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28 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 20
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm one of the least stubborn people I know. I thrive on hearing the viewpoints of others and updating my own worldview accordingly. It's my belief that if people could learn to accept other ways of thinking as valid, we could solve problems a lot faster
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reading, working, watching TV/movies, listening to a lot of new music, hanging with my relatively new circle of friends my (now former) roommate introduced me to.

Also reading many comics, listening to many songs & always on the lookout for the next great one, looking for people that share my eclectic (read: occasionally questionable) taste in movies so I don't have to go to them alone... I suppose a lot of my life is searching- who doesn't love a good quest?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a stickler for grammar, wasting time on the internet, remembering pointless and obscure details about all forms of media. My true passion in life, however, is sharing a movie, band or tv show with someone I care about and seeing them take the same joy from it that I do.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically: My height & thick black hair.

Social: How I can go on at length about certain subjects with eerie accuracy as to the details; my sense of humor, which is hit or miss with most, but a select few seem to enjoy mixture of sunshine and vitriol.

I also have a pretty ostentatious laugh. Someone once told me they wished they could bottle my laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently Reading: S. by J.J. Abrams & Doug Dorst
Books: The Phantom Tollbooth, Hard-Boiled Wonderland and the End of the World, His Dark Materials, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, The Time Traveler's Wife, The Dresden Files, Nero Wolfe mysteries, A Song of Ice and Fire, American Gods

I devour graphic novels. Some of my favorites include Blue Monday, Strangers in Paradise, Astonishing X-Men, Fables, Fell, Flight, Hopeless Savages, Planetary, Chew, Bone, Kick-Ass, Preacher, Scott Pilgrim, Transmetropolitan, and many titles in the Marvel Universe.

Music: Aesop Rock, The Arcade Fire, Atmosphere, The Beastie Boys, The Beatles, Beck, Beethoven, Belle & Sebastian, Andrew Bird, David Bowie, Built To Spill, Johnny Cash, Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds, Chopin, Clearlake, Elvis Costello, Daft Punk, Das Racist, The Divine Comedy, Electric Six, The Flaming Lips, Gorillaz, Handsome Furs, Kraftwerk, LCD Soundsystem, Ted Leo and the Pharmacists, Magnetic Fields, Massive Attack, MC Frontalot, MF Doom, The Microphones, Modest Mouse, Neko Case, Neutral Milk Hotel, Joanna Newsom, OFWGKTA, Pink Floyd, Placebo, Queen, Radiohead, Todd Rundgren, Spoon, Squirrel Nut Zippers, Sufjan Stevens, They Might Be Giants, TV On The Radio, The Velvet Underground, Rufus Wainwright, Tom Waits, The White Stripes, Wolf Parade, Frank Zappa

Movies: Almost Famous, Vanilla Sky, Rushmore, The Royal Tenenbaums, Brick, Fight Club, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, High Fidelity, Kill Bill, Donnie Darko, I <3 Huckabees, Sideways, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Double Indemnity, Fargo, Spirited Away, The Prestige, Singles, Beetlejuice, Matchstick Men, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Ed Wood, The Evil Dead, Memories, Akira, Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind, No Country for Old Men, Magnolia, Pleasantville, Hot Fuzz, Sunshine, Trainspotting, There Will Be Blood, Inglourious Basterds, WALL•E, 300, The Departed, American Psycho, Dark City, Terminator 2: Judgment Day, (500) Days of Summer, The Big Lebowski, The Brothers Bloom, The Dark Knight, Serenity, Inception, The Incredibles, In Bruges

TV shows: Lost, Pushing Daisies, Firefly, Fringe, The Venture Brothers, 30 Rock, Metalocalypse, Battlestar Galactica, Damages, Eastbound & Down, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Arrested Development, The X-Files, Home Movies, Veronica Mars, Archer, Dollhouse, The Office, How I Met Your Mother, Prison Break, Doctor Who, Breaking Bad, Parks and Recreation, Better Off Ted, Superjail!, Community, Justified, Mad Men, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Futurama, The Daily Show, House, Flight of the Conchords, Daria, Robot Chicken, The Colbert Report, Weeds, Game of Thrones, Young Justice, The Legend of Korra

And to paraphrase a slam poet I once saw, I believe that watching reality TV is like eating the fat from a liposuction procedure.

Food: Pork Katsu Donburi, Thai Curry, Chicken Tikka Masala with Garlic Naan, Sushi, Nachos- but I try to keep it to just one of those items a week.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good (comic) book
The Internet
Good food
A friend or two to share any of the above with
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How awesome it is that David Bowie is ingrained into so much of our popular culture.

Why people can't appreciate something good while they have it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday night can range from being out at the movies by myself to being out on the town with my best mates having a gay old time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There are almost no things about myself I'm unwilling to divulge- I've talked with total strangers about all facets of my life just because they were curious.

Something anyone wanting to be involved with me should know, however, is that I'm something of an introvert- which means I enjoy the company of others, but I need stretches of time to myself now and again.
You should message me if
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* You're not looking for something serious right now. I'm not opposed to the idea if it happens naturally. But going into anything, I'd prefer to keep it light all around at the start.
* You don't look for a thoroughly exciting idea for a date from a partner. I have a few locales I know in my area, but I'm not a complex guy. I like to watch movies, listen to music, read, and be witty. I'm looking for a similar gal.

-You cringe when you see bad spelling, grammar, or punctuation.
-You feel you are defined by what you like rather than what you dislike.
-You're able to absorb a movie or a song without talking over it and enjoy discussing what you watched/heard when it's over.
-You'd be interested in sampling the best Indian dinner I've yet had at Udupi Palace in Berkeley. I need more excuses to partake in of their dishes.