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27 M Upton, MA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

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Yesterday – 12:31pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats

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My self-summary
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"Twenty years from now you'll be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did." --Mark Twain

I love walking barefoot, especially in the grass
I'm a connoisseur of proverbs, stand-up comedians, imaginative visual art (though isn't it all, I suppose?), villains, and ideas about language, perspective, and the universe.

I love complex and intellectual things like philosophy, psychology, language, art, neuroscience, anatomy, martial arts, game design, sharing music... as well as the outdoors, nature, and animals. I've been dubbed 'beastmaster' as per my down-to-earthness with all creatures and Saint Francis for my propensity to save every single bug out of a swimming pool before I jump in. My sense of humor is dark, very dark- I could probably challenge you to offend me- and I'm definitely one of the healthiest people you'll ever meet.

My sincere preference is to explore the greater meaningful ideas in life, about the cosmos, about existence, about consciousness and perspective- and this often means getting away from all the noise of our culture. I actively enjoy avoiding the herd. Thinking about myself thinking about myself thinking about myself does get exhausting though, and a good remedy has always been walking into the Coolidge Corner theater in Brookline, picking a movie I've never heard of based on the poster, and relaxing to watch in the cool dark. I mellow out with a few close friends from time to time, offering what I can for deep-thinking discussions before letting loose and backflipping away again into the sunset. Most people know me for being a visual artist, being in super good shape, or being intellectually deep, but as T.S Eliot said, "a kiss is a better fate than wisdom."
Right now: I'm looking to find someone to simply have fun and share like-minded things with.

I went to school to make art for games; drawing, digital illustration, 2D & 3D graphics & animation, interface design, all that awesome stuff.
Though, honestly, I hate the idea of spending my life sitting in front of a screen.

My weakness is brie cheese.

~Believe in yourself, and create your own destiny. Don't fear failure~
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Tearing off my armor. Speaking from my heart, living by my heart, and deliberately getting into positions to grow from my heart. I've worked to un-robotify myself in this culture. I always love meeting new people; exploring the "inexaustible variety of life"- I like that.

For more boring day-to-day life:

Changing it. I currently work for a jack-of-all-trades woodworker as his assistant/ apprentice/ practically therapist. I do woodworking, metalworking, some auto mechanics, general home improvement labor. The job will be ending come August, at which point I'll likely move. For now at the end of a typical day I'm shaking steel dust out of my clothes on my back porch and mending the wounds on my hands.

Also, and more importantly, I constantly work on my artwork to get off my ass and put together a better portfolio to suit myself into the games industry. I've been working months on an iPhone game that I'm making entirely myself (doing the art, animation, writing, design, and coding.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting metaphilosophical ideas; drawing; martial arts; being physically strong; brain games; remembering my dreams; befriending animals; learning new thangs
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Maybe my kindness? People occasionally tell me I look intimidating.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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the Dune series, Ender's Game, Catch-22, Even Cowgirls Get the Blues
Deathnote, Sandman

Ghostbusters, Fight Club, American Beauty, City of God, Memento, 2001 A Space Odyssey, Being John Malkovich, Adaptation, anime

Adventure Time!, Arrested Development, Dexter, South Park, Workaholics, The Whitest Kids You Know, waverlyflams, Samurai Champloo, Evangelion, Naruto

Garbage, Gorillaz, Linkin Park, Radiohead, Phish, Hilltop Hoods, Sigur Ros, The Cardigans, Queen, Filter, Stabbing Westward, The Crystal Method, The Chemical Brothers, she, Nujabes, The Pillows, Asian Kung Fu Generation, Sambomaster

Symphonic music. Chopin, Tchaikovsky, Stravinsky
soundtracks, soundtracks, soundtracks

indie games, Awesomenauts, Yoshi's Island, Killer 7, Viewtiful Joe, Shadow of the Colossus, Castlevania: Aria of Sorrow, Etrian Odyssey, Brain Age, very difficult games
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, good comedy, the internet, healthy food & vitamins, a place outdoors to enjoy, intelligent close people to talk to
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The universe, nature, people, perspective

the pale blue dot
Being conscious and how much breadth my memory has
How effectively I'm nonverbally communicating with my cat
How I'm thinking in language and being aware of that
The opposite gender
Improving my artwork
Beating the goddamn lava boss in Etrian Odyssey 3 without spending half my life grinding
Whether or not to up and give away most of my possessions, take the money I have and just leave
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing, drawing/programming
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't trust easily. I wish I lived in a world where I actually needed to out-think other people as much as I feel I need to.
You should message me if
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If you're interested in meeting people regardless of whether it goes anywhere, so long as it's genuine.

If you're interested in:
Intellectual discussion/debate
Being involved with nature/animals
Video games
Chilling out and just being dorks
Carl Sagan / Terence McKenna / Bill Hicks / Alan Watts

If you know right now that you can't hear my tone of voice, you can't make eye contact with me, you can't see my mannerisms and gestures and body language, you can't hear my intonation. That this text is static, and sterile, and it's the same for everyone, and that communication here is being withered down to writing skills, barely. LOLOLOL; That an online profile is a pretty terrible representation of a person.
Let's grab lunch