, Tanya Huff's The Silvered, Sara Douglas' Wayfarer Series and Melanie Rawn's Dragon Prince and Dragon Star Trilogies.

Movies - Star Wars, The Fifth Element, Princess Bride, Monty Python, Contact, Blade, Aladdin, The Aristocats.... A wide swath of Sci-Fi, Action, Horror, Fantasy, Romance, Family movies and Comedy, however I tend to prefer older comedies to what is popularly funny these days.

Shows - Doctor Who, Doctor Who, Doctor Who and Doctor Who... Oh and a bunch of others as well.

Music - Anything with a good beat or that I can sing to, I used to be in a choir in college and still love to sing. That or Dubstep if I'm lost in a game.

Games - I much prefer tabletop games, board games, card games and role playing games to electronic games as I'd rather spend time with people than play something alone. So a few examples are: Catan, Risk, Monopoly, Magic, Munchkin, Star Wars X-Wing, Fluxx, Nuts, Cards Against Humanity and a recent addition, Zombicide.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love - like a said a hopeless romantic.

A great story - stories are the foundation of our society, whether as history or entertainment they bind us together and help us to share our experiences with each other.

My friends - who brighten ever day.

Games - to challenge and entertain.

My cat - my old man, who has seen me through the best and worst moments of my adult life.

And the last I'll leave blank because I firmly believe we have new things to experience and ways in which we can grow.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything from politics to world social problems to the best way to begin my newest idea for a story or what game I'd like to try next. My mind is rarely silent.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for dinner and a movie. What can I say I love the classics.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pretty open book but you have to ask.
You should message me if
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You know what BDSM is, or are curious, and you understand that it is about far far more than just sex.