Update as of November...I know, I know...I keep hearing that I gotta put up some new pics....sigh.I've been on a health kick for the last 6 months or so, and look a LOT better now...lol.I've lost 30 lbs. or so, and am gettin' kinda beasty...
Anyway,
I am a chef. I collect books.I love to play music and sing.I have a great sense of humor.Honesty and integrity are also very important to me.I like people who tend to be happy...not dumb, but happy in spite of the world's current condition.I can have fun just about anywhere...concert,club,play,museum,or alone.I'm not looking for someone who has a bunch of children as they tend to like me.Sometimes breaking up with the kids is harder than breaking up with he mom.No offense,but if the time comes, I'll make my own.I can only describe myself as romantic with the right person, but not sappy...usually...and never intentionally.Sometime I am the voice of reason,while other times I am a crazy bastard.I don't rely on destiny, nor do I condemn it.I try to temper my passionate nature with practical thought, but of course, that is easier said than done.I think I've managed to be a good guy without being ungodly boring...also easier said than done.I'm looking for someone who can make sense of all my babble, and of course, babble back.Drop me a line.Carpe diem!

I am Idealistic, Smiling, and memorable

Moved to Edwards a couple of months ago, and I love it!

I party well...cook, sing, play music and be merry.Actually,I tend to excel at most things...except dancing,no dice there.

i am a rather charismatic individual... and a big(Not gelatinous) bald guy.I can promise at least one great conversation with just about anyone.I B.M.O.B.

Books....Jeez I collect them, I love them all...I like fantasy and coffee table books for light reading.Movies...Dark Crystal, Legend, Wizard of Oz,Etc. Music...Classical to Otep to the Dead...Hate pop country...Foods...As a chef, I can say with confidence that I like just about everything.

People(preferably those who like me), Days like today...(It's Beautiful outside today), My Guitar, My Books, Fried chicken,open air.

My future, having fun, love, Enjoying being alive, 42
New as of June 1, I'm going to meet my father for the first time on the 10th.I am so excited I could scream...in fact, I may.
Kinda freakin' about it, but not in a bad way.

Working or drinking or at home doing both.

...Hmmm.I lost my Mom in 2000 and I just met my Dad last year.

You are fun and open-minded,you like to be treated well without being bored to death.I'm open to the idea of casual dating or a real lasting relationship.It all depends on chemistry in the long run.
This is new as of 4/01/09...You have to be fun.Decency is imperative, of course, but I do not do prudes...No women who choke on the spice of life, please...with all due respect.new as of 11/7/11...I'm finding myself leaning toward sweet girls with a bit of naughtiness to them lately...inquire within...