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29 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–31
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- May 21
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
Reading many comics, listening to many songs & always on the lookout for the next great one, looking for people that share my eclectic taste in movies so I don't have to go to them alone.
Social: How I can go on at length about certain subjects with eerie accuracy as to the details; my sense of humor, which is hit or miss with most, but a select few seem to enjoy mixture of sunshine and vitriol.
I also have a pretty ostentatious laugh. Someone once told me they wished they could bottle my laughter.
Books: The Phantom Tollbooth, Hard-Boiled Wonderland and the End of the World, His Dark Materials, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, The Time Traveler's Wife, The Dresden Files, Nero Wolfe mysteries, A Song of Ice and Fire, American Gods
Music: The Arcade Fire, Atmosphere, Andrew Bird, David Bowie, Built To Spill, Johnny Cash, Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds, Elvis Costello, Daft Punk, Das Racist, The Flaming Lips, MC Frontalot, MF Doom, Modest Mouse, Joanna Newsom, Queen, Radiohead, Spoon, Sufjan Stevens, They Might Be Giants, Tom Waits
Movies: Almost Famous, Vanilla Sky, Rushmore, The Royal Tenenbaums, Looper, Fight Club, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, High Fidelity, Donnie Darko, I <3 Huckabees, Sideways, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Fargo, Spirited Away, The Prestige, Beetlejuice, Ed Wood, No Country for Old Men, Hot Fuzz, There Will Be Blood, WALL•E, The Departed, American Psycho, Dark City, The Terminator, The Dark Knight, Serenity, Inception, The Incredibles
TV shows: The Venture Brothers, Metalocalypse, Archer, Doctor Who, Parks and Recreation, Superjail!, Community, Justified, Mad Men, Futurama, The Daily Show, Robot Chicken, The Colbert Report, Game of Thrones, The Legend of Korra
A good book
Someone to commiserate about any of the above with.
Why people can't appreciate something good while they have it.
My philosophy on dating:
All jokes aside, I'm looking for something low-maintenance, as stated below. This by no means precludes serious conversations or genuine intimacy, but I'm not planning on planning any overseas vacations or cross-country hikes anytime soon.
Something anyone wanting to be involved with me should know, however, is that I'm something of an introvert- which means I enjoy the company of others, but I need stretches of time to myself now and again.
* You don't look for a thoroughly exciting idea for a date from a partner. I have a few locales I know in my area, but I'm not a complex guy. I like to watch movies, listen to music, read, and be witty. I'm looking for a similar gal.
-You cringe when you see bad spelling, grammar, or punctuation.
-You feel you are defined by what you like rather than what you dislike.
-You're able to absorb a movie or a song without talking over it and enjoy discussing what you watched/heard when it's over.
-You'd be interested in sampling the best Indian dinner I've yet had at Udupi Palace in Berkeley. I need more excuses to partake in of their dishes.
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