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52 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 40-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:11pm
Relationship Type
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It just wastes your time and mine. Thanks.
smartcreativestylishsexy...can you unpackage that?
that's me. and those attributes in others interest me.
please consider, before you read on.

I like quick wit.
the creative process.
a great lexicon.
a great dance partner.
iconoclastic style.
a sensual approach to life.
a bad ass, contrarian point of view.
an open heart.
dark chocolate with salt. damn.

the rest should be an adventure.

I don't mean to sound flippant...i'm just trying to convey that i'm a little unconventional...a little mischievous.

i enjoy intimacy, value honesty and loyalty. i don't jump on bandwagons, i prefer to test and examine.

I've had two interesting careers. i work for social justice.

I like a little stubble, a little edge. if you tend more towards rebel than routine, we're more likely to fit.

if you can rock a hat...i just might melt :)

I'm looking for a male, long-term partner. a good match for me...a late 40s to youthful, mid 50s guy.

I'm also open to new female friendships, perhaps with intimacy, though not essential.

There's really nothing better than the comfort of closeness with someone I completely trust, who is worthy of that trust, and who feels the same ease with me.

I'm 54. This is what 54 looks like. It feels energetic, sensual and confident.

Did you music, dancing, Bell Lightbox, Bloor hotdocs, live theatre, AGO, ballet? Or gallery hopping, window shopping, second hand shops, markets? An americano or fresh cut fries, or ice cream?

Well then, I'm listening...
What I’m doing with my life
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Working with commitment; communing with my teenage son; maintaining close friendships; trying to find the right balance between giving, and taking care of myself
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
word play, finding humour in almost anything, observing with a critical eye, insight, empathy, supporting the people i care about, spotting integrity, remembering details
The first things people usually notice about me
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my hair, style, laugh, vocabulary, and my honesty. although maybe it depends on whether i'm approaching or leaving, ha.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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electric blues, Bogie n Bacall, hot peppers...
k, a little more specific:

SRV, Jeff Healy, Black Keys, Black Crowes, Aretha, Stevie Nicks, Joni Mitchell, Bonnie Raitt, Aerosmith, VH, BB King, Willie Nelson, Van Morrison...always open to suggestions...come on, expand my horizons :)

To Have and Have Not, The Usual Suspects, Unforgiven, All The President's Men, Georgia O'Keeffe, Basquiat...

B&R Pralines and Cream, noodle soup, big salads, fruit and cheese, crusty bread, pizza, good coffee, bold wines, smooth bourbon...

i'm eclectic. i don't play favourites. currently by my bedside: Loving Frank [Lloyd Wright]; The Snowden Files; Persuasion; Frankenstein; Othello; Art History's History.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. beautiful images, designed and natural
2. intelligent men
3. intelligent women
4. intimacy
5. playful wit
6. learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
doing the important things well
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
what's typical? not a fav word in my vocabulary
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
when my dog had knee surgery and he couldn't follow me upstairs for the night, i slept on the couch so he wouldn't be sad and lonely.

i will still break my stride to step on a dried leaf, just to hear that crackling sound.

and i often make my teenage son blush, with my ribald humour. ha!

infer what you will.
You should message me if
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you think we can playfully challenge each other ~ on many levels.