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51 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 30
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
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I'm not drawn to the ordinary. I like edge. Outliers. Those who can see with a critical eye, yet also be gentle and forgiving.

I'm looking for someone unusual. With a little spark. Mischief maybe. A bad boy with a heart of gold?

Honesty, integrity, compassion and generosity are non-negotiables, agreed?

Creativity, a little naughtiness, intelligence, curiosity...all essential traits we would also hopefully share.

I'm a professional woman who chooses to work for social justice. I've had two pretty interesting careers.

In case it isn't already apparent, I'd say I'm unconventional. Carefree and flamboyant, yet also subtle and elegant. Independent yet nurturing. Perhaps a challenge to decipher at first haha.

I love word play, art (especially the visual arts), the creative process, and iconoclastic style. Articulate. Visual. Sensual. Yes!

Confession: I am prone to seduction through words.

So...Dazzle me. Sparkle in my eyes. I promise I will do the same for you.

Let's build friendship, including delicious contact if that feels right. Looking for a great connection. There's really nothing better than the comfort of closeness with someone I completely trust, who is worthy of that trust, and who feels the same ease with me.

Did you music, dancing, Bell Lightbox, hotdocs, live theatre, AGO, ballet? Or gallery hopping, window shopping, second hand shops, markets? An americano or fresh cut fries, or ice cream?

Well then, I'm listening...
What I’m doing with my life
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Working with commitment; communing with my teenage son; maintaining close friendships; trying to find the right balance between giving, and taking care of myself
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
word play, finding humour in almost anything, observing with a critical eye, insight, empathy, supporting the people i care about, spotting integrity, remembering details
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my hair, style, laugh, vocabulary, and my honesty
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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electric blues, Bogie n Bacall, ice cream...
k, a little more specific:

SRV, Jeff Healy, Black Keys, Black Crowes, Aretha, Stevie Nicks, Joni Mitchell, Bonnie Raitt, Aerosmith, VH, BB King, Willie Nelson, Van Morrison...always open to suggestions...come on, expand my horizons :)

To Have and Have Not, The Usual Suspects, Unforgiven, All The Presidents Men, Georgia O'Keeffe, Basquiat...

B&R Pralines and Cream, noodle soup, big salads, fruit and cheese, crusty bread, dark chocolate with salt, good coffee, bold wines, smooth bourbon...

perhaps not my favourite, but i recently really enjoyed reading Loving Frank [Lloyd Wright]; and then i re-read The Great Gatsby; i don't sit still enough these days to read for pleasure...hmm.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. a great lexicon
2. beautiful images, designed and natural
3. intelligent men
4. intelligent women
5. edgy wit
6. learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
doing the important things well
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
what's typical? not a fav word in my vocabulary
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
when my dog had knee surgery and he couldn't follow me upstairs for the night, i slept on the couch so he wouldn't be sad and lonely.

i can still make my teenage son blush with a ribald joke.

more personal disclosures are earned...
You should message me if
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you think we can playfully challenge each other -- on many levels.